For my next birth

Re: For my next birth

• BrittRMere member

  May 2011

  WaitingOnTwoPinkLines:

  BrittRMere:

  WaitingOnTwoPinkLines:

  BrittRMere:

  WaitingOnTwoPinkLines:

  BrittRMere:

  greenclown:

  Britt, I don't think you're ignorant because you disagree. I think you're ignorant because you're totally dismissive of something that happens to countless women. Just because you didn't experience it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

  I'm not dismissing it. I get that they are disappointed, and they obviously have every right to feel what they feel, but I'm saying that they have to move on from it somehow or spend their life looking back on a joyous occasion with regret.

  I understand my opinion is an unpopular one, but I wanted to share it anyway.

  I completely believe that there is no reason a woman should have to feel guilt for her birth experience. It makes me so sad that society makes us feel that way, but we can either sit around and allow it (and spend our lives wishing we hadn't been such 'failures'), or you can actually try and do something about it. 

  
  

  Did you ever stop to think that MAYBE grieving their birth experience is their way to "move on"? That MAYBE they need to come to terms with what happened, be angry about it, cry about it, whatever, so that they can look forward & "get over it"?

  I don't like you. At all. 

  Did you ever stop to think that MAYBE you should read the entire thread?

  You're a little slow on the uptake, sweetie.  

  I have read the entire thread.

  I still don't like you. 

  What a forgiving spirit you have.

   

  What a hard head you have. 

  I apologized and said I was wrong to say what I did. What part of that is hard-headed?  

  

   

  
  

  

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