Luckily we came to an agreement on this before we ever even got engaged lol! The names for the boys are Nicholas Otto and Walker Robert or Robert Walker. Otto is a name from my husband's family and I thought Nicholas went well with it. Robert is from both of our families and Walker is from my family. The girl name we have picked out is Charlotte Ann. We both love Charlotte and Ann is a family name for both of us. It's back to the drawing board if we have three or more boys or two girls lol. But I thought we did great blending names from both families.
Re: Picked out baby names long ago...
DH and I were in the same boat all of our names were picked out...but we keep finding names we love! We are having a boy and Peter Owen was always the name in our minds. Peter was to honor DH's dad's middle name, Owen was to honor my family (it is Welsh and means Evan which is close to my maiden name Evans). We thought we had done a good job of honoring both families, but now my dad is mad we aren't using his MN of Michael. You can never make everyone happy. Now we are thinking Evan Gregory, Simon Ambrose, or Owen Peter.
Good luck with your names! Debating is half the fun sometimes!