I'm not ready!

etoyama · July 2011

I just got back from the OB and I'm 2cm dilated, 80% effaced and have less than 1cm cervical length left. Also, I'm funneling. Oh dear. The OB said I need to lie with my feet and pelvis elevated and pay really close attention to my contractions. She said "if you make it to your appointment next week, that's great, but if not, don't be surprised"

I was really not expecting that news today. I feel totally fine! Beep is still small (25th percentile) and estimated to be 5lbs 4oz. Ohh I really want her to stay in there until she's full term! I'm not ready to have her yet. Thanks for listening.

MrsVo · July 2011

Lots of T&Ps for you and Beep Beep! Stay put little one!!

kthappy76 · July 2011

That does sound scary, but if she comes now she should be just fine. Hoping she stays put for awhile longer though. Pelvis in the air and hang in there!

brandywine2010 · July 2011

I know you must feel overwhelmed. Prayers for you and Beep! I hope she stays put for a while. Best wishes to you, dear!

leecrystalwed08 · July 2011

Stay in there Beep Beep! She must be really excited to "meet" her mom!

Temp616379875002458 · July 2011

Aw, I know it is nerve wracking, but you have done such an awesome job keeping her in there for so long. A five pound baby is a great sized baby - especially for one who is a week or two from full term.

We are all keeping our fingers crossed for a little more time for you and Beep, but you will do great. At this point, if she needs to pause in the nicu, it will just be for insurance!

You can do it!!!!!

Sunshine05 · July 2011

I hope she stays put for a little while longer! Lots of T&Ps headed your way!

JenCW · July 2011

Oh, E, I can imagine how surprised you were to get that news. Do what you can, but know that when Beep comes she's going to be OK. You have done an amazing job so far, and I am confident that once she's born you're going to be so thrilled to have her that it won't matter if she was a little early!

FWIW - My boys were all smaller than what Beep is measuring right now (just over 3 lbs, 4 1/2 lbs, 5 lbs), and all three of them did great.

ashlyrose · July 2011

I hope she stays nice & cozy. I know of a friend that was dilated at a 3 for almost a week so hopefully you have way more time!

lckcdc3 · July 2011

Try and stay put Beep! ((Hugs))

kelfeen · July 2011

In case it makes you feel any better I was exactly the same for over a month before my DD came along! She was born just 4 days shy of her EDD so hopefully you still have time and little beep stays put until you are ready! Keep us posted!

DeputiesWife · July 2011

sending you tons of T&P for Beep to say in a little while longer.

mikeandangie · July 2011

Aw, I am so sorry, sweetie. I know it's scary (((hugs))). But I also know that even in the worst case scenario, she'll do great. My friend's baby came early and at 5 pounds and he did not need any extra care.

NicoleeBonsai · July 2011

oh wow. i really hope she stays put a little longer!

you have done an AMAZING job of keeping her cooking with all the PTL stuff you've experienced!

((HUGS))

MSaksa · July 2011

Lots of T&P coming your way for Beep to stay put a little longer!

MyShellyBelly · July 2011

Stay put Beep Beep! Your Mommy isn't ready for you yet! Sending lots of positive vibes that Beep Beep stays in a while longer, but if she decides to make a sooner appearance, I'm sure she would be great!

jcath · July 2011

I hope Beep Beep decides to stay inside for a while longer but I agree with the PPs that she'll be fine either way. Also those u/s weight estimates aren't perfect - she could be bigger. I'm glad you are feeling well though.

Fingers crossed!

Mrs. Mo · July 2011

I'll keep my fingers crossed that she stays put !

Another sucess story: My niece was born 6 weeks early and weighed less than 5 lbs but has no issues/health problems at all ! (She's 3.5 now!)

