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Why is everyone so mean

I thought this was a place for support and for people to give helpful advice to those who really need it. I am in a really difficult situation that I can't talk to anyone about in real life so I thought if I came here people would help me. Instead you just say rude things that talk about MUD. I am so disappointed and upset. I feel sorry for you if all you have to do in a day is make fun of people and be mean. I hope your husbands are nice so your kids have a chance to learn niceness.
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Re: Why is everyone so mean

  • You don't know my lyfe!!
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  • It's interesting that you would lecture us, when you came to internet strangers to ask about what you shoud do about your H's creeper friend. I also find it interesting that you would dare to challenge what kind of behavior we will be teaching our children considering you admitted that YH has a violent temper. By the way, dont waste your time feeling sorry for me, MH doesn't have any friends that would come on to me in any way. Why is this you may ask? Because his friends aren't creepy losers that have no boundries with women.
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  • imageImThisBabysMom:
    You don't know my lyfe!!

    HAHAHAHA!!!!!!

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  • imageImThisBabysMom:
    You don't know my lyfe!!

    Oh yeah, and you don't no my lyfe either!!!!!!!111!!!!!!

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  • I truly believe that if this is happening to you, as an adult you should know what the right thing to do is...  I know and have seen a lot of disfunction in my life but I also know as a women, wife and soon to be Mother that I would never let anyone disrespect me his way.  So I hope this helps you with your decision. 

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  • If that is really happening to you, I'm sorry.  The reason people think it is made up is that it is OBVIOUS what you should do.  Of course you should tell someone!  If you value your safety and your child's safety or your relationship with your husband at all, then you should OF COURSE tell him.  Oh, and stay away from that guy!
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  • Because of our raging hormones.

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  • imagefathersbride24:
    I thought this was a place for support and for people to give helpful advice to those who really need it. I am in a really difficult situation that I can't talk to anyone about in real life so I thought if I came here people would help me. Instead you just say rude things that talk about MUD. I am so disappointed and upset. I feel sorry for you if all you have to do in a day is make fun of people and be mean. I hope your husbands are nice so your kids have a chance to learn niceness.

    Why can't you talk to your husband about it?  I feel sorry for you that your relationship with your husband is not stable enough for you to feel like you can let him know what your friend said.  My husband is my best friend and I tell him everything, including the color of my poop for the day (not really XD).  My husband is my other half, not someone I feel threatened by.  Don't feel sorry for us, feel sorry for yourself!

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  • Oh boy, it's another one of these posts.. People are just being blunt and honest. Search for the one posted yesterday, and see how well that turned out.. I honestly can't wait to see pictures of rainbows coming out of dogs a***s or anyother funny sh*t.

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  • I am afraid to tell my husband because he might go into a rage a beat his friend up. I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a friendship that has been going since high school. My husband is never mean to me, but I don't want him to beat someone up and go to jail again before our baby comes.
  • imagefathersbride24:
    I am afraid to tell my husband because he might go into a rage a beat his friend up. I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a friendship that has been going since high school. My husband is never mean to me, but I don't want him to beat someone up and go to jail again before our baby comes.

    You won't be responsible, your DH's creepy friend will be.  He should know who he is friends with.

  • imagefathersbride24:
    I am afraid to tell my husband because he might go into a rage a beat his friend up. I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a friendship that has been going since high school. My husband is never mean to me, but I don't want him to beat someone up and go to jail again before our baby comes.

    Yet you're worried about how our children will be raised?  WTF is wrong with you??

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  • Got my popcorn!!! Thanks all for now making my afternoon go by a little bit faster! Now I have something to read!
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  • imagefathersbride24:
    I am afraid to tell my husband because he might go into a rage a beat his friend up. I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a friendship that has been going since high school. My husband is never mean to me, but I don't want him to beat someone up and go to jail again before our baby comes.

    1) you also have poor boundaries with other people. The fact that you would put yourself in a potentially harmful situation to protect the friendship this creep has with your H is totally insane.

    2)Your H sounds like a real peach. I'd have a hardtime being married to someone who has a habit of physically harming other people.

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  • If you're real....which I don't think this is....you need to tell bf. What if his friend tells him something first? Bf will blame you. Honesty is best. Tell him about it.
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  • I taught my kid to be mean and push other kids down, then do a Captain Morgan on their chest. 

    It's amazing...you should see it. 

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  • imagecruelsound:
    What if I don't have a husband? MY CHILDREN ARE DOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED.

    Shush up Cruel, you don't have children....  That picture is a pug with a kid face painted onto it. Your such a troll.

     

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  • imagejmgcoggins:

    I taught my kid to be mean and push other kids down, then do a Captain Morgan on their chest. 

    It's amazing...you should see it. 

    HAHAHA! Now that would be a PIP I'd like to see.

