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BV, I seriously think you need a bump break.

My God.

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Just fyi, this is a seriously douchetastic post. Many of the women on this board have been trying for quite a long time to get a BFP. It's one thing for you to announce you're pregnant and get out, but it's another to hang around and ask non-pregnant women if they think you might be growing more than one baby. Did you bother Googling this? Or did you just want to intentionally shove your BFP in people's faces?

 

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Re: BV, I seriously think you need a bump break.

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  • This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
  • imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.
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  • imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

  • imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    Agreed there was nothing wrong with what she said. And to suggest to someone else that they need a bump break is just very rude!
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  • imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.
    I didn't think there was anything wrong with what she said either... Honesty, albeit brutal at times, is the best policy!
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  • Lurky, I agreed with you until I spoke with BV privately. You go about things completely the wrong way.
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  • imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
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  • imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

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  • imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

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  • imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

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    Wassup Lurky.

    Yo!  Did you have your appointment this week?  How'd it go? 

    I'd create a separate post just for you but since you're already here Big Smile

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  • imagecruelsound:
    imageCrawltheWarriorKing:

    imagecruelsound:
    Wassup Lurky.

    Yo!  Did you have your appointment this week?  How'd it go? 

    I'd create a separate post just for you but since you're already here Big Smile

    One baby and we celebrated at Sonic. I wouldn't be surprised if there are also 5 chicken fingers growing in there, too. Yummmmm.

    ETA - I also moved my butt over to the April board.

    Haha, we celebrated at Chick-fil-a.  And now I want chicken fingers.  You know I've never had Sonic.  Don't have any close by me now but when I lived in GA I never tried it.  They sell tater tots don't they??  Yum.

    YAY!  So excited :)  What EDD did they give you?

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  • imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I don't particularly love it either. But I really don't understand why you care. This isn't your home board. You don't contribute anything here. You just come over to poke fun and stir the pot. The way you stalk TTGP and (even more so) Single Parents is pathetic.

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  • imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly offensive?

     ETA:  changed wording... Or perhaps I just read the comment wrong...

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  • imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

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  • imageon_a_whim:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly offensive?

     ETA:  changed wording... Or perhaps I just read the comment wrong...

    I dont find it offensive, but inaccurate. But Lurky is a biitch so it's to be expected.
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  • imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I don't particularly love it either. But I really don't understand why you care. This isn't your home board. You don't contribute anything here. You just come over to poke fun and stir the pot. The way you stalk TTGP and (even more so) Single Parents is pathetic.

    I realize that contributing truth and reason is often frowned upon over here but it needs to be said.  

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    imageSMann814:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

    I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

    Get outta here! All of the pregnates should go to their BMBs and stay there!!!!11! (side note: I wonder what happened to pregnate girl. She was funny.)

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    imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly rude? 

    Lurky's whole MO (on TTGP anyway) is rude.  That's what she's going for.  I don't *completely* disagree with what she said there, however, I especially dislike how she insists on grouping EVERYONE on TTGP together.  There are people here who are great and don't fall into the categories that she constantly complains about.  She will never admit that though.  

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  • imagemrsz2008:
    imageon_a_whim:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly offensive?

     ETA:  changed wording... Or perhaps I just read the comment wrong...

    I dont find it offensive, but inaccurate. But Lurky is a biitch so it's to be expected.
    Gotcha!  I think I maybe just read/took it the wrong way considering who she's talking about.. didn't make much sense to me.
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  • imageLegalPawn:
    imageSMann814:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

    I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

    Fvck. Who forgot to revoke my visa????? Where's the fvcking TTGP border patrol? Oh, that's right. They're too busy being bitter, mad, and making up rules.

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  • imagelurkylulu2:

    I realize that contributing truth and reason is often frowned upon over here but it needs to be said.  

    Oh, so it's like a public service? Well, that changes things...

    I think there are plenty of ladies here that are sane and can offer "truth" and "reason" without being creepy and stalkerish. But I understand that you have nothing better to do, so carry on.

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    imageon_a_whim:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly rude? 

    Lurky's whole MO (on TTGP anyway) is rude.  That's what she's going for.  I don't *completely* disagree with what she said there, however, I especially dislike how she insists on grouping EVERYONE on TTGP together.  There are people here who are great and don't fall into the categories that she constantly complains about.  She will never admit that though.  

    Oh I'll totally admit that. However, it's the majority of the regulars, or maybe the most vocal people on this board, that give the whole place a bad name.

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    imageCrawltheWarriorKing:
    imagecruelsound:
    imageCrawltheWarriorKing:

    imagecruelsound:
    Wassup Lurky.

    Yo!  Did you have your appointment this week?  How'd it go? 

    I'd create a separate post just for you but since you're already here Big Smile

    One baby and we celebrated at Sonic. I wouldn't be surprised if there are also 5 chicken fingers growing in there, too. Yummmmm.

    ETA - I also moved my butt over to the April board.

    Haha, we celebrated at Chick-fil-a.  And now I want chicken fingers.  You know I've never had Sonic.  Don't have any close by me now but when I lived in GA I never tried it.  They sell tater tots don't they??  Yum.

    YAY!  So excited :)  What EDD did they give you?

    5/1, but I'll be delivering in April. The tots at Sonic are the best.

    And I'll stop jacking this thread now.

    Now I need a cherry limeade. Fukc, I just had one yesterday.

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  • It's kind of amusing that someone can feign so much outrage over a post that isn't even flameworthy. You feeling ok there, lurky? Not enough righteous indignation in your Wheaties this morning? 

