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MrsJC · June 2011

healthy pg mentioned

ClaraEarlene · June 2011

Did you PM one of the moderators about this? I was just about to do so, but thought I should check with you first.

MrsJC · June 2011

ClaraEarlene:
Did you PM one of the moderators about this? I was just about to do so, but thought I should check with you first.

Yeah, I just sent Jen a PM and paged her on PAL.

ClaraEarlene · June 2011

MrsJC:
ClaraEarlene:
Did you PM one of the moderators about this? I was just about to do so, but thought I should check with you first.
Yeah, I just sent Jen a PM and paged her on PAL.

Excellent. I'm so sick of the b.s. posts on this board lately.

mrsbnlmel · June 2011

Yeah there has been a rash of posts like that today. I responded to the blighted ovum post below it and thought the poster was going through a m/c but it kinda sounds like that isn't really happening after all. I've been there and understand the stress, but why post here if you aren't going through a m/c?

MrsJC · June 2011

I only come over here briefly now, mostly I'm on TTCAL, but just today I saw 2 of these posts. I sent Jen a PM about the one I saw this morning too, and she quickly edited it. I think the OP has since DD'ed that one. I just wish there was a way to keep these FH's away from here.

ClaraEarlene · June 2011

mrsbnlmel:
Yeah there has been a rash of posts like that today. I responded to the blighted ovum post below it and thought the poster was going through a m/c but it kinda sounds like that isn't really happening after all. I've been there and understand the stress, but why post here if you aren't going through a m/c?

I responded to the blighted ovum one, too. She intro'd over on Feb 2012 two days ago, so obviously she believes she's pregnant.

LuvofTxs · June 2011

Wow, I thought from the previous post you responded to me that you sincerely answered with compassion. After reading this, I am questioning whether or not I should ask a question again if I am concerned? I am truly sorry if you think I am "not going through a m/c" but honestly I am so unsure and nervous and worried that that is why I posted in the first place as I mentioned to get "any advice or information from women who had gone through a blighted ovum as I am concerned I may be experiencing something with what has gone on with my pregnancy thus far."

I can only speak for myself as I am not here to jump for joy or be disprespectful to anyone going through a loss by posting something disprespectful, but I was hoping to gain support and information from anyones shared experiences is all.

Thanks

But I truly wish you all well, and thoughts and prayers to those of you going through some very challenging and emotional situations-all the best.

mrsbnlmel · June 2011

I'm sorry, but obviously I did respond with compassion. I told you details of my very recent loss to help you. Rehashing it is hard but I did it to help a stranger having a hard time. As I mentioned I misunderstood the post and thought you were going through a m/c. You said yourself you don't know yet. That is a very sensitive thing for the women here, to have pregnant women posting questions when we are looking for a safe place to go through a really hard time. I mean no disrespect and as I said I'm sure you will get great news with your u/s and BW and have a healthy pregnancy.

DancingWarriorUSMC · June 2011

I'm so pissed about these posts. I really think there should be a warning type thing in the description in red font that lets people know BEFORE posting that unless they have received a positive result in a miscarriage/loss, this is not a place for them to be posting. It makes me feel like these women just don't get it/care. *sigh*

ClaraEarlene · June 2011

LuvofTxs:
Wow, I thought from the previous post you responded to me that you sincerely answered with compassion. After reading this, I am questioning whether or not I should ask a question again if I am concerned? I am truly sorry if you think I am "not going through a m/c" but honestly I am so unsure and nervous and worried that that is why I posted in the first place as I mentioned to get "any advice or information from women who had gone through a blighted ovum as I am concerned I may be experiencing something with what has gone on with my pregnancy thus far."
I can only speak for myself as I am not here to jump for joy or be disprespectful to anyone going through a loss by posting something disprespectful, but I was hoping to gain support and information from anyones shared experiences is all.
Thanks
But I truly wish you all well, and thoughts and prayers to those of you going through some very challenging and emotional situations-all the best.

EVERYONE is concerned about their pregnancies, to a degree. Do you think they should ALL post here, too, and ask us if we think they're having a miscarriage? We're not here to offer hope to women who are STILL pregnant--we're here to offer support to women who have lost or who are currently going through a loss. Be grateful that you fit neither of those categories.

LuvofTxs · June 2011

MrsBnlmel, I should have used a better word-I am sorry. you are correct I do appreciate your response to me with regards to my questions. I deleted my questions as I felt it had obviously offended and upset a couple of you which as mentioned was not my intension so I appologize for that. Truly and honestly I meant no disrespect, and I read your other post and took some emotional offense to it as I'm a little emotional at the moment waiting it out as I know we all are emotional. But I will leave this board for now, and I'm certainly not trying to leave with any mean words. I truly wish you all the best...take care

DancingWarriorUSMC · June 2011

ClaraEarlene:
LuvofTxs:
Wow, I thought from the previous post you responded to me that you sincerely answered with compassion. After reading this, I am questioning whether or not I should ask a question again if I am concerned? I am truly sorry if you think I am "not going through a m/c" but honestly I am so unsure and nervous and worried that that is why I posted in the first place as I mentioned to get "any advice or information from women who had gone through a blighted ovum as I am concerned I may be experiencing something with what has gone on with my pregnancy thus far."
I can only speak for myself as I am not here to jump for joy or be disprespectful to anyone going through a loss by posting something disprespectful, but I was hoping to gain support and information from anyones shared experiences is all.
Thanks
But I truly wish you all well, and thoughts and prayers to those of you going through some very challenging and emotional situations-all the best.

EVERYONE is concerned about their pregnancies, to a degree. Do you think they should ALL post here, too, and ask us if we think they're having a miscarriage? We're not here to offer hope to women who are STILL pregnant--we're here to offer support to women who have lost or who are currently going through a loss. Be grateful that you fit neither of those categories.

Here here! I'm sure if you were to post that SAME post on the month or general type boards that you could find someone who would be in a MUCH better mental and emotional state to give you advice/support then women who are going through one of the hardest experiences in their lives. Come here when you have suffered a loss (God forbid).

mrsbnlmel · June 2011

LuvofTxs:
MrsBnlmel, I should have used a better word-I am sorry. you are correct I do appreciate your response to me with regards to my questions. I deleted my questions as I felt it had obviously offended and upset a couple of you which as mentioned was not my intension so I appologize for that. Truly and honestly I meant no disrespect, and I read your other post and took some emotional offense to it as I'm a little emotional at the moment waiting it out as I know we all are emotional. But I will leave this board for now, and I'm certainly not trying to leave with any mean words. I truly wish you all the best...take care

I appreciate that and I'm sorry if my posting offended you. I didn't mean it in a back stabbing way. I simply meant that it really, really doesn't sound like you have anything to be worried about. That is good! We have had a lot of people posting in that way lately and it is hard to pour you heart into helping people who disappear to the birth month board when the news is good. I truly wish you the best of luck.

hungryhippo · June 2011

Thank you to everyone helping to protect this board today.

sweepie412 · June 2011

hungryhippo:
Thank you to everyone helping to protect this board today.

Agreed! I feel bad...I also sent PMs to the moderators! Unfortunately people have been keeping them busy!

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