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  • Haha you are all sooooo funny. Picking on someone who is new. I doubt any of you would find my situation easy if you were in it.
  • Because we don't do well with people who openly admit they have fantasies about someone other than their husbands....and then boohoo about the projected consequences. Get a life.
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    Haha you are all sooooo funny. Picking on someone who is new. I doubt any of you would find my situation easy if you were in it.

    I told you that I did it with DS. I don't know what your problem is, sh!t!!!!! Sell him pictures, I sold my belly pictures for 50 dollars a pop...so I could go out on the town and be a fat mean hore, while DS was actually being watched by a babysitter.

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  • Wait...am I in an episode of " Sixteen and Pregnant"?

    People are "mean" to you because you are either completely crazy being that you actually are considering giving pictures of yourself to a guy friend with a pregnant woman fetish when you are married?! Or because you are some person who puts made up stories on the Internet to get a rise out of people for your own entertainment?

    Never mind,  that makes you crazy either way. 

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  • imagefathersbride24:
    Haha you are all sooooo funny. Picking on someone who is new. I doubt any of you would find my situation easy if you were in it.

     

    Really? Seems easy to me. 

  • MUD = Made up drama. Or your posts.
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  • I am laughing so hard right now! Now I see why people attack these kind of posts! It is so funny! Love the doggy and rainbows pic!!! haha!I really do get it now ladies! This is the third post like this I've seen and I didn't get it before.. but I do now!!

    STOP POSTING THESE STUPID "THE BUMP IS SO MEAN" POSTS IF YOU DON"T WANT TO GET LAUGHED AT AND TALKED BAD TO!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

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  • I am laughing so hard right now! Now I see why people attack these kind of posts! It is so funny! Love the doggy and rainbows pic!!! haha! I really do get it now ladies! This is the third post like this I've seen and I didn't get it before.. but I do now!!

    STOP POSTING THESE STUPID "THE BUMP IS SO MEAN" POSTS IF YOU DON"T WANT TO GET LAUGHED AT AND TALKED BAD TO!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

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  • I just read through the other thread you posted and don't really see why you are so upset. By and large, in spite of strangeness of your story people gave you some really solid advice. A few people found your story implausible. That isn't being mean. People are being honest with you, not mean.
  • Difficult situation... Are you fvcking kidding me?! 

    If you are by chance not MUD, you are insane for not kicking him in the nuts and RUNNING to tell your husband about the inappropriate a$$hole!

    There is nothing difficult about it. Kick nuts, run.  

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    imagefathersbride24:
    I am afraid to tell my husband because he might go into a rage a beat his friend up. I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a friendship that has been going since high school. My husband is never mean to me, but I don't want him to beat someone up and go to jail again before our baby comes.

    Yet you're worried about how our children will be raised?  WTF is wrong with you??

    (I am so late to the party but I soooo needed this to make it through today...)

    My favorite part is about going to jail again and the rage issue. Seriously OP, WTF is wrong with you? You can't be honest with your husband after his friend came onto you b/c he might beat him up and go to jail again?! Sounds like you have more issues than a creeper friend.

    If my husband had a friend like that, we would no longer be friends I don't give a flying fvck how long they had known each other!?

    Again, I assume you are MUD. Why? Any mature woman who has any respect for herself would not even consider sending pics to this nut job, would be able to tell her husband these things, and would not be worried about jail, again...

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    I just KNEW someone would post a picture! :)
    maybe the puppies and rainbows made her feel better!

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  • Interesting that someone comes on here with a pregnancy fetish related question...the day after someone mentions that they accidently found a pregnancy fetish website.

    OP- The solution is simple (assuming you are 'real'): tell him that you feel that a boundary has been crossed and that you are not interested in participating in his fetish. Then tell him that if he can't respect that, you will have to tell your husband that he is acting inappropriately towards you. By doing this you tell him that you are uncomfortable, want it to stop, and the consequence is your husband getting involved. End. Of. Story. At this point, there is no reason to involve your husband, he is not acting in a way that suggests any actual danger or threat towards you, and nothing has gone so far as to let him think you are interested.

    As for pregnancy fetishes: yes, they are very real, not all the guys you meet will be this obvious but they will look. Just wait for the guys who ask to buy your breast milk.

     

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    As for pregnancy fetishes: yes, they are very real, not all the guys you meet will be this obvious but they will look. Just wait for the guys who ask to buy your breast milk.

     

    I just gagged. Holy F that is wrong... No. Words.  

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  • Question. Is said friend the baby daddy? That would make this alot more interesting.

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  • imagesweetgotham:

    Interesting that someone comes on here with a pregnancy fetish related question...the day after someone mentions that they accidently found a pregnancy fetish website.

     

    Pretty much exactly what I was thinking.  A bit too coincidental, no?

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  • again you have all made my afternoon I love the drama! The sad thing is this could not be mud just a very confused and dumb lady that truly thought we'd all tell her how to fix her Jerry Springer life.
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    BEST. PICTURE. EVER. 

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