3T etiquette question

Robeano · May 2012

Okay for those of you who have come from 3T (or those who are lurking and are from 3T) I have a question for you.

I used to be a very active member on that board before my third m/c. Since I am pregnant again I would really like to post on the graduate post once a week. But since I haven't been active for a while I'm afraid I might offend people and have people think I'm trying to "flaunt" my pregnancy. But I just remember how encouraging I found the graduate post, that I would love to be able to participate in that. So do you think I post or just stick with PAIF?

I appreciate any honest answers, thank you.

kelnyc · May 2012

I remember seeing you there, so I would imagine they would too. It's a grad post, so if they're going to be offended, then they shouldn't even open it. I doubt you'll get any negative response from them, honestly.

tgreenf · May 2012

mg0202:
I remember you from there. Post away, that is what the grad check in is for, I think the vets would like to hear from you!

I agree with this!

janabananac · May 2012

I loved hearing about 3T pregnancies. It gave me hope! I plan to post too (only in a grad check-in though)

eponine7682 · May 2012

Robeano:
Okay for those of you who have come from 3T (or those who are lurking and are from 3T) I have a question for you.
I used to be a very active member on that board before my third m/c. Since I am pregnant again I would really like to post on the graduate post once a week. But since I haven't been active for a while I'm afraid I might offend people and have people think I'm trying to "flaunt" my pregnancy. But I just remember how encouraging I found the graduate post, that I would love to be able to participate in that. So do you think I post or just stick with PAIF?
I appreciate any honest answers, thank you.

I took a 3T break once I started this cycle due to a few personal reasons but I posted on the grad post 2 weeks ago and didn't get any flack. I say post away!

Trish11278 · May 2012

I would definitly post on the 3t grad post. I remember you, congrats! I am so happy for you!

slouise12 · May 2012

I usually only lurk on 3T but I definitely remember you. I think seeing the grads post gives us all hope, so I say post away!

tombomb84 · May 2012

I remember you too. I think you should definitely post in the grad check in - that's what it is for! I think it would only be flaunting if you made a separate BFP post after not posting there for a long time, which clearly you aren't planning on doing!

byrne15 · May 2012

I def. think that it would OK for you to post on the grad check in

Robeano · May 2012

Okay thank you ladies for your insight. I will be posting on the grad thread

hunterjumper102 · May 2012

I think posting on the grad post would be ok, making a seperate post about getting pregnant not so much. That being said I recognize you from 3T and know you enough to know you wouldn't make a seperate post. I think people like me though would enjoy reconnecting with you again through the grad post.

Papps · May 2012

I still post there when I'm around that day, and I'm sure many of them don't know me anymore. I'm willing to be there are people who remember you! I say post away Smile