Went in today for my 39w appointment (39w2d) and I basically received the same "diagnosis" as I got with my DS (who I had by c/s at this point) - floating and not anywhere engaged in my pelvis. I am still 0cm, but have increased from 50% - 60% effaced. My OB said "your cervix is very thin but it's completely closed off." But again, her biggest concern is the baby's position. Why do my kids not engage? I have been doing EVERYTHING and I mean everything to go into labor and to get this kid to drop.... I've had 2 chiropractor appointments (including the Webster technique), I've been drinking Raspberry leaf tea like it's my job, taking EPO every day, tried sex once (I guess I could be doing that more, but that's no walk in the park), walk at least 3-5 miles every day, do exercises from Spinning Babies like rebozo, eating pineapple and pineapple core, and I have an acupuncture appointment this afternoon. I'm grateful that my LO is not breech, but the situation does not bode well for a VBAC. I feel like I am out of options. My OB offered to come in the weekend after next to do a c/s if need be. That was very nice of her to come in on a day off (she did this last time for DS as he was born on a holiday) but I'm so discouraged. My doula, who is DH's cousin, is frustrated as well. It's not a good sign when your doula is frustrated
Thanks for letting me vent here.
Re: Frustrated. Again. Vent.
that's so frustrating! But you are still a week away from your EDD and many babies go past their due dates. My friend's 1st was born on his due date and her 2nd was 11 days late! You are doing absolutely everything you can, don't beat yourself up!
I'm sorry, that is so frustrating. Does the doctor think there could a be a physical reason they can't drop? Large heads or maybe you don't have enough space in your pelvis?
There's still time, hopefully LO will figure out where the exit is and start making her way down there.
DD1 9.24.06
DS 7.1.08
twins due 9.7.11 lost twin A at
DD2 4.7.12
I'm sorry - that just sucks. I wish I had more words of encouragement than 'hang in there - it ain't over till the fat lady sings" but it really isn't over yet. I know it's hard not to get discouraged but all hope is not lost. If, however, you get to Saturday and the C-section takes place, just take comfort in the fact that you'll meet your LO soon - that sleepy newborn face, those eyes that lock in on you and only you, that will all soften the blow.
Hang in there, mama! You've still got till Saturday!!!
Did your DD engage before your induction? How big was your DD at birth?
When I was pregnant, I remember reading that early effacement is a better indication of labor than dilation, so hopefully that's a good sign for you. It sounds like you still have a little over a week. A lot can happen in that time.
She was not engaged several hours (5 or 6?) after I had started pitocin (the previous night I had cervidil inserted.) When they broke my water for me, they noticed some meconium so she was probably on her way anyway? Not sure.
Anyway she was 8 lbs., 8 oz, which is exactly what I was and what my H was at birth. I really doubted my GD diagnosis, but followed the diet strictly and her blood sugars were fine at birth.
GL! I really hope things work out for you. I have no idea what will happen in my situation-- but I don't think I will have an early baby...
I think OBs don't induce for VBACs
If my cervix was "favorable" meaning at least open somewhat, my doctor might induce me a little with pitocin or break my water. But if it stays this way, nothing can be done.
I definitely still have some time, and I had a great hypnotherapy session with Lindsey this morning (she is fantastic!) so I'm feeling rejuvenated and more confident. Really trying not to get hung up on statistics or what my OB thinks. She doesn't know my body as well as I do