Claire has been doing great with our new nanny but the last two days she's thrown all out tantrums when our nanny tries to put her shoes or coat on, or put her in the carseat to take her to drop Natalie off at school in the morning. She wants me to do it (I work from home) and throws a fit when I tell her Allison will do it. She didn't do this with Allison last week. We also though made the switch of having Claire now sleep in Natalie's room and they're still taking forever to fall asleep at night -- playing, getting out of bed, etc. So they don't fall asleep till 9:30 p.m. sometimes later.
Do you think her tantrums could be because she's tired? Do you think she should be dropping her nap already so she falls asleep quickly at night? Natalie dropped her nap at 2.5 but 2 years old seems so early to me. Any other suggestions on how to get her to stop fighting Allison in the morning with me working from home? TIA