welcome to the world of reality checks. and i posted right under it saying that ,y post wasnt intended on being negative because i worded that wrong. miscarraiges are negative but the facts arent. and its true. it probably has happened, probably will again because shes a baby factory, and if it didnt happen before then it should have not because she shouldnt have children but because its just the facts. if you have 20 children how many misscarrige were there before? i dont care if you think its disgusting. its fact.
You are a special one aren't you?
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saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
Yep I called it: you are a fvcking idiot
BFP 7/27/10, no hb discovered 9/3/10, natural m/c 9/17/10
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
alot of women dont know their pregnant. thing that the passing of their child is just their period just maybe a week off. which is why there are so many misscarriges that happen. and like i already said. it should have happened sooner not because she deserved it but because thats the statistic.
saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
hahahahahahaha yet your pissed off because we aren't shooting rainbows and puppies up your damn ass.. your about 10 sandwiches short of a 9 sandwich picnic sweetie
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saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
It's a fact that she should have had a m/c and it should have happened sooner? Do you even know the definition of "fact?"
Married 9/19/09
BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
Does the fact that misscarriages happen mean its not mean to wish that someone else has one?! You are the one calling us a bunch of meanie-heads for saying you are immature and yet you are defending the fact that you wanted someone else to have a mc?
saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
Guess what..you're right statistically speaking she likely would have had more, congrats you can read something on the internet and believe it wholeheartedly
Guess what...many of us are living proof that statistics and your "facts" are frequently wrong because we've been on the "wrong" end of them. We don't believe in that crap anymore.
Guess what else: You're a douchecanoe!
I thought you were leaving....
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welcome to the world of reality checks. and i posted right under it saying that ,y post wasnt intended on being negative because i worded that wrong. miscarraiges are negative but the facts arent. and its true. it probably has happened, probably will again because shes a baby factory, and if it didnt happen before then it should have not because she shouldnt have children but because its just the facts. if you have 20 children how many misscarrige were there before? i dont care if you think its disgusting. its fact.
A child walks into a room full of women and throws a temper tantrum when her hand gets slapped for being an insensitive twatwaffle. You are most definitely a troll. If you put half the effort you are putting forth arguing with strangers into getting your life together I'm sure you wouldn't be in such a miserable situation.
saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
Guess what..you're right statistically speaking she likely would have had more, congrats you can read something on the internet and believe it wholeheartedly
Guess what...many of us are living proof that statistics and your "facts" are frequently wrong because we've been on the "wrong" end of them. We don't believe in that crap anymore.
Guess what else: You're a douchecanoe!
I thought you were leaving....
exactly.. don't always believe what your read on the internet
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alot of women dont know their pregnant. thing that the passing of their child is just their period just maybe a week off. which is why there are so many misscarriges that happen. and like i already said. it should have happened sooner not because she deserved it but because thats the statistic.
Just because it is a statistic doesn't mean it's true or that you can say the horrible things you said. I have been pregnant 5 times and have had 4 losses. How does that fit into your statistic?
Married 9/19/09
BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
welcome to the world of reality checks. and i posted right under it saying that ,y post wasnt intended on being negative because i worded that wrong. miscarraiges are negative but the facts arent. and its true. it probably has happened, probably will again because shes a baby factory, and if it didnt happen before then it should have not because she shouldnt have children but because its just the facts. if you have 20 children how many misscarrige were there before? i dont care if you think its disgusting. its fact.
A child walks into a room full of women and throws a temper tantrum when her hand gets slapped for being an insensitive twatwaffle. You are most definitely a troll. If you put half the effort you are putting forth arguing with strangers into getting your life together I'm sure you wouldn't be in such a miserable situation.
well said Karma..
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saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
Guess what..you're right statistically speaking she likely would have had more, congrats you can read something on the internet and believe it wholeheartedly
Guess what...many of us are living proof that statistics and your "facts" are frequently wrong because we've been on the "wrong" end of them. We don't believe in that crap anymore.
thought number three: it probably happened before.
