HELP! BM Situation

Jenn is Silly

So... BM messaged me on FB last night (like live chat) so we started talking- she asked if we could do lunch (her and I) soon- and while I was hesitant, I miss her and want to make sure she's okay (she's 15 and does not have the worlds greatest parents). 

Anyway- so then she goes on to say that she's hurting- she hears her friends (who are in the teen mom group at school, and also in the teen mom group I mentor) talk about E, and how she's growing up and it makes her sad.

I WISH she would go to counseling.  I've offered SO many times, and hope that I can get her to go at least once while we're at lunch- but she's SO resistant.

Ugh, I just don't even know what to do =(  My heart ache's for her, but I'm not sure I'm comfortable with her seeing E, unless it's just her (I don't want her parents around E).

Any advice?

Honeydew1894

That is a tough situation. I would meet her for lunch and have that talk. She must know how much you care about her, and maybe she will take your advice to heart. Hugs

militarywife2b

Is there anyway she can be a part of your group when the other young ladies get to see E? Hopefully you both can address any concerns you have at lunch.

Jenn is Silly

She *could* but her step father won't let her. He feels that because she's not pregnant or a teen mom she does not need the group I volunteer with- and therefor won't let her go (out activities are after school and on weekends).