So I go this Friday! FINALLY! But now my stomach is in a knot and I need to gather my thoughts
...So can you ladies give me questions I should be asking? I know we all have different dx's but some general questions I should be asking to make sure this RE is on the up and up would be very helpful and/or questions you wish you had asked be starting...
TIA ![]()

April 2013 DE IVF= BFN
September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...
October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C
Re: 1st RE Visit
I am not sure what type of testing you have had done already but you can start by asking about any additional testing. I also like to know how many patients my RE has seen that are like me (with my dx). I know everyone is the same but it is nice to know that they have experience with patients like me. That is a good start. I am not sure where you are in the process from your post so I am not too much help but GL to you.
...also, you should cheeck the SART rates of your clinic if you haven't done so already.
Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
Sorry about that! I am in the VERY beginning of this. I have had an u/s and blood work to determine my hormone levels.
April 2013 DE IVF= BFN
September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...
October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C
Good luck darling! You will likely get other testing such as more bloodwork (also checks for chicken pox and MMR immunity), std panel, HSG, SHG, your DH will have to have his SA (maybe more than one) and a mock transfer if you have decided to go the IVF route. I would also ask about their DE program, wait times, matching process etc (I assume you're doing the IVF w/ donor egg, but correct me if I'm wrong).
Find out about their success rates, anything else like ICSI? Do they recommend any chromosome testing or additional bloodwork panels (CF, immunity)?
Hi hon! Thanks sooooo much for the input! and yes. Unless the RE does another u/s and miraculously finds some ovaries, then DE/IVF, is what is on the table for now.
Also....Hope all is going well with your cycle (((HUGS))))
April 2013 DE IVF= BFN
September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...
October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C
Good point! I am going to the Dr's satellite office here, so that might be something to ask about.
April 2013 DE IVF= BFN
September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...
October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C
I also failed to read that you were doing DE. I just started the research on this part but one thing that DE ladies told me is that if you can do a shared risk/guarantee program do it. Even though it will cost you more, it is worth it in the end. You either end up with a baby or your money back.
GL to you!
Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
April 2013 DE IVF= BFN
September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...
October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C