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May 2011 Moms
I don't wanna call my dd a b****but (vent a little worried)a little long. Advice?
I don't wanna call my dd a b****but she has made me so miserable during my pregnancy. I was supposed to be induced tomorrow morning. That's not happening. She wont keep her head completely descended. They said chances of emergency c-section is possible if I don't wait some more because possible prolapse cord. I am so ready for her to be out. All my SO can say as long as she comes out on certain days cause it's convenient for him because he is a cop and has to go to court a lot. What happens if she comes when he is there? He doesn't bring his phone cause no cellphones. Sigh. So then on top of it they said I am not gaining enough so I will have a 4th ultrasound. At least maybe it will tell me I am not measuring ahead anymore? I have been the entire time. Or maybe her head cant fit in there cause she is too big and that's why she can't engage her head completely? I am scared of being cut open. They swept my membranes yesterday and I couldn't hardly get out of bed. I had no problems with my previous boys. She also stated she didn't know why she won't go down all the way especially with previous babies. Then she started acting a little rude towards us. Then another thing my sister and mom are telling me that maybe I need to get closer with God. I am like that's it.
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Re: I don't wanna call my dd a b****but (vent a little worried)a little long. Advice?
Yep. I'm with you.
And suddenly things aren't so boring around here.
I think b!tch is a bit strong for an inside baby just because her head isn't engaged.
Klassy.
I lost my angels 07/2010, 04/2017, 10/2017
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Your SO refuses to take a day to be with you for his daughter's birth and SHE'S the B****?? Sounds like a lucky child...
How far along are you?
But she made her mom uncomfortable during pregnancy. A lady-like baby would never do such a thing.
I don't even know what to say.
Lol at all of this!
I want to laugh but at the same time, I'm kinda sad...
I just checked back in on this post. I am glad I am not the only one who thought calling a baby a b***** was extreme.
OP~ try living in my shoes. I was pregnant last may and miscarried (stillborn my twin boys) and I did ivf all over again to get pg asap and I have basically been pregnant for almost a year if you think about it!!!! I have had to get a stitch put in which is surgery and it was not puppies and rainbows. I have had to deal with my craptastic job, thank god I am on bedrest!!! I have been in prodominal labor for over 4 weeks!!! I have a horrible back from twisting it at work in Jan. during a huge snow storm. My daughter has NO MORE ROOM TO MOVE and is still moving all around constantly which hurts! and I would never ever ever call her a B@@@h ever!!!!
babies come when they come.
my dh works in the court system and BS about your dh not being able to bring his phone in the court!!! yes he can for 1 he is a cop and all law enforcement is allowed and 2 all he has to say to the deputy chief is that his wife is very pregnant... seriously..
my dh is the Deputy Chief in charge of about 14 court houses and honestly he will drop what ever he is doing to be to the birth of our child. cases can get postponed if need be, it happens all the time!!!
It's a little early to be starting the verbal abuse already, don't you think? I'm at least going to wait until mine understands what I am saying.
Your baby will come when she's ready. None of us is thrilled to still be pregnant but we are doing what is best for our babies. As long as you and she are healthy when the whole thing is said and done should be all that matters.
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BS about not bringing his cell into the courthouse. I work in courthouses daily and can bring my cell in. Federal courthouses are different, but even for that MH who is an attorney and is there weekly is allowed as well as all officers of the court including law enforcement.
Also, as ready as i am to have this kid I never call the baby a B*!ch. Get a grip I know you are uncomfortable, but this is not about you.
I don't want to call you a biitch....but I will. You sound absolutely and completely ridiculous and deserve every flame you get on here.
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Wow. You are a a rude biitch. So your fetus won't keep her head the right way.
Your sister and your mom think you need to get closer to God? I think you need to get closer to oncoming traffic after the baby is safely born, but maybe that's just me.
Who gives a shiit if your husband has to go to court? Him being there is more important to her being safely delivered??? To answer your question about what happens.... he gets there later. *gasp*
Induction isn't instant delivery. If there is an absolute emergency, I'm sure the PD can dispatch someone to the courthouse or contact a bailiff and let them know there is an emergency.
Grow the hell up!!!!
I do, "Like mother, like daughter."
I'm not surprised that your baby doesn't want to come out- then she'll have to deal with having you for a mom.
And what absolute BS about your husband not being able to have a phone. I work with all cops and it's called having the phone on silent in the courtroom.
I read this post before anyone replied, and I almost said "3,2,1 GO"
I'm going to try to give you the b of the d, and say you are frustrated, and hopefully at least 39 weeks, and don't actually think your inside baby is a b*tch. In which case my response is
(1) You are just going to have to suck it up and wait for the induction to be at a safe and healthy course of action. It sucks, I know. Im almost 40 weeks and Im tired, sore, uncomfortable and anxious too.
(2) Your DH sounds like an a**hole. I would bet that he can bring his phone if he explains his situation. My DH works a corporate job, but spends a lot of time in very important meetings, and its well understood that his cellphone is on, in his pocket, and he will answer it in the middle of ANY meeting if its me calling.
(3) I don't understand not gaining enough weight at this point. I havent gained weight in 6 weeks, in fact I lost a pound, and no one at my doctor's office is concerned. Although most people love ultrasounds, so I am not sure why you seem stressed about this.
(4) The baby's head fits. Getting cut open is scary but people survive. Relax. Breathe. Your being a little ridiculous, which is fine, we all get that way, but we usually say "I know Im being a little ridiculous BUT (insert x here)". If you do that, people have a lot more sympathy.
Oh my gosh this exactly! I was hoping that the "dd" was a typo and it was supposed to be "dr" or something. I would never call my child a b*tch.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! *breath* HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! *breath* HAHAHAHAHAHA!
I know 12 year olds with more maturity and class than you.
Grow the fvck up. Fast.
DS 6.12.11
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Here's a thought. If you don't want to call your dd a b****, then don't. What are you going to call her when she won't sleep? Wish I could hear what she calls you when she's a mouthy teenager.
I was hoping it was a typo for "dr" or something as well, but re-reading the OP kind of rules that out. Wow.
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
wow. You are calling your unborn daughter a b-----?
I don't even want to imagine how any disagreements will go during her teenage years.
Mom to Benjamin 6/2011 and Lena 5/2013; baby 3 on the way
I thought the same thing at first!
Wow.
my thoughts exactly on this... if she makes it to her teenage years.
seriously babies are just that babies. they are NEVER going to do what you ALWAYS want them to do.
I just cannot even imagine why you would ever type this post out in the first place with saying anything like calling your dd any swear word. seriously If you would say this to your dr DCF would be called on you...
good luck when the baby will not nurse, sleep, cry, be awake, poop, pee, on your schedule.
heads up the first few months they do nothing on a schedule!!! and good luck with your first blow out diaper...
This! Hmmm... no other words except good luck getting LO out when you want her out.
Same here! I was going to respond before anyone else did but I thought "noo I can't be reading that right...she couldn't have called her baby a b*tch" Well...I guess people can be surprisingly ignorant.
I don't know how far along you are but I am 100% in the 'get it out of me!' camp. I am avoiding phone calls at home because I don't want to talk to anyone about it, I cry half the time when I walk past my little boy's room- I am tired, I am hormonal, but I am not angry and not about to call a fetus names (though I did jokingly call him a 'stupidhead' to DH).
You're lucky to be having a baby. Take a nap. Eat some chocolate. Then give your belly a rub and apologize.
Mommy to Rachel 1.15.06 and Ashley 5.17.11
ouch that is going to HURT!!!