Serious question. Need advice please.

Eveanyn · January 2012

1sttimemomi:

Thank you. The 1st real response. I didn't know I had to have insurance, I will be walking to the local hospital later today to see what I can do. I appreciate your advice and help.

B!itch, please. If you look back at the posts, you can see that many other women said THE EXACT SAME THING if you had bothered to read it.

JellyTwoPointO · January 2012

Eeeeeeexactly.

Therefore, OP, my advice is both common sense and basic prenatal care knowledge. Go get some of each.

JellyTwoPointO · January 2012

BTW depending on what state you live in, you may need parental/guardian consent to treatment since you say you're sixteen. Just because you're now a mommy doesn't mean you're still not going to need YOUR mommy. If they don't know you're KTFU, then I suggest you tell them.

BarooGirl · January 2012

1sttimemomi:
Whatever! My freaking mistake! I'm not a "troll" I had a legit question that I thought I could ask people about. All of you are being insensitive! Someone flag this so it can be deleted! I didn't mean to cause anymore grief to you guys I'M SORRY!!! and just because I don't have insurance doesn't mean I haven't been concerned or taking care of myself or my baby! It just means I don't have the luxury of calling up an DR and getting advice from them! I take prenatal vitamins and eat and exercise like I am supposed to. You don't HAVE to have a Dr to be a good person. and yes I hooked up with a guy and got pregnant, I'm not saying I don't want/need to "act like a big girl" I think I am and who are you to tell me otherwise! Again....I'M SORRY. but you ladies need to be a little nicer to people, maybe politely tell them this isn't the place without the snarky, mean, and hateful replies! UGGHHH!!!

Ok, I have to ask.

Why did you think to ask the question here and on the loss board?

BarooGirl · January 2012

Umm, there is something odd going on in this thread...

ObviousAEisObvious · January 2012

Veganlady:
BarooGirl:
Umm, there is something odd going on in this thread...
Besides Jellybean getting a standing ovation?

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Deethebee · January 2012

Veganlady:

BarooGirl:
Umm, there is something odd going on in this thread...

Besides Jellybean getting a standing ovation?

Bahaha Zip it!

keft514 · January 2012

MissMheMhe:
Veganlady:

BarooGirl:
Umm, there is something odd going on in this thread...

Besides Jellybean getting a standing ovation?
*playing the drums* bah dum chhh

This is by far the best thread we will see in a long time.

LoveOfMikesLife · January 2012

Siggy warning.....

Listen up you immature little brat!

In what world do you go on 2..... 2 loss boards and ask questions about your living baby? Being 16 does not mean that you get to be stupid! You spread your legs now grow the Fu** up and act like an adult!

I have gotten past where you are, but ya know what? MY BABY DIED! This is a loss board for a reason we DO NOT have any happy endings here. And I'm not going to tell you what kicks should feel like because I'm not a Fu**inG doctor!

Tell your parents your pregnant. Go to the hospital! It's that easy! There is also something called google that I'm sure you've even used before! If you had any sort of brain you would have typed it to that something along lines of, " I'm pregnant and don't have insurance" and BAM! Something to help you would have popped right up!

Using your age as an excuse to rude, mean and careless about others is, just that an excuse. You need to grow up and you better do it fast! You're a mother! Even if you lose this baby, or decide that maybe adoption is the best thing for your child, you are still a mother.

I hope that you never have to join a board like this and as your heartbroken and depressed have some child come on here and rub it in your face that she got KU'ed with out even trying or a way to provide for her baby, while you've been trying for years to get a take home baby!

Also, the loss board you posted on. The first one. There is mother over there that is dealing with the one year annivesary of her lossing her son at 2 months old! Do you think she really need to see your dumb @ss question today?

You have single handedly hurt several of my favorite ladies today just because you're too dumb to care! Congratulations. You win @sshat of the week award!

psychmajormom · January 2012

LoveOfMikesLife:
Siggy warning.....

Listen up you immature little brat!

In what world do you go one 2..... 2 loss boards and ask questions about your living baby? Being 16 does not mean that you get to be stupid! You spread your legs now grow the up and act like an adult!

