Ok here is goes I lost my ds to SIDS in March of 07. When I had him i got my tubes tied because my now ex husband didn't want anymore kids. Well we got divorced over the loss and a few other things. His now new girlfriend just had their twins she now has 9 kids OMG. Well I am remarried and my DH wants a child together I am now 37 and yes I would love to have another child but I am so scared as I cant go through that again. Ok here is what I need help with I am so P*ssed off at my ex because I would have never gotten my tubes tied and now looking back I wish I didn't, We have a DD together so I have to see their twins when we exchange our dd I am so upset that it can't be me (not with him but with my new DH) Has anyone else has this situation and if so HELP i am upset and confused. Thank you everyone you guys are such great support
Jacob was 3 months old MOM to a SIDS ANGEL
Re: Need some advise
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I have a friend that got her tubes tied after her rainbow was born last year. About 6 months later she got them untied because she just didn't feel right having something so permanent done. I don't know if there is a possibility to have them untied this much later, but you could always mention it to your OB. I would be ticked too if I was in your situation with your ex.
I'm sorry for your loss.
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