KYRN · July 2011

T&Ps for a few more weeks! If it makes you feel any better at my 37 week appointment they told me they didn't think I'd make it back since I was 3cm and 80% thinned out. I marched my big 38wk butt in there the following week after sitting on pins and needles all weekend and had no change. It is definitely possible to make it a little longer.

flycka · July 2011

I hope she stays put a little longer but feel free to be nervous. But overthink it will get you nowhere. You've done a great job so far and will soon have to stop worrying about pregnancy and start worrying about feedings and diaper and sleep. Weather it's in a week or two or four.
Thinking good thoughts for you guys.

RachH517 · July 2011

Sending positive thoguhts your way. I hope Beep Beep stays put for a while!

Echloe · July 2011

Oh sweetie. I hope Beep stays put a little longer.

steveandkim2 · July 2011

YOu are going to be one awesome Mommy b/c you've done an amazing job on BR!

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LaneCA · July 2011

Keeping you and Beep in my T+Ps!! Keep those feet up momma!

halo_tx · July 2011

T&P's that she'll stay put for a little longer!!

kkdavie15 · July 2011

T&P's little Beep stays put for a little while longer. You have done such a good job baking her that she will be fine when she gets here. I was 5lbs14oz when I was born and I was two weeks late and I'm just fine

so I'm sure Beep Beep will be too! Hang in there hon!

sterpstra10 · July 2011

NewMrsW:

Aw, I know it is nerve wracking, but you have done such an awesome job keeping her in there for so long. A five pound baby is a great sized baby - especially for one who is a week or two from full term.

We are all keeping our fingers crossed for a little more time for you and Beep, but you will do great. At this point, if she needs to pause in the nicu, it will just be for insurance!

You can do it!!!!!

This exactly! I hope you get more time, but if you don't - Beep is a great size already!

LCS040209 · July 2011

many prayers for you and Beep Beep!

MyHusbandMyHero · July 2011

Oh my goodness! Hope everything is ok!

babylove0511 · July 2011

T&P for beep beep to stay in a little longer! she just wants to meet her mama

cbubbles2 · July 2011

Stay put Beep!! Thinking of you!

MBfromBMC · July 2011

Snuggle in, Beep Beep and hang out for a few more weeks!!

CallMeAl · July 2011

Stay put Beep!!! I have my fingers crossed that she bakes a little longer....

illinigal · July 2011

T&P heading your way. I hope little beep beep keeps on cooking awhile longer.

SunMoon&Stars · July 2011

I hear ya about not being ready! Tell Beep Beep to stay in there.

MrsMAF · July 2011

I'm sorry that you got that news, BUT even if Beep comes soon, she will be fine!!! I know full term is ideal, but you'll be ok!! Hang in there!

periwnkl10 · July 2011

etoyama:
I just got back from the OB and I'm 2cm dilated, 80% effaced and have less than 1cm cervical length left. Also, I'm funneling. Oh dear. The OB said I need to lie with my feet and pelvis elevated and pay really close attention to my contractions. She said "if you make it to your appointment next week, that's great, but if not, don't be surprised" I was really not expecting that news today. I feel totally fine! Beep is still small (25th percentile) and estimated to be 5lbs 4oz. Ohh I really want her to stay in there until she's full term! I'm not ready to have her yet. Thanks for listening.

Oh sweetie! I know you've been through so much. Just remember, the outcome can and will still be GREAT, regardless of when beep decides to come! We were 8th percentile with IUGR. I was funneling BIG TIME from 32 weeks on, maybe even sooner, but that's when they noticed it, and my dilation/effacement/cervical length were all exactly how yours are now. Briggs ended up being 5lbs 1oz and had virtually NO health problems at birth. He was perfect! I'm praying for the same outcome for you

goodgollie · July 2011

I felt the same way when they told me DS had IUGR at 34 weeks and could come "any time". He was only 3 lbs. 10 oz when he was born at 36 weeks. Your peanut sounds like a very good size and probably won't even have to go to the neonatal unit. I know everything will be fine, but I do pray she stays in a little longer until you are both ready.