yah.. so sex, not my idea of fun right now. i cant lay on my back, forget about being on top! there are just no positions that are working... plus the added "lubrication" down there and everything is just not making me feel... lol... like a woman.
anyone else just not feeling it and feeling a little guilty about it, too?
Re: sex? no thanks. anyone else???
I have the opposite problem.. I feel like it lots but DH is totally weirded out by it and so we don't. Lame!
ETA: maybe its useful to mention that even though I feel like it I understand DH feeling weird about it and so I am not really concerned. So stop feeling guilty your DH really should understand.
That's me totally. I am feeling way to huge, stiff, and un-limber to try some crazy position. Last time we tried missionary was like 3 weeks ago and it felt like my uterus was going to pop if he put even a little weight on me, and then we tried lady on top and I kept getting leg cramps and I was totally exhausted before he was even halfway there, let alone me. Plus I felt all huge and flabby. Not to be TMI- but the whole "doggy style"- um... I really don't want to present my hubby with bloated white butt with all the new stretch marks on my hips. Not sexy at all. I've gained weight all over, not just in my belly. And when I bend over you can see these weird indents on either side of my belly that freak me out.
But... now that I am getting closer I maybe want those cervix-softening side effects of sex, and my hubby seems less and less interested. He used to push a little, but not anymore. A bit ironic lol.
^^^this exactly!! i feel so bad some times bc DH works 2 jobs.. and he really seems like he's still into it. apparently my weight gain doesnt bother him at all, and he doesnt understand why i dont feel sexy. bless his little heart, how can i turn that down? LOL.
lately i have noticed that hes not as affectionate as usual. like anytime i would just want to cuddle, it would always turn into sex.. and then i'd have that awkward moment of either i have to give in or tell him that i just wasnt feeling it.
i think i found the solution, last night i unexpectedly gave him some oral pleasure. hes been all lovey dovey ever since! LOL. poor guy just needed some special attention
Haha yeah no. We have had sex less than 10 times since Ive been pregnant.
If only I could go back to the pre-20 wks me and say DO IT!!! With him being active, its just plain creepy for me. Hes so real to me already, I literally feel like Im having sex with a baby on the front of me.
and husband said "I feel like hes watching me" which made me die.
So were mutually creeped out by it, and plan to make up for lost time whenever we can (dont laugh at my naivete!) My husband isnt minding the alternatives however...
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I hear you, but I feel like mine's more hormonal than anything. I just really don't feel like it, and the way I look/feel has diddly squat to do with it. It never really crosses my mind any more, and I don't feel like I miss it.
I sort of feel bad for my husband, but sort of not. Any time he says he wants to, he ends up falling asleep early anyway (hehehe).
claudia poirier
Little Dude: 16 Apr. 2009 | Little Doll: 10 Jun. 2012
I am interested but it is just too difficult! I feel like a whale and all the pulled muscles aren't worth it.
I do feel bad for the H so the other night I told him to go out and find someone else to have fun with for the next few weeks - I didn't care at all. The look on his face was pricesless
And then I got the lecture from him "I am not some kind of animal - I can control myself" But I still got a good laugh from the look on his face!