1 in 4 pregnancy ends in a miscarriage. thats all. and its not a negative thing.
DIS-GUS-TING!
Agreed Cashews!
OP (coming from the "bitter board")
some part of my heart felt bad for you but I honestly feel the same as my pGal/TTCAL friends. I've worked full time since I was 16, paid my way through college and worked hard for everything I've ever had. I just have a really hard time believing that NO ONE will help you. I'm not talking about your family and friends, but not a single person in any government office could tell you where to go? Or at the ER, they couldn't tell you where you could get your Rx? It seems like you have an excuse for everything.
saying anything otherwise is coddling. which all of you seem to have a problem with to begin with so whats the big deal about me saying something realistic. and true. backed up by fact.
I love your use of "coddling." Yet, you are all upset because you got real advice and didn't get the coddling you expected. You are cruel, ignorant, and unwelcome to this board.
Missed m/c at 11.5wks, baby stopped developing at 9wks, D & C 12/10 ; BFP 6/11 EDD 3/16/11, DS born 40w1d at 6lbs 12 oz.
alot of women dont know their pregnant. thing that the passing of their child is just their period just maybe a week off. which is why there are so many misscarriges that happen. and like i already said. it should have happened sooner not because she deserved it but because thats the statistic.
So due to statistics. I have had 2 losses. If 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in a loss..... OMG!!! I'M GOING TO HAVE 6 KIDS!!!!
I can't afford that... oh wait. I'll just *** and moan about it and not do anything about it. Then come to a bunch of internet strangers and ask them what I should do with my life.
The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete. Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10 BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
i regret posting anything like this about my life to random strangers who are just going to sit there and judge me instead of trying to help me out. thank you to those who had something to say that was supportive. but i kind of just lost my respect for all of you who agreed with the woman who was just slandering me from having a "bitter day"
i needed help and you just want to insult me. all of the things she said to me werent helpful and honestly just hurt my feelings and made me feel like i can NOT turn to this board for help. its sad that all of you are so cruel. i think finding a different message board is nessisary. i see women all the time getting attacked on here and i try to say supportive things to those women so they dont feel so shitty about their already shitty situation.
thank you so much for instilling the trust in myself that i needed by just insulting me.
A) You should probably look up the meaning of the word "slander" before using it.
If you don't like the responses you are getting on a board where you have not been actively involved or have even intro'd on and obviously have not lurked, you should probably go to BabyGaga or some other site. Everyone here has given you valid advice and when you spill your entire sad story like you have without taking responsibility for any of your actions, you open yourself up to this kind of feedback.
C) The "bitter board" you mentioned earlier is where most of us came from and Millejj1 is one of our friends and someone we would dearly love to see over here. If you had lurked on this board, you would know that.
D) If you give support, you get support.
Point is, you need to get your sh!t in order, and you are the only one that can do that. You have some relatively simple things you can do to start the process of getting everything in order and you refuse to take them, or even call the people who might be able to guide you. They are the experts, we are not. Spend your time on the internet figuring out what you can actually do to help yourself.
TTC #1 since 8/09
BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12
alot of women dont know their pregnant. thing that the passing of their child is just their period just maybe a week off. which is why there are so many misscarriges that happen. and like i already said. it should have happened sooner not because she deserved it but because thats the statistic.
Actually the 1 in 4 statistic doesn't take these miscarriages into account because they can't be counted. And just because there is a 25% chance doesn't mean it "should have" happened sooner. I've had 2 m/c and so far one succesful pg so I'm at 66.6% right now, guess I took some of her statistical chance with my success rate. I don't why I'm even trying because you clearly don't understand how statistics work or what they mean.
BFP 7/27/10, no hb discovered 9/3/10, natural m/c 9/17/10
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
alot of women dont know their pregnant. thing that the passing of their child is just their period just maybe a week off. which is why there are so many misscarriges that happen. and like i already said. it should have happened sooner not because she deserved it but because thats the statistic.
