I love my family, I swear I do. But the next person to tell me what to do is gonna get punched in the face. I can't force this baby out, so stop telling me to. I know you think walking and sex and this and that will induce labor. You have told me many many times. STFU please and wait for ME to call YOU.
If I send you a text, obviously I'm too busy to talk on the phone, that's why I texted you instead of calling. So why do you call me back to reply to my text? Grrrrrrrrr
I am tired of people telling me STILL what I can and cannot do. Yesterday my best friend told me I cannot wear a bikini at the beach and put sunscreen on my belly because of the baby. I flipped on her and told her its my body and if I decide to put on sunscreen and drink a beer while I am at it I will! And yes, I wore that bikini and looked damn good too!
I am tired of people telling me STILL what I can and cannot do. Yesterday my best friend told me I cannot wear a bikini at the beach and put sunscreen on my belly because of the baby. I flipped on her and told her its my body and if I decide to put on sunscreen and drink a beer while I am at it I will! And yes, I wore that bikini and looked damn good too!
I did something I never wanted to do...I gave LO a pacifier for the first couple of nights home. It was either that or let her suck my boob all night long. She didn't use it last night, so hopefully I didn't start a habit.
there have been a lot of birth stories for people I've never seen on here before and who never post again after their birthstory. I find that annoying.
and I don't like trying to pump and type, but I feel like I am attached to this thing half the day and there are only so many iphone games I can play in one day.
Every opinion, unless its my own, is unpopular to me at this point.
This about sums it up.
Married to my best friend 6/5/10
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
I'm sick of pumping, sick of DH staring at my boobs, and soooo sick of hearing him talk about being tired when he sleeps all night while I get up with Lila! Maybe not a UO but I needed to say it!
I did something I never wanted to do...I gave LO a pacifier for the first couple of nights home. It was either that or let her suck my boob all night long. She didn't use it last night, so hopefully I didn't start a habit.
We didn't want to start the habit either, but if he needs it, he needs it. We only give it to him when he clearly needs to suck, or if we catch him with his thumb in his mouth. When we give it to him, we give it to him just long enough to soothe him and the second he stups sucking on it we take it out.
We also hope we aren't starting a habit.
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I'm sick of pumping, sick of DH staring at my boobs, and soooo sick of hearing him talk about being tired when he sleeps all night while I get up with Lila! Maybe not a UO but I needed to say it!
my DH does this too- it's kinda funny. He will say things like "I know you're not interested and they probably hurt and I can't touch them, but your boobs look good".
I'm sick of pumping, sick of DH staring at my boobs, and soooo sick of hearing him talk about being tired when he sleeps all night while I get up with Lila! Maybe not a UO but I needed to say it!
We don't have an outside baby yet, but I am so sick of DH telling me he is tired. I get up like 10 times a night, it takes forever for me to fall asleep, then after about 5am, I give up. Essentially I've gotten a whole 3 hours of sleep or less for the last 2 weeks when he snores through the night.
I did something I never wanted to do...I gave LO a pacifier for the first couple of nights home. It was either that or let her suck my boob all night long. She didn't use it last night, so hopefully I didn't start a habit.
We didn't want to start the habit either, but if he needs it, he needs it. We only give it to him when he clearly needs to suck, or if we catch him with his thumb in his mouth. When we give it to him, we give it to him just long enough to soothe him and the second he stups sucking on it we take it out.
We also hope we aren't starting a habit.
I am sad that M doesn't take a pacifier. I wish it would soothe him.
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and I don't like trying to pump and type, but I feel like I am attached to this thing half the day and there are only so many iphone games I can play in one day.
The only things on my mind are things that just p*ss me off. Like swollen feet, 0 dilation, and a doc who will probably mention c-section again today.
Why c section?
He's been telling me since my 8w appt that my pelvis is narrow and the way my cerivx is he thinks I will end up c-section...."but he could be wrong." So he pretty much brings it up at every appointment. Lately he says "we could induce, but chances are about 50% you'll end up c-section. Blah blah blah I'm a d*ck. We could also look into elective c-section if you don't dilate, since you'll likely end up there anyway, even if we induce. Blah blah blah."
The only things on my mind are things that just p*ss me off. Like swollen feet, 0 dilation, and a doc who will probably mention c-section again today.
Why c section?
He's been telling me since my 8w appt that my pelvis is narrow and the way my cerivx is he thinks I will end up c-section...."but he could be wrong." So he pretty much brings it up at every appointment. Lately he says "we could induce, but chances are about 50% you'll end up c-section. Blah blah blah I'm a d*ck. We could also look into elective c-section if you don't dilate, since you'll likely end up there anyway, even if we induce. Blah blah blah."
The only things on my mind are things that just p*ss me off. Like swollen feet, 0 dilation, and a doc who will probably mention c-section again today.
Why c section?
