Preg with #3! And and infection?! Kind of tmi

simplejude · April 2011

Hey everybody! I found out a few weeks ago we are expecting baby #3! DH and I are super excited about it. However, I went in for a conformation appointment Wednesday, and I was due for a pap so my OB just did it then. She called me today and told me that I have Gonorrhea! I am freaking out because DH and I are both faithful and I am not sure where this could have come from. I asked the OB and she told me not to focus on that right now, and just take the meds she is describing both of us and it will be fine. I'm wondering where the heck we could have picked this up?!

sexyntexy · April 2011

Um I'd be finding a marriage counselor if I were you.

sexyntexy · April 2011

Oh and a good lawyer too!

simplejude · April 2011

sexyntexy:
Um I'd be finding a marriage counselor if I were you.

I know it sounds bad, but I am positive that he isn't cheating. He just wouldnt do that.

CamJack mom · April 2011

someone is clearly NOT being faithful. You don't just "pick up" gonnorhea sweetheart. Good luck with that.

lmjt · April 2011

Maybe you need to borrow a 7th graders health class text book too, while you're at it.

simplejude · April 2011

CamJack mom:
someone is clearly NOT being faithful. You don't just "pick up" gonnorhea sweetheart. Good luck with that.

I did get waxed recently at a new place. Do you think I could have picked it up there? Or do you think maybe DH got it at the gym or something. I know you can get like Jock Itch from the gym.

sexyntexy · April 2011

I can't quote on my iPad but you seriously need to get a grip and look at the reality of the situation. You don't just pick up an STD at the grocery store. I'm sure it sucks to realize your H is a DB and is doing someone else but the quicker you realize it the better. Unless you are prowling around town and don't want to admit it.

VTFutureMrs · April 2011

It's not the type of thing you can just pick up randomly. Someone had to have sex with someone else to pass it along. At least you caught it and are treating it because it can be passed on to your baby during childbirth if not treated.

simplejude · April 2011

lmjt:
Maybe you need to borrow a 7th graders health class text book too, while you're at it.

Well, I'm sorry I didn't pay much attention to that part of the seventh grade. I knew I wouldnt be sleeping around so I figured I wouldnt have to worry about it.

CamJack mom · April 2011

simplejude:
CamJack mom:
someone is clearly NOT being faithful. You don't just "pick up" gonnorhea sweetheart. Good luck with that.
I did get waxed recently at a new place. Do you think I could have picked it up there? Or do you think maybe DH got it at the gym or something. I know you can get like Jock Itch from the gym.

This reply lets me KNOW that this is MUD. If not, you are really are the most insanely ridiculous fool I have ever encountered in my life. REALLY???? the gym or the wax place??? Did they wax the inside of your cooter??? Did the exercise machine blow DH while he was there??

simplejude · April 2011

You guys are obviously just jealous that I have a happy marriage. My DH loves me, and he wouldnt do that. Sorry I even brought it up. I was just venting.

frecku · April 2011

Are you for real? YOUR HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON YOU!!! Stop being an effing idiot and dump his loser asss. Women like you make me sick. "Could I have picked it up somewhere?" Yeah, you picked it up from his rancid man bits. Get off the bump you stupid numpty and do something for the sake of your children.

Airbus · April 2011

lmjt:
Maybe you need to borrow a 7th graders health class text book too, while you're at it.

Harsh.

simplejude · April 2011

frecku:
Are you for real? YOUR HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON YOU!!! Stop being an effing idiot and dump his loser asss. Women like you make me sick. "Could I have picked it up somewhere?" Yeah, you picked it up from his rancid man bits. Get off the bump you stupid numpty and do something for the sake of your children.

I make you sick? Well that is a little bit out there but okay. You dont know my husband or my life. My children are just fine.

frecku · April 2011

simplejude:
frecku:
Are you for real? YOUR HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON YOU!!! Stop being an effing idiot and dump his loser asss. Women like you make me sick. "Could I have picked it up somewhere?" Yeah, you picked it up from his rancid man bits. Get off the bump you stupid numpty and do something for the sake of your children.

I make you sick? Well that is a little bit out there but okay. You dont know my husband or my life. My children are just fine.

Yeah, I bet a man who gives his wife Gonorrhea is a stand up father.

simplejude · April 2011

simplejude:
frecku:
Are you for real? YOUR HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON YOU!!! Stop being an effing idiot and dump his loser asss. Women like you make me sick. "Could I have picked it up somewhere?" Yeah, you picked it up from his rancid man bits. Get off the bump you stupid numpty and do something for the sake of your children.

I make you sick? Well that is a little bit out there but okay. You dont know my husband or my life. My children are just fine.

Wait.... I cant give it to my kids can I? Maybe I should make sure I wash all of our laundry in hot water.

siren0076 · April 2011

Sorry, but one of you is cheating. That is the ONLY way.

sexyntexy · April 2011

So to answer your question of where you picked this up that is super easy. Your cheating husband's penis.

lvisser · April 2011

simplejude:
frecku:
Are you for real? YOUR HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON YOU!!! Stop being an effing idiot and dump his loser asss. Women like you make me sick. "Could I have picked it up somewhere?" Yeah, you picked it up from his rancid man bits. Get off the bump you stupid numpty and do something for the sake of your children.

