BV, I seriously think you need a bump break.

jenni888

LegalPawn:

SMann814:

mlynb:

mrsz2008:

mlynb:

This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.

I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

This!

Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

*sobs uncontrollably*

lurkylulu2

farmerlynda:

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

"

We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

Edited for clarity.

OK, how long did it take you to get pregnant, honey buns?  I thought that the question was implied in my post. 

And you and I must have a different concept of who the regulars are on this board.

20 cycles, so get over yourself.

SMann814

lurkylulu2:

SMann814:

LegalPawn:

SMann814:

mlynb:

mrsz2008:

mlynb:

This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.

I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

This!

Lurky....You're KU and still you have nothing better to do than call people out on the TTGP board? You don't belong here anymore. Go back to 1st Tri and stir the pot there.

I take offense here.  I thought TTGP was into the "lets be nice to the KU and grads."  Now we don't belong again?  Shiit.

No offense intended for all TTGP Grads. I love seeing grads come back and participate in posts, not to mention the weekly check-in.

I just think its childish to come back and create a post to call people out about things that happened on TTGP when you aren't TTGP anymore. There is no need to creep back in here with the sole purpose of causing drama and stiring the pot. We already have enough to deal with on a daily basis.

Aren't you clever. Too bad I was clarifying not back-peddling.

My original post was meant for you directly not other grads which is why I put your name before my comment about going back to 1st Tri.

Piggilywiggily

lurkylulu2:

mlynb:

mrsz2008:

mlynb:

This just isn't necessary at all. There is nothing wrong with what she said.

I agree, and calling her out when it was already (nicely) suggested to her was just mean.

Exactly. We all have our days and we all love BV just the same.

This is a habit of BV's. I'll callout whomever I like, however I like, whenever I like but thanks for the netiquette lesson.

atlb

Oh joy! Now we have an IF pissing contest? JHC.

farmerlynda

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

"

We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

Edited for clarity.

OK, how long did it take you to get pregnant, honey buns?  I thought that the question was implied in my post. 

And you and I must have a different concept of who the regulars are on this board.

20 cycles, so get over yourself.

Maybe if you actually shared some information about your life -- instead of just dropping in and tearing other people down -- you'd actually come across as a decent human being.

Frankly, I don't even believe you, not that it matters.  When you're all snark it makes whatever you say sound like it's just out there to win an argument.

If it's true, it makes you a little less of a biitch for talking about 'wannabe infertiles.' Not much though.

FWIW, when I think of regs on this board a few that come to mind are BP, MissMusic, BearWombat and a couple others who have recently migrated over to TTTC. Maybe that's because I have 3T-radar but when you call people like that wannabe infertiles with four month miracle babies, it's just rotten. 

misstrish521

Shayliz:

The only part I could maybe agree with Lurky on is the last line. I don't feel the OP was trying to shove a BFP in people's faces.  But I don't think BV needs to take a bump break. 

I agree. 

lurkylulu2

farmerlynda:

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

"

We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

Edited for clarity.

OK, how long did it take you to get pregnant, honey buns?  I thought that the question was implied in my post. 

And you and I must have a different concept of who the regulars are on this board.

20 cycles, so get over yourself.

Maybe if you actually shared some information about your life -- instead of just dropping in and tearing other people down -- you'd actually come across as a decent human being.

Frankly, I don't even believe you, not that it matters.  When you're all snark it makes whatever you say sound like it's just out there to win an argument.

If it's true, it makes you a little less of a biitch for talking about 'wannabe infertiles.' Not much though.

FWIW, when I think of regs on this board a few that come to mind are BP, MissMusic, BearWombat and a couple others who have recently migrated over to TTTC. Maybe that's because I have 3T-radar but when you call people like that wannabe infertiles with four month miracle babies, it's just rotten. 

Oh noes. You don't believe me? How can I ever go on with my day knowing that farmerlynduhh from the interwebz thinks I'm a big, meanie, rotten pants liar?

farmerlynda

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

lurkylulu2:

farmerlynda:

"

We like it here, and don't really care if TTGP has a bad name on BOTB or anywhere else.  And from someone who is a regular on this board & has been trying for 13 months with a husband who has a low sperm count due to thyroid cancer radiation treatment, your 4-month-wannabe-infertile comment is offensive.  Especially since you're pregnant, and unless I'm wrong, didn't have a terrible time trying to get that way.

Oops, I brought up something personal in response to a generally asinine and biitchy post.  Maybe I should take a bump break along with BV.

You should be offended by the amount of regulars who act like they have fertility issues because they don't get KU the first couple of months of trying. However, you're defending their ridiculous behavior. Yeah, that makes sense.

