Our birth mom has been really wishy washy lately and we (DH and I) keep
wanting to talk to her about it but she keeps having crisis after crisis
and not really communicating with us in between the crisis-es (yes I am
making up words, I am allowed today). She is on bedrest now and I have
been trying to get a hold of her and not able to. I called her husband
(yes she has a husband, it is a long story) and he said basically that
she has been avoiding us because she wants to keep the baby and is
afraid to tell us. So there you have it. Another failure. When are we
going to catch a break?
Our Blog - http://thedittemores.blogspot.com/
Dx PCOS 2003/high fasting insulin/clotting issues
DH Dx with low sperm count, motility and morphology.
Varicocele repair (11/1/2010) 2/2011 - Confirmed no improvement - On to Donor Sperm
4 failed IUIs in 2010
IUI#5 and 6- with DS, BFN
Final IUI - Lucky #7! IUI with DS - 20.Jun.2011 - 21.5 mil motile! Not so lucky - BFFN and the end of our IF journey....
Waiting for our family to be complete through Adoption - May 2012 - Hoping our baby finds us soon!
Oh man I am so sorry!!! Huge hugs!! It never gets easier
Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF
Oh Meg - that SUCKS. I wish you didn't have to keep going through this. If I had a break to share with you, I would.
Todd & Kristin, 3.10.07
After 5.5 years of loss, heartbreak, and empty arms, our dreams were fulfilled through the beautiful, selfless gift of adoption. We are amazingly blessed!
I HATE this!! I wish I had better words of encouragement to share. I am so sorry!!
June 2010-Lap b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN PAIF/SAIF Welcome
Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011 Homestudy 7/19/2011 IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frosties
Wow. That sucks. We too have been having multiple crisis-es and are/were wondering the same thing but she says no, she's not changed her mind. Still I know how you felt. Hang in there! It will happen. Adoption Happens.
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After 5.5 years of loss, heartbreak, and empty arms, our dreams were fulfilled through the beautiful, selfless gift of adoption. We are amazingly blessed!
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i'm soo sorry
hang in there
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
PAIF/SAIF Welcome
Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frosties
TTC September 2010 thru October 2011
SA February 2011: Normal
RE App. October 2011 - Recc. Clomid and IUI
Taking a break from TTC to pursue adoption
Met our 2 year old son in Russia July 2012!
Court trip October 2012
Home November 24 2012!
Back to RE Summer 2013. TTC journey continues:
Dx DOR, endometriosis, low sperm count
Clomid + IUI#1, #2 = BFN / IUI #3 = ???
Laparoscopy scheduled December 2013
Wow. That sucks. We too have been having multiple crisis-es and are/were wondering the same thing but she says no, she's not changed her mind. Still I know how you felt. Hang in there! It will happen. Adoption Happens.