Success after IF

It is officially over....

I actually in the waiting room of the surgi center waitin for my D&C. RE confirmed today what I already knew. I am at least glad they were able to squeeze me in today and that this saga can be over. We were not expecting the procedure today so it has been crazy. Of course my DH worked all night and has to work nights again so my MIL has Katie and will be picking me up from here so I am flying solo for the D&C. I am actually doing ok. I had my breakdown last week so I was very prepared for today's news. I am still very angry and will have lots of questions for the RE. Hopefully they will be able to test the tissue an get some answers for me. Thanks again ladies for all your support. You guys are wonderful and I know so many of you have been pulling for me. It really gives me comfort during what is truly the most difficult time of my life.
****
«1

Re: It is officially over....

  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Physically, I found the d&c pretty easy, mentally it was a whole different ballgame.  Big hugs.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

    This Cluttered Life

  • Loading the player...
  • naflmjnaflmj member
    (((HUGS))) I am so sorry this is happening, I was really rooting for you! I hope you are able to get some answers.
    "Normal day, let me be aware of the treasured day you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart...let me hold you while I may."

    image
    image
    image

    TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP

    TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!

  • I'm so sorry.  Like PP said the physical part is ok it's the mental part that sucks.  I hope your RE can give you some answers.

    TTC#1 since Feb 07 with PCOS and mild MFI
    i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart) Our first love and loss 7/2/07

    3 cycles clomid TI = BFNs
    3 cycles clomid Ovidrel IUI = BFNs
    6/27/08 Surprise BFP = chemical pg
    IVF#1 July 08 BFP @7dp3dt
    TTC #3 since February 2010
    FET Sept. and Oct. 2010=BFN's
    IVF#2 June 2011=BFP

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers imageLilypie First Birthday tickers
  • I am so sorry!  I am crushed for you.  This just isn't right.  Take care of yourself as best as you can.

    ***hugs****

    Health&Fitness Blog imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers Our IVF miracles!
  • I am so sorry.  Thoughts, prayers, and big hugs your way. 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry. Hope you get some answers. *hugs*
    Pregnancy Ticker
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so sorry.  ((Hugs))
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Ugh, I am sorry that you have to do this alone. I hope you get some answers soon from your Re. Thinking of you.
  • I am so so sorry. Sending hugs your way and thinking of you tons.


    Dx: PCOS, Anovulation, RPL
    Born via emergency c/s February 9, 2008 - 9lbs, 3 oz!!!!

    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers

    TTC# 2 since February 2010 - BFP #1 Sept 2010-(5mg Femara, 1500mg Met, Ovridel) Missed M/C at 10w2d, discovered at 13w2d, D&C at 14w

    BFP # 2 - February 2011-(1500mg Met, HCG Injection) Missed M/C at 10w1d, discovered at 10w3d, D&C at 11w...RPL testing came back all normal.

    Trying again. June 2011 - Clomid/1500 mg Met / Baby Aspirin - BFFN!

    July 2011 Femara/1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - c/p

    August 2011 - Femara/1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - c/p

    September 2011 - Puregon/ 1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - BFFN!!!!

  • I'm so sorry :(
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker TickerPregnancy Ticker
  • I'm so, so sorry. Bug hugs, T&p's coming your way. Make DH give you some extra TLC while you recover.
  • I'm so sorry.  ((Hugs)) 
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • Ugh!  I'm so very sorry, hon!
    Allison
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I'm so sorry your going through this.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I am so sorry.  Many thoughts, prayers and hugs are being sent your way.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry. I wish this wasn't happening right now. I will be thinking of you. HUGS
    image
    imageimage
    Married 8.13.2005, M/C 12/8/06- 5 weeks, M/C 2/27/07- 7 weeks, M/C w/ D&C 8/10/09-6.5 weeks *Charles Lawrence born 5/2/08 @ 3:14am, 7lb 8oz, 20.5 inches. Clomid, Crinone and baby aspirin. *Alexandra Claire born 9/14/10 @ 9:52am 6lb 14oz, 20.5 inches. Femara, Crinone and baby aspirin. Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I'm so sorry.
    After 2 years and 6 IUIs, we did it with IVF w/ ICSI!
    BFP with no treatment!
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I'm so very sorry. Thinking of you.
    *** It's funny because I'm fat ***
  • So very sorry.  Is it wrong of me to add how beautiful that daughter of your's is?  I'm not sure if it is appropriate to mention such things in this post but I was so struck by the spirit exemplified in the pictures in your siggy.  Hang in there and take time for you. 
  • I am so sorry. I hope today goes as smoothly as possible.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • CMM05CMM05 member
    I'm so, so sorry :(
     
    I hope your D&C goes smoothly.
     
    (((HUGS)))
     
     
    Lilypie Fifth Birthday tickersLilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  ((HUGS))

    Clomid M/C 8 weeks 2/08 *IVF #1-DD born 3/09
    *Surprise BFP-T18 baby lost at 13w 1/10 *FET #1-DS born 2/11
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • Sorry sweetie... I was hoping at least one of us would have good news today. (((HUGS)))
    Henry and Papa at the farm
    image
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Oh, no.  :(  I'm so sorry to hear this!!
    Childhood cancer (DH) + chemo + radiation = 0 sperm.
    LO #1 - 1 unmedicated/self-monitored IUI w/ donor sperm.
    LO #2 - 1 m/c, 2 BFNs, 4th IUI worked (unmedicated/self-monitored with new donor sperm).
    Life is beautiful!

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • kme930kme930 member
    I am so sorry. (((hugs)))
  • Oh, hon....I am so so very sorry. (((hugs))). Take good care of yourself.
    Brought to you by IVF, ICSI, limited fert, and oocyte cryopreservation.
    Because we're fancy like that.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss.  
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry.  Big hugs.  Take care of yourself.
  • I am so sorry.  Sending you hugs and prayers.
  • I am so sorry. What a hard time for you. 
  • I am so sorry. Good luck today and please take care of yourself. (((HUGS)))
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker TTC since Dec '04 Severe MFI-diagnosed 12/06 3 failed Fresh IVFs FET #1 - BFP!! 2 blasts tx on day 6. Beta #1 8dp6dt = 56, Beta #2 = 600, Beta #3 = 5600 My Blog Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • (((hugs)))

    I'm so so sorry...

     

  • imageMBandBud:
    So very sorry.  Is it wrong of me to add how beautiful that daughter of your's is?  I'm not sure if it is appropriate to mention such things in this post but I was so struck by the spirit exemplified in the pictures in your siggy.  Hang in there and take time for you. 

     

    Thank you so much.  Her spirit is what is getting me all through this right now.  She is truly my miracle : )

    ****
  • I'm so sorry.
                                  

      
                                   
  • ((HUGS))  I hope the D&C goes well (considering...)  Sorry you are going through this.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"