I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
Just out of curiosity, why shouldn't they? Not flaming you, just genuinely curious as to what makes them less capable of raising a child than you?
My FFFC is that I am turning 20 years old tomorrow and TTC. I know its frowned upon here but DH and I are very mature for our ages and have no interest in partying or drinking etc. He has a stable career and I am working towards mine. I'm at least a few years younger than most of you but I'm going to be just as good of a mother as anyone else.
This may sound petty or whatever but all the stupid posters or the MUD are asked if their too young to know better and I don't think thats far. I read and researched and looked up what all of this meant and to be compared to them is disgusting.
Okay I'm done.
My FFFC is that I think if you have to say that outloud as a "justification" maybe you have a little more growing up to do than you think.
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My FFFC is that I am turning 20 years old tomorrow and TTC. I know its frowned upon here but DH and I are very mature for our ages and have no interest in partying or drinking etc. He has a stable career and I am working towards mine. I'm at least a few years younger than most of you but I'm going to be just as good of a mother as anyone else.
This may sound petty or whatever but all the stupid posters or the MUD are asked if their too young to know better and I don't think thats far. I read and researched and looked up what all of this meant and to be compared to them is disgusting.
Okay I'm done.
My FFFC is that I think if you have to say that outloud as a "justification" maybe you have a little more growing up to do than you think.
And you have every right to think so.
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Started TTC #1 11/2011 ~ BFP #1 03/28/2012-EDD 12/02/2012 ~
Greyson was Born by Unplanned C-Section on 11/20/2012 @ 8lbs 9oz 21 inhces
Started TTC #2 07/2013 ~ BFP #2 10/11/2013-EDD based on growth is June 26th
Liam born by Repeat C-Section on June 20, 2014 @ 8lbs 2oz 20.75 inches
I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
Wow. You are a pretty pathetic person.
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My FFFC is that I am turning 20 years old tomorrow and TTC. I know its frowned upon here but DH and I are very mature for our ages and have no interest in partying or drinking etc. He has a stable career and I am working towards mine. I'm at least a few years younger than most of you but I'm going to be just as good of a mother as anyone else.
This may sound petty or whatever but all the stupid posters or the MUD are asked if their too young to know better and I don't think thats far. I read and researched and looked up what all of this meant and to be compared to them is disgusting.
Okay I'm done.
My FFFC is that I think if you have to say that outloud as a "justification" maybe you have a little more growing up to do than you think.
And you have every right to think so.
Well gee thanks.
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I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
I can't not flame this. It is so flammable. I hate everything about this post, especially the quotes around couples.
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This may sound petty or whatever but all the stupid posters or the MUD are asked if their too young to know better and I don't think thats far.
What?? You're right, you do sound petty and you don't need to "prove" yourself to anyone.
DH and I got married very young too. We just celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary and I'll be 25 next week. We knew we wanted to wait at least 5 years to have kids (not saying you need to wait) just because we wanted to have plenty of us time. Getting married young is risky and we knew we wanted to have a strong marriage and save up before starting a family.
But had I (by miracle) gotten KU during those years of waiting, you better be damn straight that I wouldn't have felt the need to justify my age to anyone.
I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
You are everything that is wrong with this country today.
I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
Ok, I have another one. When I think of a Christmas BFP, I think of a BFP on Christmas. Not a BFP any time in the month of December. I'm excited for everyone, but it is not a Christmas BFP to me.
I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
You are everything that is wrong with this country today.
This. And what is w/ the quotes around couple? What is meant by they obviously shouldn't. Why shouldn't they? I'd really love to know the answer to that.
I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
My confession is that people like you disgust me. I do not in any way understand how you could honestly think this. I sincerely hope you get your prejudice in check before you have a baby.
I cried yesterday when AF came... I was really hoping for a last ditch effort BFP for christmas... I guess we just didn't even think about it with DD so I was kinda hoping for the same with TTC#2... I've been paying attention to my cycle (FF is a godsend and so is this board), CM, etc so I was almost sure...
Oh well my 29th b-day is on the 17th of January so here goes for a B-day BFP! (I will be 14 DPO on my birthday lol!)
Yep me too. Closed my office door and let it out. FX for a b-day BFP for you!
Same here (except I cried in my car). I usually love, love, love Christmas but just can't get into the mood this year because I know I'm not getting the one thing I want. I feel like such a baby.
I cried yesterday before she even came. I knew she was on her way, so I went to bed hungry and just cried. DH asked me why I didn't want dinner. I said, "Because I don't have a baby to feed, so what's the point of eating?"
I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."
Ok, I have another one. When I think of a Christmas BFP, I think of a BFP on Christmas. Not a BFP any time in the month of December. I'm excited for everyone, but it is not a Christmas BFP to me.
I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
Flame-free or MUD or whatever, this is just unacceptable to post. You are a disgusting "person."
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I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
What makes you deserve a child more than they do? You're pathetic.
Ok, I have another one. When I think of a Christmas BFP, I think of a BFP on Christmas. Not a BFP any time in the month of December. I'm excited for everyone, but it is not a Christmas BFP to me.
