Here's a quick Kegel question. My friend who just had her baby was
telling me that her OB didn't suggest she do them until after the baby
was born because when trying to fit a baby through the birth canal you
don't really want things all tight...anyone else been told this? It
makes me hesitate to do them.
Re: Kegel Question
that is completely backwards from everything my dr, nurses, yoga teacher, and every single book I've read says.
It's not about tightness, it's about muscle strength.
ETA: not necessarily for delivery, but for healing post partum, as well as reducing risk of tearing.
Honestly...He might be right. Pushing a baby is more like...well....going to the bathroom and doing a number two. However you don't want to push to hard and strain your muscles to quickly...so really there are no exercises to do!
If you want to do something to help you feel more prepared for labor do perineum massages. Or have lot's of sex. =p You just don't want that tissue to get soften up and get delicate.
The other thing you can do is decide simply research different ways to deal with pain in early labor, etc. Like rocking on a birthing ball--though I decided to try sitting on one before hand as I never had before; I was worried I would fall off somehow if I didn't "get the feel for it" without pain. LOL My favorite way in early labor is a warm shower.