I guess the only advice I have is to cry as much as you want to and, as soon as you're ready, spend time with all of the people you love and who love you the most.
I am so sorry for your loss. I had a similar experience almost a year ago where I lost and delivered my son at 19 weeks. You might try the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board if you haven't already. It was a great source of comfort when I was going through it and then hope as it eventually started to heal. HUGS.
I am so sorry. I also miscarried but at 8 weeks, I cannot imagine the pain you ust be in know you were almost at 20 weeks, I know it seems like it is not fair, but you will get through this and with the love of your hubby and your family and one day you will want to try again. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please come to all of us here for any support you may need now or in the future. Well wishes and prayers. Take Care
Im so sorry... I cannot imagine. I lost earl yon before and if it happened again I think I would be the exact same way. Im so so so sorry. Nothing anyone says now will help but please know im thinking of you and your husband. I highly reccommend Sticky Babies. They are a group on MSN groups you can tell them I suggested you visit them. They helped me through a hard time I think they might be helpful for you as well. Much love to you.. and huge hugs.
I can't imagine the pain you're feeling right now. You and your DH are in my thoughts. Try to stay strong, and know that this is something that you two can get through together. ((((hugs)))) X a million.
Omg honey I wishI could say something or anything to make you feel better but I know there aren't any words to take that pain away. All I can say is don't give up hope and your baby is in heaven. I don't want to say you can have another baby because I know it won't replace the loss of this one. But I truly am so sorry and am praying for you and your husband.
I absolutely know how you feel. I lost my son the same way at 21 wks. You go in for a check up and they cannot find a heartbeat. So they do an ultrasound and there is no movement. It is the worst way to discover you have lost your child.?
I am soooo sorry. I would not wish that pain on my worst enemy. And then going through the labor... Oh God, my heart goes out to you.
It is unfair and you have the right to be angry and sad right now. But hold on to someone dear to you. I am praying for you.
I am so very sorry for what you are going through.
Mommy to Alden, born May 19, 2007 - best birthday present ever!
natural m/c October 20, 2008 at 8w1d
BFP April 4, 2009! Missed m/c discovered May 1, 2009 D&C May 12,2009
BFP March 3, 2010 Chemical pregnancy
BFP May 25, 2010 Elias Derek born January 26, 2011!
Surprise BFP October 24, 2012 Missed m/c confirmed Nov 26 D&C Nov 30
Surprise BFP February 13, 2013
So sorry for what you are feeling. I lost our 1st child together in December at 17wks and had to go through that ordeal of being induced and the whole long labor. Like you, we went to the dr and saw no movement on the screen, couldn't find a heartbeat and then were sent over to get a better ultrasound, only to have our hearts broken. I was so depressed I thought I would never get over it. Thank God I am now almost 14wks, but still a little nervous. Maybe after the day I lost our daughter passes I may be ok. I do want you to know to be strong and that you are not alone. I have a cousin who lost several babies, some at 4 and 5 months along. Only to find out after losing baby #4 she had a weak cervix. I am happy to say that she and her husband are the proud parents of a 8yr old son. Even though he was premature, everything turned out fine. He is a happy, healthy, very smart, and active child. So keep the faith and if this is something you guys really want, don't give up. Just pray for strength and keep seeking support. You're in my prayers.
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Oh my God, I'm so sorry.
You'll be in my prayers
I'm so sorry you have to endure another horrible lost. You are in my prayers.
i'm never on this board but just saw this thread and i am so incredibly sorry that you are going through this.
please check out the miscarriage/pregnancy loss board if you haven't already. they are great for support.
i wish you the best and healing will take time. i hope in your future you will be blessed once again. good luck.
::hugs::
I hope you are okay.
I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say...
I guess the only advice I have is to cry as much as you want to and, as soon as you're ready, spend time with all of the people you love and who love you the most.
I am so so sorry. This makes me so sad to read this. I know you had terrible morning sickness and was so glad to see you get to the 2nd tri.
Prayers go out to you and your DH and your little angel.
So sorry for what you are feeling. I lost our 1st child together in December at 17wks and had to go through that ordeal of being induced and the whole long labor. Like you, we went to the dr and saw no movement on the screen, couldn't find a heartbeat and then were sent over to get a better ultrasound, only to have our hearts broken. I was so depressed I thought I would never get over it. Thank God I am now almost 14wks, but still a little nervous. Maybe after the day I lost our daughter passes I may be ok. I do want you to know to be strong and that you are not alone. I have a cousin who lost several babies, some at 4 and 5 months along. Only to find out after losing baby #4 she had a weak cervix. I am happy to say that she and her husband are the proud parents of a 8yr old son. Even though he was premature, everything turned out fine. He is a happy, healthy, very smart, and active child. So keep the faith and if this is something you guys really want, don't give up. Just pray for strength and keep seeking support. You're in my prayers.