So my early losses were just my period coming late?!
ETA: Reading fail, based on poor spelling (am I getting good at making excuses?)
thought number three: it probably happened before.
1 in 4 pregnancy ends in a miscarriage. thats all. and its not a negative thing.
DIS-GUS-TING!
Agreed Cashews!
OP (coming from the "bitter board")
some part of my heart felt bad for you but I honestly feel the same as my pGal/TTCAL friends. I've worked full time since I was 16, paid my way through college and worked hard for everything I've ever had. I just have a really hard time believing that NO ONE will help you. I'm not talking about your family and friends, but not a single person in any government office could tell you where to go? Or at the ER, they couldn't tell you where you could get your Rx? It seems like you have an excuse for everything.
The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete. Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10 BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
alot of women dont know their pregnant. thing that the passing of their child is just their period just maybe a week off. which is why there are so many misscarriges that happen. and like i already said. it should have happened sooner not because she deserved it but because thats the statistic.
So due to statistics. I have had 2 losses. If 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in a loss..... OMG!!! I'M GOING TO HAVE 6 KIDS!!!!
I can't afford that... oh wait. I'll just *** and moan about it and not do anything about it. Then come to a bunch of internet strangers and ask them what I should do with my life.
*phew* I'm glad I got that figured out.
no worries Cashew.. the government will take care of you
(Just to clarify, I don't have a problem with government programs, they are great, I just hate that people take advantage of them cause their lazy)
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well since im incompetent and cant do this according to all of you. i guess the only thing i can do is get rid of my child. i mean its the only choice i have since ill just kill them anyway.
***lurker from TTCAL***
Ok, until I got to THIS post i was mildly amused. Then I read this $hit. WTF Shablie???? I really am sorry for your loss, I truly am. However, THIS post is the very meaning of "unfit for parenting". Are you serious....so women who are here for the right reasons, give you advice and tell you how NOT to behave on this board get you so wound up that you suggest "getting rid of your child"??? First of all I feel badly for what you've gone through, HOWEVER, get the f*ck off of these boards until you know how to respectfully address these women. And secondly, you have absolutely NO right to post anything regarding "getting rid of" and/or "killing" your child. Do you have any idea what these women have gone through just to be on this board? NO YOU DON'T! I truly hope you get your life straightened around because that baby NEEDS you and you WILL BE the best mother that you know how, so please focus on that. However, I doubt you will ever earn anyone's respect on this or any other board. And I feel bad for you because these boards are a God-send. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your little one.
***returns to TTCAL*** I'm so sorry you ladies had to encounter this.
***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.
We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***
alot of women dont know their pregnant. thing that the passing of their child is just their period just maybe a week off. which is why there are so many misscarriges that happen. and like i already said. it should have happened sooner not because she deserved it but because thats the statistic.
Seriously!! Miscarriages happen because women didn't know they were pregnant! OMG are you like a MD too. I can't believe your life is so hard with a medical degree. I totally thought there was a ton of reasons why miscarriages happened and for some you never know the cause. I'm glad you saved us all by telling us they happen if you don't know you're pregnant. I bet we all need to lay off the drugs so we stop hallucinating those positive tests.
That makes as much sense as these:
*This boob scarf posted especially for Cashew.
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Eris** don't let her get you upset and start having more contractions over there!!! I swear my BP is up....I had to quit commenting b/c DH was getting worried....
Here have some ice cream with me and sit back against your pillows...We can be bed buddies for the rest of the post....Grab a spoon!
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thought number three: it probably happened before.
1 in 4 pregnancy ends in a miscarriage. thats all. and its not a negative thing.
DIS-GUS-TING!
Agreed Cashews!
