so im 20 and me and my boyfriend never expected to have a baby together.(even tho we've been together for 5 yrs) he's 21 and loves being in the garage and on quads.and we are hoping for a boy.im nervous its gonna be a girl and he wont be excited anymore.its kinda depressing me.i just wanted a boy that he can one day work on cars and quads with.and i have a feeling its a girl.i just dont know how ill feel about having a girl.iv prepared so much for a boy.we find out the 8th so hopefully things go my way
Re: wht if its a girl?idk if he can handle it
He's just going to have to suck it up and realize that there's no such thing as "boy things" and "girl things". And that girls can also work in the garage.
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whatevs to him, but really IDK either he will totes just have to get over it. Girls are kewl 2.
Edit: spelling
ZOMG you read my mind.
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No one said anything negative about your age, unexpected pregnancy or your bf's occupation. Please stop projecting.
People have commented on the fact that your bf sounds a bit sexist and unrealistic. You have a 50/50 chance and really you both should be looking forward to parenting a healthy baby of either sex.
Well said.
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I am sad to see the route that some of this conversation has gone. I am sure that this happen on other boards. This is a place to share our concerns, fears, and other things that we can't tell other people. If I were to get hurtful comments posted about me personally, I am not sure if I would return to this board and that would be a shame. We are here to support each other not question the situation they are in.
So I wish you a happy healthy baby no matter if it is a boy or a girl! I am sure your guy will love the baby regardless of what's between its legs.
I'd remind him that misogyny isn't something that he should pass on to a male. And maybe the girl would have a remote chance of not hating herself if you could bring her up to think that girls are "just as good" as boys (ick, hate that phrase).
So, I'm hoping for a girl for you.
(Keep these troll threads coming. I'm bored today and want to keep biting.)
I'm going to be honest here...
Why can't you be blessed and happy with just a happy, healthy baby? He better suck it up and handle it. So should you. Just because it may be a girl doesn't limit her on what she can/can't do.
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With so few posts and a blatantly obvious attempt at creating a post with poor spelling and grammar, this HAS to be MUD.
Agreed. MUD.
If it would be true at all......your BF is just gonna have to deal with whatever the baby is. There's no changing it.
How far along are you? When will you find out the sex?
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Seriously? Since when do we have to be nice to the dumb troll?
This MUD was awesome. Thank you, OP. Thank you.
I'll never teach my daughter not to speak her mind. Even if it's not nice.
Is that first statement speaking about you? Chill your tits
Good luck finding out, I say whatever sex the baby is, you'll both be in love!! And like others have said, girls can do plenty of "boy" things!!
By the way, can anyone tell me what MUD means? I noticed it a couple times, but haven't a clue....
MUD = made up drama
I agree that whatever sex the baby is, hopefully you will love it, even if she's not a he. I bonded well with my father and there's really no reason why she can't be into the same things your boyfriend likes. I just think that it's sad that people are so set in their minds about sex and your personality/likes/dislikes.
Sorry, but constant P&R makes me want to vomit. Oh and I'm not going to kiss a troll's azz.
MUD=Made Up Drama
hehehehe, I like that, LOL!
OMG. I just choked on my water. lmao