I have gotten past where you are, but ya know what? MY BABY DIED! This is a loss board for a reason we DO NOT have any happy endings here. And I'm not going to tell you what kicks should feel like because I'm not a doctor!

Tell your parents your pregnant. Go to the hospital! It's that easy! There is also something called google that I'm sure you've even used before! If you had any sort of brain you would have typed it to that something along lines of, " I'm pregnant and don't have insurance" and BAM! Something to help you would have popped right up!

Using your age as an excuse to rude, mean and careless about others is, just that an excuse. You need to grow up and you better do it fast! You're a mother! Even if you lose this baby, or decide that maybe adoption is the best thing for your child, you are still a mother.

I hope that you never have to join a board like this and as your heartbroken and depressed have some child come on here and rub it in your face that she got KU'ed with out even trying or a way to provide for her baby, while you've been trying for years to get a take home baby!

Also, the loss board you posted on. The first one. There is mother over there that is dealing with the one year annivesary of her lossing her son at 2 months old! Do you think she really need to see your dumb @ss question today?

You have single handedly hurt several of my favorite ladies today just because you're too dumb to care! Congratulations. You win @sshat of the week award!

I PPH you girlie!!!! Big Smile

JellyTwoPointO · January 2012

wickedsugar:
Veganlady:

BarooGirl:
Umm, there is something odd going on in this thread...

Besides Jellybean getting a standing ovation?

Bwahhhh !

Aw heII even I was surprised by that. But seriously you guys? *smh*

Eveanyn · January 2012

Anyone notice that Juvie didn't respond after a direct, pointed question was asked of her?

VikingQueen · January 2012

wickedsugar:
Veganlady:

BarooGirl:
Umm, there is something odd going on in this thread...

Besides Jellybean getting a standing ovation?

Bwahhhh !

exactly.. ::hears the twilight zone music playing in the background:: what universe did I stumble into after coming out of my English class..

[Deleted User] · January 2012

I didn't even finish to bother reading the replies to you asinine post.

1. GO TO PLANNED PARENTHOOD. I am not a doctor, nor have I ever made it past 9 weeks of pregnancy. So I wouldn't know.

2. Being 16 is no excuse. If you can spread your legs and get pregnant, you can call a doctor/crisis hotline whatever.

3. Apparently you can read well enough to type a very insensitive question, so why can't you read the warning on top of our board that says "IF YOU ARE PREGNANT, PLEASE GO TO PGAL"??

You are a selfish biiitch. Really, I hope you find the care you need for you and your baby, but seriously, GTFO of my face.

Sunrise6 · January 2012

Jellybean902:
Holy sh!t and people b!tched at ME?!

Honey, I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and just pretend like you're real:

No one can deny you healthcare. You can be homeless with no insurance and not a dime to your name and the hospital HAS TO TREAT YOU. Also, it's called "Medicaid." I pay for it with my tax dollars. You're welcome.

Look up in a phone book you're local pregnancy care/crisis center and get over there ASAP. Most of those places are either free or have a sliding scale fee for lower incomes if that's a problem for you. I like the local care centers best, but I'm SURE there's also a Planned Parenthood around that can help you out too.

If you want to be a mother, then start taking care of your baby NOW. That means prenatal care. Which should have started at least 10 weeks ago.

Also? Have some common sense. I have no idea what my baby's movement felt like because my baby died before I could feel it moved -- as with almost every other woman on this board. We're not doctors or nurses, we are GRIEVING WOMEN trying to put our lives back together. These are questions for DOCTORS -- not us.

I suggest you take some parenting classes at that pregnancy care center while you're at it. Best of luck, I hope your baby is ok.

This! I'm not going to repeat what everyone else has ALREADY said. Take our advice, call a DOCTOR and GO THE F**K AWAY!!! I don't care if you're 16 - if you're "adult enough" to have sex at 16 then you are D*MN well "adult enough" to handle the consequences. Oh wait, you AREN'T adult enough, so go STFU!

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