OP (coming from the "bitter board")
some part of my heart felt bad for you but I honestly feel the same as my pGal/TTCAL friends. I've worked full time since I was 16, paid my way through college and worked hard for everything I've ever had. I just have a really hard time believing that NO ONE will help you. I'm not talking about your family and friends, but not a single person in any government office could tell you where to go? Or at the ER, they couldn't tell you where you could get your Rx? It seems like you have an excuse for everything.
Seriously!! Miscarriages happen because women didn't know they were pregnant! OMG are you like a MD too. I can't believe you life is so hard with a medical degree. I totally thought there was a ton of reasons why miscarriages happened and for some you never know the cause. I'm glad you saved us all by telling us they happen if you don't know you're pregnant. I bet we all need to lay off the drugs so we stop hallucinating those positive tests.
That makes as much sense as these:
*This boob scarf posted especially for Cashew.
BOOOOOBIES!!!!!! There is something great abou tit.
The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete. Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10 BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
Seriously!! Miscarriages happen because women didn't know they were pregnant! OMG are you like a MD too. I can't believe you life is so hard with a medical degree. I totally thought there was a ton of reasons why miscarriages happened and for some you never know the cause. I'm glad you saved us all by telling us they happen if you don't know you're pregnant. I bet we all need to lay off the drugs so we stop hallucinating those positive tests.
That makes as much sense as these:
*This boob scarf posted especially for Cashew.
BOOOOOBIES!!!!!! There is something great abou tit.
Hahahaha.....freudian slip?
BFP 7/27/10, no hb discovered 9/3/10, natural m/c 9/17/10
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
Seriously!! Miscarriages happen because women didn't know they were pregnant! OMG are you like a MD too. I can't believe you life is so hard with a medical degree. I totally thought there was a ton of reasons why miscarriages happened and for some you never know the cause. I'm glad you saved us all by telling us they happen if you don't know you're pregnant. I bet we all need to lay off the drugs so we stop hallucinating those positive tests.
That makes as much sense as these:
*This boob scarf posted especially for Cashew.
BOOOOOBIES!!!!!! There is something great abou tit.
Hahahaha.....freudian slip?
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Seriously!! Miscarriages happen because women didn't know they were pregnant! OMG are you like a MD too. I can't believe you life is so hard with a medical degree. I totally thought there was a ton of reasons why miscarriages happened and for some you never know the cause. I'm glad you saved us all by telling us they happen if you don't know you're pregnant. I bet we all need to lay off the drugs so we stop hallucinating those positive tests.
That makes as much sense as these:
*This boob scarf posted especially for Cashew.
BOOOOOBIES!!!!!! There is something great abou tit.
The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete. Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10 BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
Wow. I leave to nurse Kellen and this post blows up.
OP--we all now know you are a 14 year old boy based on your grammar and your sorry excuse for MUD. We all got your number. You got what you wanted--to upset a bunch of pg and TTC women. Go troll somewhere else now. Kthanksbye!
Eris** don't let her get you upset and start having more contractions over there!!! I swear my BP is up....I had to quit commenting b/c DH was getting worried....
Here have some ice cream with me and sit back against your pillows...We can be bed buddies for the rest of the post....Grab a spoon!
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Thanks! That sounds great. At least this was entertaining reading while I was waiting for the on call Dr to call me back. Is your BP better now?
TTC #1 since 8/09
BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12
Seriously!! Miscarriages happen because women didn't know they were pregnant! OMG are you like a MD too. I can't believe you life is so hard with a medical degree. I totally thought there was a ton of reasons why miscarriages happened and for some you never know the cause. I'm glad you saved us all by telling us they happen if you don't know you're pregnant. I bet we all need to lay off the drugs so we stop hallucinating those positive tests.
That makes as much sense as these:
*This boob scarf posted especially for Cashew.
BOOOOOBIES!!!!!! There is something great abou tit.
1) How did you get a job without any type of ID? Are you working illegally?
2) Have you actually gone to the driver's license facility? In my state, my BC, a piece of mail with my address on it and an ID bearing family member/friend to sign an affidavit is all it takes to get a state ID or driver's license replacement.