He's been telling me since my 8w appt that my pelvis is narrow and the way my cerivx is he thinks I will end up c-section...."but he could be wrong." So he pretty much brings it up at every appointment. Lately he says "we could induce, but chances are about 50% you'll end up c-section. Blah blah blah I'm a d*ck. We could also look into elective c-section if you don't dilate, since you'll likely end up there anyway, even if we induce. Blah blah blah."
I am pretty sure he just wants to cut me open.
It definitely sounds like he really likes to cut.
I know he's probably just trying to keep it real and manage my expectations, but it's annoying. I mean, give me a fighting chance, I can do it dammit! At least, I will certainly try
and I don't like trying to pump and type, but I feel like I am attached to this thing half the day and there are only so many iphone games I can play in one day.
Get a hands-free bra. It will change your life.
I love mine so much.
Now I just need to get batteries for the pump so I'm not stuck near outlets.
I did something I never wanted to do...I gave LO a pacifier for the first couple of nights home. It was either that or let her suck my boob all night long. She didn't use it last night, so hopefully I didn't start a habit.
We didn't want to start the habit either, but if he needs it, he needs it. We only give it to him when he clearly needs to suck, or if we catch him with his thumb in his mouth. When we give it to him, we give it to him just long enough to soothe him and the second he stups sucking on it we take it out.
We also hope we aren't starting a habit.
I don't understand this mentality at all. Babies need to suck to be soothed. I give Eliza a pacifier because she needs it so she doesn't suck on her thumb, fingers, or my boob. I really don't think at this point its a habit. At a year its a habit. But you can start weaning when they are able to self-soothe. So about 6 months.
I also don't really think giving a newborn a pacifier is a problem, as long as you make sure you're feeding the baby when s/he's hungry and not just using it to shut it up.
I think trying to schedule a baby at this point is an exercise in frustration for everyone. I sort of think only the Babywise cult members would try.
I still have some weight to lose, but I'm blaming 3 or 4 lb on these enormous knockers.
I also don't really think giving a newborn a pacifier is a problem, as long as you make sure you're feeding the baby when s/he's hungry and not just using it to shut it up.
I think trying to schedule a baby at this point is an exercise in frustration for everyone. I sort of think only the Babywise cult members would try.
I still have some weight to lose, but I'm blaming 3 or 4 lb on these enormous knockers.
UO: some people who were very judgy and 'talky-talky' for the last 9 months have disappeared?
Not that I mind......
They'll be back.
Oh and I'm still here
Great minds think alike. I promise I was thinking this and about to type it. Then Emily started to cry to I pick her up, pat her back, scroll down just a little. Wam Bam you said sister!
I did something I never wanted to do...I gave LO a pacifier for the first couple of nights home. It was either that or let her suck my boob all night long. She didn't use it last night, so hopefully I didn't start a habit.
Our pediatrician actually told us a new study has shown pacifiers help reduce the risk of SIDS. I haven't looked it up myself but it makes me feel better when I do give LO a pacifier.
I did something I never wanted to do...I gave LO a pacifier for the first couple of nights home. It was either that or let her suck my boob all night long. She didn't use it last night, so hopefully I didn't start a habit.
Our pediatrician actually told us a new study has shown pacifiers help reduce the risk of SIDS. I haven't looked it up myself but it makes me feel better when I do give LO a pacifier.
I think part of it is that if they are sucking they are breathing. They can't suck if they don't have air. The LC at the hospital told me I shouldn't freak out about Eliza's nose looking like its covered because if she's sucking she is getting enough air. I still try not to let her nose get very covered when I nurse her. I don't want to take any chances.
I am sad that M doesn't take a pacifier. I wish it would soothe him.
Maybe you just havent given him the right one? We had to try a few before we found one he didn't spit out in 2 seconds.
tell me more!!! what are the best pacifiers? i didn't know there were types! i guess mine are standard run of the mill ones..
we got this pacifier in a swag bag from a open house at a eco baby store and it's the only one Ben will take. I bought some of the soothies that are "the pacifier hospitals prefer" and he spits it as far as he can.
They do smell a little weird and they're not cute, but he likes them.
I don't know if they're spendy or not, but I'm going to have to get a couple more in case we loose this one.
I am sad that M doesn't take a pacifier. I wish it would soothe him.
Maybe you just havent given him the right one? We had to try a few before we found one he didn't spit out in 2 seconds.
tell me more!!! what are the best pacifiers? i didn't know there were types! i guess mine are standard run of the mill ones..
we got this pacifier in a swag bag from a open house at a eco baby store and it's the only one Ben will take. I bought some of the soothies that are "the pacifier hospitals prefer" and he spits it as far as he can.
They do smell a little weird and they're not cute, but he likes them.
I don't know if they're spendy or not, but I'm going to have to get a couple more in case we loose this one.
Re: UO Thursday!
DS 6.12.11
Hypermenorrhea, Anovulatory & Hypothyroid
TTC#2
My Lack of Ovulation Chart
gigglesnort.
I don't have anything unpopular to say...
The only things on my mind are things that just p*ss me off. Like swollen feet, 0 dilation, and a doc who will probably mention c-section again today.