Ad to that those claiming they got their Christmas baby. Last I checked September is not Christmas time, regardless of when stores start putting crap out.
Agreed. Perhaps they are rationalizing it because they are going to announce it on Christmas??
Still, a December BFP (besides the 25th) does not a Christmas-baby make.
Ok, I have another one. When I think of a Christmas BFP, I think of a BFP on Christmas. Not a BFP any time in the month of December. I'm excited for everyone, but it is not a Christmas BFP to me.
I was thinking the same thing.
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I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
Flame-free or MUD or whatever, this is just unacceptable to post. You are a disgusting "person."
Can we all agree that Bigotry is excluded from being Flame Free??
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My confession is that I have such a overwhelmingly good feeling about this cycle. I know this is irrational and very common and I am trying so hard to get it out of my head because it means nothing but I?m struggling. Please keep your flames on the bigot and not me, because I am not saying this means I will get my BFP. My confession is that I am so effing stupid that I can?t get this outa my head, not that I?m putting stock in it.
Ok, I have another one. When I think of a Christmas BFP, I think of a BFP on Christmas. Not a BFP any time in the month of December. I'm excited for everyone, but it is not a Christmas BFP to me.
I was thinking the same thing.
MFI, Lap on 7/21/11 - Stage III/IV Endo and Polyps removed by D&C IVF #1 with ICSI - ER 1/20 (16R, 12M, 10F), ET 1/23 (1-10 cell and 1-8cell transferred), BFP on 1/31 Beta #1 on 2/3 = 68, Beta #2 on 2/6 = 261 EDD 10/12/12
Baby girl born 9/22/12
FET #1 - 9/16/13 - BFN
IVF #2 - ER 11/11/13 (24R, 18M, 16F), ET 11/16 (2 Grade A blasts)
Since it's "flame-free" and my confession is no longer the worst...
I ran a red light last week. Bigtime. Not just breezing through a yellow. I was at a full stop. I was looking down and saw the light turn green out of the corner of my eye, so I went. It was the cross-traffic light that turned. I'm so freaking lucky that nobody got hurt. I don't know what the hell I was thinking. I waited until I was out of sight from anyone who may have witnessed it and pulled over and cried. I felt like such an idiot. WTF?
Since it's "flame-free" and my confession is no longer the worst...
I ran a red light last week. Bigtime. Not just breezing through a yellow. I was at a full stop. I was looking down and saw the light turn green out of the corner of my eye, so I went. It was the cross-traffic light that turned. I'm so freaking lucky that nobody got hurt. I don't know what the hell I was thinking. I waited until I was out of sight from anyone who may have witnessed it and pulled over and cried. I felt like such an idiot. WTF?
I'm so glad you're ok! This is exactly what happened to my best friend when she was 16. She however wasn't as lucky as you.
My FFFC is that every time a new member posts for the first time, I automatically assume that they are an AE and what I am about to read is MUD. I also read their posts in my head with the voice of a 20 year old. I blame it on all the drama that I've seen on here since I started posting. I always feel bad, too, when I do read their post and it's not at all what i was assuming.
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The only reason I am going to get along with my SIL at the Christmas party this weekend is because she is pregnant and can't drink. She is so much more tolerable when she is sober.
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."- Aristotle
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Same here (except I cried in my car). I usually love, love, love Christmas but just can't get into the mood this year because I know I'm not getting the one thing I want. I feel like such a baby.
This.
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I don't believe same-sex "couples" should have children. A coworker announced today the she and her "wife" are expecting. Everyone in the office is running around congratulating them. I find it madning that we don't have our positive, yet this "couple" does when they obviously shouldn't. There, got my vent out of the way.
Flame-free or MUD or whatever, this is just unacceptable to post. You are a disgusting "person."
Can we all agree that Bigotry is excluded from being Flame Free??
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My FFFC: I made a spreadsheet for all the Christmas gifts I bought, needed to buy, and if I've wrapped them or not. I LOVED every second of doing it and I sorta feel like the biggest nerd on the planet...and couldn't care less.
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Ok, I have another one. When I think of a Christmas BFP, I think of a BFP on Christmas. Not a BFP any time in the month of December. I'm excited for everyone, but it is not a Christmas BFP to me.
I 100% agree with this, but may be in violation of it next month (haha, yeah right). DH is going out of town for a week starting Monday after Christmas and I'm suppose to O in Tuesday/Wednesday. Our one good shot during my FW will be Christmas day. So if I get a BFP in January, I'm calling that my Christmas baby
My FFFC: I made a spreadsheet for all the Christmas gifts I bought, needed to buy, and if I've wrapped them or not. I LOVED every second of doing it and I sorta feel like the biggest nerd on the planet...and couldn't care less.
I love doing our bills and tracking our money on a spreadsheet. I basically have a spreadsheet for everything lol.
My FFFC: I DVR'ed a Lifetime movie. They are terrible, but I get sucked in.