Re: Huge rant. Big warning. Its too much.
You are a special one aren't you?
Yep I called it: you are a fvcking idiot
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
((makes a comfy little hay pile in front of the ipad))
hahahahahahaha yet your pissed off because we aren't shooting rainbows and puppies up your damn ass.. your about 10 sandwiches short of a 9 sandwich picnic sweetie
It's a fact that she should have had a m/c and it should have happened sooner? Do you even know the definition of "fact?"
BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
Does the fact that misscarriages happen mean its not mean to wish that someone else has one?! You are the one calling us a bunch of meanie-heads for saying you are immature and yet you are defending the fact that you wanted someone else to have a mc?
Missed m/c 10/25/10 @ 11.5 weeks
Guess what..you're right statistically speaking she likely would have had more, congrats you can read something on the internet and believe it wholeheartedly
Guess what...many of us are living proof that statistics and your "facts" are frequently wrong because we've been on the "wrong" end of them. We don't believe in that crap anymore.
Guess what else: You're a douchecanoe!
I thought you were leaving....
A child walks into a room full of women and throws a temper tantrum when her hand gets slapped for being an insensitive twatwaffle. You are most definitely a troll. If you put half the effort you are putting forth arguing with strangers into getting your life together I'm sure you wouldn't be in such a miserable situation.
exactly.. don't always believe what your read on the internet
Just because it is a statistic doesn't mean it's true or that you can say the horrible things you said. I have been pregnant 5 times and have had 4 losses. How does that fit into your statistic?
BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
well said Karma..
Agreed Cashews!
OP (coming from the "bitter board")
some part of my heart felt bad for you but I honestly feel the same as my pGal/TTCAL friends. I've worked full time since I was 16, paid my way through college and worked hard for everything I've ever had. I just have a really hard time believing that NO ONE will help you. I'm not talking about your family and friends, but not a single person in any government office could tell you where to go? Or at the ER, they couldn't tell you where you could get your Rx? It seems like you have an excuse for everything.
I love your use of "coddling." Yet, you are all upset because you got real advice and didn't get the coddling you expected. You are cruel, ignorant, and unwelcome to this board.
So due to statistics. I have had 2 losses. If 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in a loss..... OMG!!! I'M GOING TO HAVE 6 KIDS!!!!
I can't afford that... oh wait. I'll just *** and moan about it and not do anything about it. Then come to a bunch of internet strangers and ask them what I should do with my life.
*phew* I'm glad I got that figured out.
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
A) You should probably look up the meaning of the word "slander" before using it.
C) The "bitter board" you mentioned earlier is where most of us came from and Millejj1 is one of our friends and someone we would dearly love to see over here. If you had lurked on this board, you would know that.
D) If you give support, you get support.
Point is, you need to get your sh!t in order, and you are the only one that can do that. You have some relatively simple things you can do to start the process of getting everything in order and you refuse to take them, or even call the people who might be able to guide you. They are the experts, we are not. Spend your time on the internet figuring out what you can actually do to help yourself.
BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12
~*~My BFP Chart~*~Our Story~*~
~*~Labor Buddies with Sweet Turnip - Welcome Baby Girl 2/23/12 & Aluenna - Welcome Ivy 1/6/12~*~
Actually the 1 in 4 statistic doesn't take these miscarriages into account because they can't be counted. And just because there is a 25% chance doesn't mean it "should have" happened sooner. I've had 2 m/c and so far one succesful pg so I'm at 66.6% right now, guess I took some of her statistical chance with my success rate. I don't why I'm even trying because you clearly don't understand how statistics work or what they mean.
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
So my early losses were just my period coming late?!
ETA: Reading fail, based on poor spelling (am I getting good at making excuses?)
Agreed Cashews!
