Our twins turned 2 months old yesterday (I cannot believe it's already been that long) and I just don't feel bonded to them like I did w/ DD1. I'm not sure if it's because I had to stop BFing early on or if it's a normal feeling because they're the 2nd/3rd children, or if it's because the whole process of waking/diapering/feeding/sleeping has been so mechanical. I love them, I really do. It just bums me out a bit - I feel like I don't "know" them. I'm not depressed/anxious/exhaused or anything like that - just kind of, "blah." I'm hoping that now that they're starting to smile and coo and become "real" people that I'll start feeling it.
Comments/advice/commisseration would be appreciated.