So our son is in surgery right now. It was scheduled and we've had the date for over a month now. Dh failed to make arangements to be off work, instead planned to "work from home". Well his work laptop has a block on it and he can't sign in to what he needs from the hospital (that part not his fault). So that sucks and he failed to make arangements to pass off his work to a co worker so now he left and went in to work for a few hours. It irritates me that he didn't just make arangements to be off period and not have to deal with it today. Furthermore, he knew he'd be off but made plans to do other things today including getting our air conditioning serviced and working a side job all while we should be here at the hospital. I am here of course but just irritated that he left and had made other plans instead of making his son a priority today. He also doesn't plan to be taking any more time off work. That we had discussed because there's not a lot he can do, but surgery day. I don't know, kind of a big deal. Would you be mad too or am I just over reacting?
Re: Irritated with dh
Being there for you a LO is way more important than work (unless he stands the chance of loosing his job if he takes a day off) or getting the A/C serviced.
I agree.