OP (coming from the "bitter board")
some part of my heart felt bad for you but I honestly feel the same as my pGal/TTCAL friends. I've worked full time since I was 16, paid my way through college and worked hard for everything I've ever had. I just have a really hard time believing that NO ONE will help you. I'm not talking about your family and friends, but not a single person in any government office could tell you where to go? Or at the ER, they couldn't tell you where you could get your Rx? It seems like you have an excuse for everything.
This. Which totally screams Muddy Troll!
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
no worries Cashew.. the government will take care of you
(Just to clarify, I don't have a problem with government programs, they are great, I just hate that people take advantage of them cause their lazy)
***lurker from TTCAL***
Ok, until I got to THIS post i was mildly amused. Then I read this $hit. WTF Shablie???? I really am sorry for your loss, I truly am. However, THIS post is the very meaning of "unfit for parenting". Are you serious....so women who are here for the right reasons, give you advice and tell you how NOT to behave on this board get you so wound up that you suggest "getting rid of your child"??? First of all I feel badly for what you've gone through, HOWEVER, get the f*ck off of these boards until you know how to respectfully address these women. And secondly, you have absolutely NO right to post anything regarding "getting rid of" and/or "killing" your child. Do you have any idea what these women have gone through just to be on this board? NO YOU DON'T! I truly hope you get your life straightened around because that baby NEEDS you and you WILL BE the best mother that you know how, so please focus on that. However, I doubt you will ever earn anyone's respect on this or any other board. And I feel bad for you because these boards are a God-send. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your little one.
***returns to TTCAL*** I'm so sorry you ladies had to encounter this.
***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.
We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***
Seriously!! Miscarriages happen because women didn't know they were pregnant! OMG are you like a MD too. I can't believe your life is so hard with a medical degree. I totally thought there was a ton of reasons why miscarriages happened and for some you never know the cause. I'm glad you saved us all by telling us they happen if you don't know you're pregnant. I bet we all need to lay off the drugs so we stop hallucinating those positive tests.
That makes as much sense as these:
*This boob scarf posted especially for Cashew.
Eris** don't let her get you upset and start having more contractions over there!!! I swear my BP is up....I had to quit commenting b/c DH was getting worried....
Here have some ice cream with me and sit back against your pillows...We can be bed buddies for the rest of the post....Grab a spoon!
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
This. Which totally screams Muddy Troll!
BOOOOOBIES!!!!!! There is something great abou tit.
 
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
Hahahaha.....freudian slip?
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
Miss you too!
Oh my--- full term tomorrow!!! SQUEEEE!!
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Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
^^what she said!!!
 I'm so happy for your mundayem!!
Aw thanks ladies!
BFP #2- 2/1/11,bleeding- 2/6/11, natural m/c @ 5wks
BFP #3- 4/29/11 - DS born 12/31/11
TTCAL buddies with LilMaggs and psumel13
Wow. I leave to nurse Kellen and this post blows up.
OP--we all now know you are a 14 year old boy based on your grammar and your sorry excuse for MUD. We all got your number. You got what you wanted--to upset a bunch of pg and TTC women. Go troll somewhere else now. Kthanksbye!
Thanks! That sounds great. At least this was entertaining reading while I was waiting for the on call Dr to call me back. Is your BP better now?
BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12
~*~My BFP Chart~*~Our Story~*~
~*~Labor Buddies with Sweet Turnip - Welcome Baby Girl 2/23/12 & Aluenna - Welcome Ivy 1/6/12~*~
yeah I backed away and checked out some other posts for a while.
Where can I buy these for my dogs?
You poor PgALers get all the TTCALers tonight.
Shablie, I have a few questions.
1) How did you get a job without any type of ID? Are you working illegally?
2) Have you actually gone to the driver's license facility? In my state, my BC, a piece of mail with my address on it and an ID bearing family member/friend to sign an affidavit is all it takes to get a state ID or driver's license replacement.
3) Is the shift key broken on your keyboard?
My Never Updated Chart
Bonus buddies with Cashewsmommy!
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