I feel like a broken record but nobody gets it except you ladies. I just can not stop crying. It happens randomly- i was great all day today and tonight i'm a mess. I was watching the voice and one of the contestants was shown kissing his wifes preggo belly. I lost it completely and ive been crying since 9:00 when I saw it.
On top of it I'm pissed at DH. He was amazingly supportive last week and now he seems to be ignoring the fact that we lost a baby a week ago. He doesn't want to talk about it and he wants me to try to stop crying. He tries to cheer me up with his usual goofy stupid jokes but when i'm crying i just want to punch him in the face when he does that. Just shut up and give me a hug don't try to avoid the subject. UGHHHH!
sorry had to let that all out
Re: I need to vent a little ...
Sounds like you could be talking exactly about me and my DH. It has been two weeks since our m/c and I have cried every single day and my DH is completely over it and is trying to cheer me up and I just want him to just be freakin sad with me as well.
As for posting about your vents--like PP said thats what we are here for and I have posted plenty to vent!
I hope you get some rest. But I can't say much as I am up at 1:45... I never struggled with insomnia until this happened
I agree with the PP - men just seem to process these things differently. It doesn't mean they are not sad or that they are over it. My husband has been a rock through both mc's. If he has cried, he hasn't shown me. Instead he tries to cheer me up and just gives me hugs. That's all I need from him. It is different for us - we feel everything, emotionally and physically.
I think its good that you let him know how you're feeling and that he doesn't need to try so hard to make you laugh - just hug you and let you cry. If its one thing I have learned - if you sit around expecting them to figure it out, you will be waiting a really long time!