Babies: 9 - 12 Months

daddys changing/not changing diapers

I am all for a daddy helping in this department.  My husband changes plenty of diapers.  I probably change more than him, but whatever, he does more cooking than I do, he does more yard work than I do, he does more home repairs than I do.

You all love to rip into these ladies that admit their husbands don't change diapers.  I've seen multiple ladies admit their husbands change more diapers than they do!  So why don't you rip into them for not being fair to their husbands.  I see a lot of posters complaining about how unfair this and that is toward themselves or another lady, but it's all good for things to be unfair toward a husband.

For the record, I don't really care who changes more diapers.  I'm mostly being facetious & bringing up the fact that a lot of you are man haters.  It is possible to love your own gender and want equality & still love the other gender.

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  • I don't get it either. DH changes diapers every once in awhile and will only change a poopy one if he has to. He's only home for an hour or two before James goes to bed if that and I SAH so I guess he couldn't change too many if he wanted anyway. I don't really care because diapers aren't too bad.
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  • You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

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  • imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    Drunk posting.  It happens too often on this board.  

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  • imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

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  • Saying men should grow up and be parents == being a man hater.
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  • imageLibby1978:
    imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

    Oooh, touchy. And sure it's my business. Someone posts about it on a public chat board and they've made it everyone's business. 

  • imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    Mmmmm. Gender rolls.

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  • imageHeather R:
    Saying men should grow up and be parents == being a man hater.

    But if both parents are happy with the arrangement then why does it matter?  Everyone was picking on kg_08 because she said her hubs hasn't changed many diapers but she didn't seem to be bothered by it at all.

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  • imageSookieFrackhouse68:

    I didn't think OP sounded incoherent.

    You'll know when I am drunk posting on this board. The spelling is impeccable and I suddenly love everyone.

    Maybe I'm drunk now.

    ::side eyes self::

    Thanks Sookie!  I'm completely sober by the way.

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  • imageLibby1978:

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

    Issues. You've got 'em.
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  • imageSookieFrackhouse68:

    I didn't think OP sounded incoherent.

    You'll know when I am drunk posting on this board. The spelling is impeccable and I suddenly love everyone.

    Maybe I'm drunk now.

    ::side eyes self::

    I think she does.  She could also benefit from some anger management.  This is the 2nd time she has flipped out in 2 days. 

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  • imageSweeti7307:
    imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    Mmmmm. Gender rolls.

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  • imageemiliemadison:
    imageLibby1978:
    imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

    Oooh, touchy. And sure it's my business. Someone posts about it on a public chat board and they've made it everyone's business. 

    Oooh biitchy!  Let me call you incoherent & see what your response is.

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  • imageLibby1978:
    imageemiliemadison:
    imageLibby1978:
    imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

    Oooh, touchy. And sure it's my business. Someone posts about it on a public chat board and they've made it everyone's business. 

    Oooh biitchy!  Let me call you incoherent & see what your response is.

    My response? Why, you must be mistaken. Perhaps it's your comprehension, because my post was clear and concise. Please try again. 

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    imageLibby1978:
    imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

    if you did not want comments,why did you post then?   

    I don't see anywhere that I said please stop commenting.  If you don't want me to comment to your reply then why did you post a reply??

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  • imageLibby1978:
    imageemiliemadison:
    imageLibby1978:
    imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

    Oooh, touchy. And sure it's my business. Someone posts about it on a public chat board and they've made it everyone's business. 

    Oooh biitchy!  Let me call you incoherent & see what your response is.

    It won't be a profanity laced rant.  emiliemadison keeps it classy.  

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  • imageDreamsicle23:

    imageHeather R:
    Saying men should grow up and be parents == being a man hater.

    But if both parents are happy with the arrangement then why does it matter?  Everyone was picking on kg_08 because she said her hubs hasn't changed many diapers but she didn't seem to be bothered by it at all.

    Ummm...Exactly!

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  • imageDreamsicle23:

    imageHeather R:
    Saying men should grow up and be parents == being a man hater.

    But if both parents are happy with the arrangement then why does it matter?  Everyone was picking on kg_08 because she said her hubs hasn't changed many diapers but she didn't seem to be bothered by it at all.

    Sorry, Dream, but I wouldn't expect you to perceive inequality in a relationship after yesterday.
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    imageLibby1978:

    And how is YOUR business if someone elses husband doesn't change diapers??  Oh yeah, it fvcking isn't!!!!!

    Issues. You've got 'em.

    Don't we all?

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  • imageHeather R:
    Saying men should grow up and be parents == being a man hater.

    Yes 

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  • imageSweeti7307:
    imageemiliemadison:

    You're barely coherent, so I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. But, it's not about "daddy helping", which implies that he's doing someone a favor. It's his job just as much as mom's and it's not about gender rolls or equality or whatever nonsense you just blathered about. This has nothing to do with who changes MORE diapers, it's about a father refusing to change ANY diapers.

    Mmmmm. Gender rolls.


    I couldn't even finish reading all the comments because of this.

    Now, can someone please pass the Country Crock?

     


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  • imageSookieFrackhouse68:
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    imageSookieFrackhouse68:

    I didn't think OP sounded incoherent.

    You'll know when I am drunk posting on this board. The spelling is impeccable and I suddenly love everyone.

    Maybe I'm drunk now.

    ::side eyes self::

    I think she does.  She could also benefit from some anger management.  This is the 2nd time she has flipped out in 2 days. 

    I like Libby. Maybe that's why I didn't read it that way.

    I'm not flipping out, I'm just disagreeing with her way of thinking.  Which was the exact same thing that happened in the post that she is referring to that I "flipped out" in.

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  • imageSookieFrackhouse68:
    imageyankeebaby2:
    imageSookieFrackhouse68:

    I didn't think OP sounded incoherent.

    You'll know when I am drunk posting on this board. The spelling is impeccable and I suddenly love everyone.

    Maybe I'm drunk now.

    ::side eyes self::

    I think she does.  She could also benefit from some anger management.  This is the 2nd time she has flipped out in 2 days. 

    I like Libby. Maybe that's why I didn't read it that way.

    I don't dislike or like her but her posts seem like one big ball of rage this week.  

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    Someone needs to bake me some gender rolls stat.

    Would these be in the shapes of penises and vaginas, or since it's "gender" would it be more like, stuff that's considered manly and stuff that's considered girly?

    In that case, I can make you up some rolls in the shapes of tampons and giant bows.

    Sex is different than gender Sookie! Gawwwd

    *skips back to 2nd tri*

    Bow and tampon rolls it is.

    Maybe cigar and diva cup cookies? 

  • imageLibby1978:
    imageSookieFrackhouse68:
    imageyankeebaby2:
    imageSookieFrackhouse68:

    I didn't think OP sounded incoherent.

    You'll know when I am drunk posting on this board. The spelling is impeccable and I suddenly love everyone.

    Maybe I'm drunk now.

    ::side eyes self::

    I think she does.  She could also benefit from some anger management.  This is the 2nd time she has flipped out in 2 days. 

    I like Libby. Maybe that's why I didn't read it that way.

    I'm not flipping out, I'm just disagreeing with her way of thinking.  Which was the exact same thing that happened in the post that she is referring to that I "flipped out" in.

    dude, you threw a tantrum in the marriage post and you threw one here.   It's hysterical shrews like you that lead Cassie to believe we can't be president. 

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