And you have no idea how long it took me to get pregnant sweet cheeks. Go back to internet snark class, because you fail.

Edited for clarity.

OK, how long did it take you to get pregnant, honey buns?  I thought that the question was implied in my post. 

And you and I must have a different concept of who the regulars are on this board.

20 cycles, so get over yourself.

Maybe if you actually shared some information about your life -- instead of just dropping in and tearing other people down -- you'd actually come across as a decent human being.

Frankly, I don't even believe you, not that it matters.  When you're all snark it makes whatever you say sound like it's just out there to win an argument.

If it's true, it makes you a little less of a biitch for talking about 'wannabe infertiles.' Not much though.

FWIW, when I think of regs on this board a few that come to mind are BP, MissMusic, BearWombat and a couple others who have recently migrated over to TTTC. Maybe that's because I have 3T-radar but when you call people like that wannabe infertiles with four month miracle babies, it's just rotten. 

Oh noes. You don't believe me? How can I ever go on with my day knowing that farmerlynduhh from the interwebz thinks I'm a big, meanie, rotten pants liar?

In the words of the immortal lurkeeelulu "Go back to internet snark class, because you fail." 

I clicked on this thread hoping for something better, but it seems your entertainment value is done for the day.  Back to work.

LilyPotter218

In response to the original post. I don't think BV was out of line. Fine if "twin" wanted to wait to have an OB confirm pregnancy, just keep quiet until then. But to post something so asinine on TTGP, or anywhere else for that matter, is just dense. 

The post about anyone caring that she "got her BFP first" was quite rude and bitchy. She was being flamed for asking a stupid question on an inappropriate board. Had she lurked and participated she would know that you guys are thrilled when active members of the boards announce BFP.

I give props to Blind for being back here. I was labeled a "threatened abortion" for a month and had it happened to me, I'd likely be in a dark room crying still. Hell, I saw those words typed on my chart yesterday and it took all I had to hold back tears... Really, can't you call it something else?!

It is no ones business how someone heals from a loss. I for one would be a snarky b!tch and likely had the same reaction. 

 

MySweetBaboo

LilyPotter218:

In response to the original post. I don't think BV was out of line. Fine if "twin" wanted to wait to have an OB confirm pregnancy, just keep quiet until then. But to post something so asinine on TTGP, or anywhere else for that matter, is just dense. 

The post about anyone caring that she "got her BFP first" was quite rude and bitchy. She was being flamed for asking a stupid question on an inappropriate board. Had she lurked and participated she would know that you guys are thrilled when active members of the boards announce BFP.

I give props to Blind for being back here. I was labeled a "threatened abortion" for a month and had it happened to me, I'd likely be in a dark room crying still. Hell, I saw those words typed on my chart yesterday and it took all I had to hold back tears... Really, can't you call it something else?!

It is no ones business how someone heals from a loss. I for one would be a snarky b!tch and likely had the same reaction. 

 

No one has said anything about that how anyone heals from a loss. But you would get the same treatment if you came back here behaving that way. My heart goes out to anyone who has suffered a loss. I've been there. I've also had to come back here and I never came back as a snarky *** because of my pain. If one feels that way, than maybe they aren't ready to come back here. I found the Loss board EXTREMELY helpful during my dark days. Sorry, but there are very few exceptions to this excuse. Very few.

LilyPotter218

GhostMonkey:

LilyPotter218:

I give props to Blind for being back here. I was labeled a "threatened abortion" for a month and had it happened to me, I'd likely be in a dark room crying still. Hell, I saw those words typed on my chart yesterday and it took all I had to hold back tears... Really, can't you call it something else?!

That's the medical term. Deal with it. And if asking about the potential for twins is rubbing it in people's faces, isn't saying you could have had a loss but didn't also rubbing people's faces in it? Points to ponder.

As for the rest- ::facepalm::. The douche of the day contenders list keeps growing. I don't care if she is acting that way because of her loss, work, S/O, or any other reason. Having a loss is not license to be a biitch. She needs to step away until she can control her emotions if that is what is driving her to act differently. Any therapist will tell you that.

 

If she thinks I was rubbing a potential loss in her face, then I'm sure I will hear about it. I think it was pretty crystal clear I was not. Think what you will of me. I know what a medical term is, but it doesn't mean it is not scary as fvck to deal with.

And I have been to therapy for things not TTC related, and I don't really think her emotions were that out of control. You are a way bigger b!tch than she has ever been. And sorry I do think being bitter and angry is a normal part of healing. I do get b!tchy when sh!tty things happen.

If you really think that post makes me contender for douche of the day then I question your sanity. Read some of the sh!t you spew out. I was not attacking anyone...  

melissa721

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