~*~*May 2013 Moms Website*~*~
Psht, you're so going to be dilated today so knock it off.
DS 6.12.11
Hypermenorrhea, Anovulatory & Hypothyroid
TTC#2
My Lack of Ovulation Chart
Mmmm, oil covered in more oil. Win.
DS 6.12.11
Hypermenorrhea, Anovulatory & Hypothyroid
TTC#2
My Lack of Ovulation Chart
there have been a lot of birth stories for people I've never seen on here before and who never post again after their birthstory. I find that annoying.
and I don't like trying to pump and type, but I feel like I am attached to this thing half the day and there are only so many iphone games I can play in one day.
UO: some people who were very judgy and 'talky-talky' for the last 9 months have disappeared?
Not that I mind......
This about sums it up.
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
We didn't want to start the habit either, but if he needs it, he needs it. We only give it to him when he clearly needs to suck, or if we catch him with his thumb in his mouth. When we give it to him, we give it to him just long enough to soothe him and the second he stups sucking on it we take it out.
We also hope we aren't starting a habit.
my DH does this too- it's kinda funny. He will say things like "I know you're not interested and they probably hurt and I can't touch them, but your boobs look good".
We don't have an outside baby yet, but I am so sick of DH telling me he is tired. I get up like 10 times a night, it takes forever for me to fall asleep, then after about 5am, I give up. Essentially I've gotten a whole 3 hours of sleep or less for the last 2 weeks when he snores through the night.
I am sad that M doesn't take a pacifier. I wish it would soothe him.
The only thing that would make it better would be if you added bacon.
DS 6.12.11
Hypermenorrhea, Anovulatory & Hypothyroid
TTC#2
My Lack of Ovulation Chart
They'll be back.
Oh and I'm still here
DS 6.12.11
Hypermenorrhea, Anovulatory & Hypothyroid
TTC#2
My Lack of Ovulation Chart
Get a hands-free bra. It will change your life.
Our precious girl, born at 27 weeks.
He's been telling me since my 8w appt that my pelvis is narrow and the way my cerivx is he thinks I will end up c-section...."but he could be wrong." So he pretty much brings it up at every appointment. Lately he says "we could induce, but chances are about 50% you'll end up c-section. Blah blah blah I'm a d*ck. We could also look into elective c-section if you don't dilate, since you'll likely end up there anyway, even if we induce. Blah blah blah."
I am pretty sure he just wants to cut me open.
~*~*May 2013 Moms Website*~*~
Maybe you just havent given him the right one? We had to try a few before we found one he didn't spit out in 2 seconds.
I know he's probably just trying to keep it real and manage my expectations, but it's annoying. I mean, give me a fighting chance, I can do it dammit! At least, I will certainly try
~*~*May 2013 Moms Website*~*~
**Kelly***
I love mine so much.
Now I just need to get batteries for the pump so I'm not stuck near outlets.
I don't understand this mentality at all. Babies need to suck to be soothed. I give Eliza a pacifier because she needs it so she doesn't suck on her thumb, fingers, or my boob. I really don't think at this point its a habit. At a year its a habit. But you can start weaning when they are able to self-soothe. So about 6 months.
I lost my angels 07/2010, 04/2017, 10/2017
Meimsx no more
I also don't really think giving a newborn a pacifier is a problem, as long as you make sure you're feeding the baby when s/he's hungry and not just using it to shut it up.
I think trying to schedule a baby at this point is an exercise in frustration for everyone. I sort of think only the Babywise cult members would try.
I still have some weight to lose, but I'm blaming 3 or 4 lb on these enormous knockers.
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Oh! I hadn't thought of the extra boob weight!
I lost my angels 07/2010, 04/2017, 10/2017
Meimsx no more
Great minds think alike. I promise I was thinking this and about to type it. Then Emily started to cry to I pick her up, pat her back, scroll down just a little. Wam Bam you said sister!
Our pediatrician actually told us a new study has shown pacifiers help reduce the risk of SIDS. I haven't looked it up myself but it makes me feel better when I do give LO a pacifier.
I think part of it is that if they are sucking they are breathing. They can't suck if they don't have air. The LC at the hospital told me I shouldn't freak out about Eliza's nose looking like its covered because if she's sucking she is getting enough air. I still try not to let her nose get very covered when I nurse her. I don't want to take any chances.
I lost my angels 07/2010, 04/2017, 10/2017
Meimsx no more
tell me more!!! what are the best pacifiers? i didn't know there were types! i guess mine are standard run of the mill ones..
we got this pacifier in a swag bag from a open house at a eco baby store and it's the only one Ben will take. I bought some of the soothies that are "the pacifier hospitals prefer" and he spits it as far as he can.
They do smell a little weird and they're not cute, but he likes them.
I don't know if they're spendy or not, but I'm going to have to get a couple more in case we loose this one.
Eliza ONLY takes soothies.
I lost my angels 07/2010, 04/2017, 10/2017
Meimsx no more