So, I had a reduction when I was 18 and now I'm 30. When I had the surgery my doctor said I could have trouble breastfeeding. That literally means nothing to an 18 year old! Now here I am taking steps to address that reality- reading books, seeking out a lactation consultant and basically doing obsessive research because now that I am pregnant it means so much to me. I know it's best for the baby and for developing our relationship.
I've had two meltdowns so far. I could have a full supply, no supply or something in the middle- this is true for everyone, not just me. The sad part is that I won't know if breastfeeding is even a possibility until she is born. Again, I hate to say it but this is technically true for everyone but I know the odds are against me. I read a story in one of my books last night about this woman and how she tried but the baby rejected her milk because of the supplementing she had to do despite this woman doing literally everything possible and it really set me off. I cried all night.
Anyway, I'm not really sure why I posted this (I'm new) but maybe it can help someone else dealing with the same thing. If someone is out there, you can read "Defining Your Own Success, Breastfeeding After Breast Reduction Surgery" by Diane West but be advised it will not fill you with false hope...
Re: Don't think I can breastfeed...sad. (TMI? Vent? IDK!)
I too had a reduction when I was younger (22), but I'm staying hopeful, but not setting myself up for a disappointment. My best friend, who had no breast surgery in her past, had an extremely difficult time, so it can happen, surgery or not. Right now my plan is to try and hopefully it works.
I seem to recall my dr saying that if you had sensation back after surgery, your chances of having difficulty breastfeeding were much less, but it was so long ago...
I'm trying to stay positive but the combination of hormones and this book really set me over the edge! Plus, it seemed like there were not a lot of people talking about it. That book is very good though if you are interested, thanks for responding
I know it's not, I wasn't breat fed and I'm awesome! I just want the option. It's weird how all of a sudden it matters to me
I had a breast reduction when I was 22 and am still hopeful! It really depends on what kind of surgery you had (for example, did they completely detach the nipples) and how you have healed. My doctor took out way less that I wanted because he wanted me to have the option to breastfeed. There was a great study I read while considering surgery... it followed women who considered BR surgery and did not have it and those who did and compared breastfeeding outcomes. It turns out that women who consider BR have a harder time breastfeeding even if they don't have the surgery. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
I was well aware of the potential consequences of my surgery. Frankly, being able to move and not have constant back/shoulder/head pain have been well worth it to me. I'm sure my child will appreciate being picked up. If this means I cannot breastfeed, then that is fine. I will try my best though!
I really wouldn't let it bother you so much. Reading your post stressed me out for you! You'll try your best and if it doesn't work out you'll use formula.
Another scenario is that your baby might not even take to your milk. Apparently I was fussy when I was born and ma's milk "wasn't good enough" so I grew up on formula.
I think I turned out alright
Bottom line--as much as it would mean the world to me to breastfeed, I also know that it might not be reality, but I still have options to raise a healthy baby!
I had my breast reduction when I was 15 and am now 36. When I had my reduction, they only detached nipples at the time so I knew I wasn't going to be able to breastfeed. I know it was the best thing for me though bc I was very restricted when I had my larger breasts.
So I didn't plan to even try to breastfeed. Ironically I did produce milk and had to wear very tight bras to suppress it. Since DD was on triple photo therapy, she had to have a strict feeding so I don't think I could have breastfed her anyway.