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My FFFC: I made a spreadsheet for all the Christmas gifts I bought, needed to buy, and if I've wrapped them or not. I LOVED every second of doing it and I sorta feel like the biggest nerd on the planet...and couldn't care less.
I love doing our bills and tracking our money on a spreadsheet. I basically have a spreadsheet for everything lol.
My FFFC: I DVR'ed a Lifetime movie. They are terrible, but I get sucked in.
And because the thumbs up that TB has for us is not good enough for me...
All of it.
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Re: ~~~~FFFC~~~~
Just out of curiosity, why shouldn't they? Not flaming you, just genuinely curious as to what makes them less capable of raising a child than you?
Tyler (10/29/08)
and Lily (4/21/13)
My FFFC is that I think if you have to say that outloud as a "justification" maybe you have a little more growing up to do than you think.
And you have every right to think so.
Started Dating 03/04/2007 ~ Got Engaged 04/23/2010 ~ Said "I Do" 03/19/2011
Started TTC #1 11/2011 ~ BFP #1 03/28/2012-EDD 12/02/2012 ~
Greyson was Born by Unplanned C-Section on 11/20/2012 @ 8lbs 9oz 21 inhces
Started TTC #2 07/2013 ~ BFP #2 10/11/2013-EDD based on growth is June 26th
Liam born by Repeat C-Section on June 20, 2014 @ 8lbs 2oz 20.75 inches
Well gee thanks.
I can't not flame this. It is so flammable. I hate everything about this post, especially the quotes around couples.
What?? You're right, you do sound petty and you don't need to "prove" yourself to anyone.
DH and I got married very young too. We just celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary and I'll be 25 next week. We knew we wanted to wait at least 5 years to have kids (not saying you need to wait) just because we wanted to have plenty of us time. Getting married young is risky and we knew we wanted to have a strong marriage and save up before starting a family.
But had I (by miracle) gotten KU during those years of waiting, you better be damn straight that I wouldn't have felt the need to justify my age to anyone.
You are everything that is wrong with this country today.
I think that pretty much sums it up
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lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs
FET currently on hold
Pssssst. :::points down:::
https://community.thebump.com/
cs/ks/forums/thread/59590320.aspx
No need to bother, ladies.
TTC since 2010
lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs
FET currently on hold
This. And what is w/ the quotes around couple? What is meant by they obviously shouldn't. Why shouldn't they? I'd really love to know the answer to that.
Falling in Love! November 2014
My confession is that people like you disgust me. I do not in any way understand how you could honestly think this. I sincerely hope you get your prejudice in check before you have a baby.
I cried yesterday before she even came. I knew she was on her way, so I went to bed hungry and just cried. DH asked me why I didn't want dinner. I said, "Because I don't have a baby to feed, so what's the point of eating?"
Yeah. I'm a baby.
Emilia Antoinette
10.03.12 at 41w5d
Ewwwww she's the CM taster?! She's just disgusting all around huh
Falling in Love! November 2014
IUI #1=BFN
IUI #2=BFP! Beta#1:87 Beta #2:1050
~It's a GIRL!~
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."
+1
Tyler (10/29/08)
and Lily (4/21/13)
Flame-free or MUD or whatever, this is just unacceptable to post. You are a disgusting "person."
Tyler (10/29/08)
and Lily (4/21/13)
What makes you deserve a child more than they do? You're pathetic.
Agreed. Perhaps they are rationalizing it because they are going to announce it on Christmas??
Still, a December BFP (besides the 25th) does not a Christmas-baby make.
Also a July 2013 Mom!
I was thinking the same thing.
IVF #1 with ICSI - ER 1/20 (16R, 12M, 10F), ET 1/23 (1-10 cell and 1-8cell transferred), BFP on 1/31 Beta #1 on 2/3 = 68, Beta #2 on 2/6 = 261 EDD 10/12/12
Since it's "flame-free" and my confession is no longer the worst...
I ran a red light last week. Bigtime. Not just breezing through a yellow. I was at a full stop. I was looking down and saw the light turn green out of the corner of my eye, so I went. It was the cross-traffic light that turned. I'm so freaking lucky that nobody got hurt. I don't know what the hell I was thinking. I waited until I was out of sight from anyone who may have witnessed it and pulled over and cried. I felt like such an idiot. WTF?
I'm so glad you're ok! This is exactly what happened to my best friend when she was 16. She however wasn't as lucky as you.
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."- Aristotle
Same here (except I cried in my car). I usually love, love, love Christmas but just can't get into the mood this year because I know I'm not getting the one thing I want. I feel like such a baby.
This.
Slightly late to the party, but what the heck....
My FFFC: I made a spreadsheet for all the Christmas gifts I bought, needed to buy, and if I've wrapped them or not. I LOVED every second of doing it and I sorta feel like the biggest nerd on the planet...and couldn't care less.
Sorry, I know that's not exactly what you meant.
I love doing our bills and tracking our money on a spreadsheet. I basically have a spreadsheet for everything lol.
My FFFC: I DVR'ed a Lifetime movie. They are terrible, but I get sucked in.
And because the thumbs up that TB has for us is not good enough for me...
All of it.