So... BM messaged me on FB last night (like live chat) so we started talking- she asked if we could do lunch (her and I) soon- and while I was hesitant, I miss her and want to make sure she's okay (she's 15 and does not have the worlds greatest parents).
Anyway- so then she goes on to say that she's hurting- she hears her friends (who are in the teen mom group at school, and also in the teen mom group I mentor) talk about E, and how she's growing up and it makes her sad.
I WISH she would go to counseling. I've offered SO many times, and hope that I can get her to go at least once while we're at lunch- but she's SO resistant.
Ugh, I just don't even know what to do =( My heart ache's for her, but I'm not sure I'm comfortable with her seeing E, unless it's just her (I don't want her parents around E).
Any advice?
Re: HELP! BM Situation
Is there anyway she can be a part of your group when the other young ladies get to see E? Hopefully you both can address any concerns you have at lunch.