    Unless I'm missing something, I don't see anything weird about what BV posted. "ZOMG how do I know if it's twinsies?!?!" is an asinine post, and the response to it wasn't unexpected.

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    imageon_a_whim:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly rude? 

    Lurky's whole MO (on TTGP anyway) is rude.  That's what she's going for.  I don't *completely* disagree with what she said there, however, I especially dislike how she insists on grouping EVERYONE on TTGP together.  There are people here who are great and don't fall into the categories that she constantly complains about.  She will never admit that though.  

    Yes Sorry, but she is spot on. For awhile there everyone was running to an RE for everything! "low temps" my thyroid! one spot of blood after O, lp defect! I could go on and on.

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  • imagelurkylulu2:
    imageLegalPawn:
    imageSMann814:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

    I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

    Fvck. Who forgot to revoke my visa????? Where's the fvcking TTGP border patrol? Oh, that's right. They're too busy being bitter, mad, and making up rules.

     

    Seems like you're the border patrol considering this whole thread started by you is telling someone to take a bump break. 



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  • imageLegalPawn:
    imageSMann814:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

    I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

    You totes belong!  Never leeeeaaaaaave!!!

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  • imagedinine:

     Seems like you're the border patrol considering this whole thread started by you is telling someone to take a bump break. 

    LOL.. good eye... good eye...
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  • imagelurkylulu2:
    imagebostonbluejay:
    imageon_a_whim:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imageatlb:
    imagelurkylulu2:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly rude? 

    Lurky's whole MO (on TTGP anyway) is rude.  That's what she's going for.  I don't *completely* disagree with what she said there, however, I especially dislike how she insists on grouping EVERYONE on TTGP together.  There are people here who are great and don't fall into the categories that she constantly complains about.  She will never admit that though.  

    Oh I'll totally admit that. However, it's the majority of the regulars, or maybe the most vocal people on this board, that give the whole place a bad name.

    We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

    Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

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  • imageLegalPawn:
    imageSMann814:
    imagemlynb:

    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

    I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

    You totally belong here, as long as you aren't just trolling. WinkStick out tongue

    I guess we need to break out the TTGPGW for the siggy again, so you ku bishes know where you're "allowed" to post.

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  • imagefarmerlynda:
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    We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

    Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

    You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

    And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

    Edited for clarity.

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  • The only part I could maybe agree with Lurky on is the last line. I don't feel the OP was trying to shove a BFP in people's faces.  But I don't think BV needs to take a bump break. 
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    imagemrsz2008:
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    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

    You're such a badass lurky. Confused

    I'm not claiming to be a badass. I do have a problem with the "zomg you got your BFP now get the fvck out of here, so the rest of us wannabe infertiles can whine about how we've been trying for 4 months to have our miracle baby" mentality that is apparently running rampant over here.

    I'm really sorry if I'm overstepping here, being new to posting and all.. but am I the only one that found this comment utterly rude? 

    Lurky's whole MO (on TTGP anyway) is rude.  That's what she's going for.  I don't *completely* disagree with what she said there, however, I especially dislike how she insists on grouping EVERYONE on TTGP together.  There are people here who are great and don't fall into the categories that she constantly complains about.  She will never admit that though.  

    Oh I'll totally admit that. However, it's the majority of the regulars, or maybe the most vocal people on this board, that give the whole place a bad name.

    We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

    Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

    Well, there is truly having trouble trying to get pregnant (as you described) and then there are the "Boo hoo CD1, cycle 4 was a total bust boo hoo woe is me, when can I see a specialist?" posts that do inundate the board at times.  

    I *think* those are the "wannabe infertiles" that lurky is referring to.  I'm sure I'll be corrected if I am wrong.

    And what baboo said was true...there have been a lot of women on here who want to go running to the RE after three or four failed cycles.  In fact, there have been a few heated debates between people defending their appts at the RE after a few failed cycles and those who know how hard it can be to get into a good RE and have to wait for appointments when they truly need them vs. someone who is just impatient.   

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    We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

    Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

    You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

    And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

    Edited for clarity.

    I guess we must have a different opinion of who the "regulars" on this board are. Because the regs I know don't act that way and they certainly don't make up rules.

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    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

    I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

    No offense intended for all TTGP Grads. I love seeing grads come back and participate in posts, not to mention the weekly check-in. Smile

    I just think its childish to come back and create a post to call people out about things that happened on TTGP when you aren't TTGP anymore. There is no need to creep back in here with the sole purpose of causing drama and stiring the pot. We already have enough to deal with on a daily basis.

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    We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

    Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

    You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

    And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

    Edited for clarity.

    I guess we must have a different opinion of who the "regulars" on this board are. Because the regs I know don't act that way and they certainly don't make up rules.

    Who are the regs on this board anyway. This is why I am an advocate for naming names! Stick out tongue

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    imageLegalPawn:
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    imagemrsz2008:
    imagemlynb:
    This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.
    I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

    Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

    Yes This!

    Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

    I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

    No offense intended for all TTGP Grads. I love seeing grads come back and participate in posts, not to mention the weekly check-in. Smile

    I just think its childish to come back and create a post to call people out about things that happened on TTGP when you aren't TTGP anymore. There is no need to creep back in here with the sole purpose of causing drama and stiring the pot. We already have enough to deal with on a daily basis.

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  • imagelurkylulu2:

    imagefarmerlynda:
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    We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

    Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

    You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

    And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

    Edited for clarity.

    OK, how long did it take you to get pregnant, honey buns?  I thought that the question was implied in my post. 

    And you and I must have a different concept of who the regulars are on this board.

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    Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.

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