I make you sick? Well that is a little bit out there but okay. You dont know my husband or my life. My children are just fine.

U dont no my lyfe!

bridein08 · April 2011

There is really no need for name calling here. As a Registered Nurse, I am here to tell you that you cannot "pick-up" gonorrhea casually. If you did not have it at a previous check (since you first because monogamous with DH), either you or he got it elsewhere. There is no way around that.

I would get a full STD panel (blood draw, too), just to be sure and have an honest talk with DH about the ways STD's can be passed. If you know you didn't bring it into your marriage, then there is only one other person who is a possibility.

Good luck.

Airbus · April 2011

MrsMichelleB:
sexyntexy:
You don't just pick up an STD at the grocery store. I'm sure it sucks to realize your H is a DB and is doing someone else but the quicker you realize it the better. Unless you are prowling around town and don't want to admit it.
Have you even googled how a person gets gonorrhea? It is SEXUALLY transmitted. You don't just touch something or sit on a toilet seat. STD = Sexually Transmitted Disease. Here I found you a great site from the CDC about what you missed in 7th grade health class.
https://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm
You are so naive to think that you have this blissful marriage. One of you is cheating. It probably sucks to have to even let that sink it; but sista, you ain't helping yourself or that baby by continuing to throw up a blind eye to this. You're even dumber than I could imagine for even thinking that we are jealoust. We are not saying all this to hurt you but for you to wake up and smell the fishiness coming from your husbands penis.

You all are such negative nancies. Your DH isn't cheating on you, OP! I bet it's just a false positive!!

https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf05/gonorrhea/gonrs.htm

SamJustice · April 2011

Honey, either he is cheating on you or you are cheating on him. This is an STD, it can ONLY be passed through DIRECT contact with a penis/vagina/mouth/anus. Not from a secondary source (like trying on a swim suit or getting a wax). Do you even think to ask your doctor how it gets passed? o.O

simplejude · April 2011

bridein08:
There is really no need for name calling here. As a Registered Nurse, I am here to tell you that you cannot "pick-up" gonorrhea casually. If you did not have it at a previous check (since you first because monogamous with DH), either you or he got it elsewhere. There is no way around that.
I would get a full STD panel (blood draw, too), just to be sure and have an honest talk with DH about the ways STD's can be passed. If you know you didn't bring it into your marriage, then there is only one other person who is a possibility.
Good luck.

So we got it from sex? There must be another way. Can I give it to my children? Should I be disinfecting everything? I bet I got it from trying on that bikini in Target the other day. That makes sense right? Because if someone had it and tried it on before me.... DH would not cheat.

rachaelski · April 2011

Don't feed the beast. Someone's bored from another board.

siren0076 · April 2011

I mispoke. You could get it if you used someone's dirty dildo.

simplejude · April 2011

Airbus:
MrsMichelleB:
sexyntexy:
You don't just pick up an STD at the grocery store. I'm sure it sucks to realize your H is a DB and is doing someone else but the quicker you realize it the better. Unless you are prowling around town and don't want to admit it.
Have you even googled how a person gets gonorrhea? It is SEXUALLY transmitted. You don't just touch something or sit on a toilet seat. STD = Sexually Transmitted Disease. Here I found you a great site from the CDC about what you missed in 7th grade health class.
https://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm
You are so naive to think that you have this blissful marriage. One of you is cheating. It probably sucks to have to even let that sink it; but sista, you ain't helping yourself or that baby by continuing to throw up a blind eye to this. You're even dumber than I could imagine for even thinking that we are jealoust. We are not saying all this to hurt you but for you to wake up and smell the fishiness coming from your husbands penis.
You all are such negative nancies. Your DH isn't cheating on you, OP! I bet it's just a false positive!!
https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf05/gonorrhea/gonrs.htm

THANK YOU AIRBUS! I knew there must be an explanation.

lmpdjc · April 2011

bridein08:

There is really no need for name calling here. As a Registered Nurse, I am here to tell you that you cannot "pick-up" gonorrhea casually. If you did not have it at a previous check (since you first because monogamous with DH), either you or he got it elsewhere. There is no way around that.

I would get a full STD panel (blood draw, too), just to be sure and have an honest talk with DH about the ways STD's can be passed. If you know you didn't bring it into your marriage, then there is only one other person who is a possibility.

Good luck.

As an RN, one might think that you'd be aware that GC can't be detected from a pap smear.

Airbus · April 2011

MrsMichelleB:
Airbus:

You all are such negative nancies. Your DH isn't cheating on you, OP! I bet it's just a false positive!!
https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf05/gonorrhea/gonrs.htm
Actually, we're realistical. What exactly is it that you are trying to get through with that link of tiny fine print?

You're not being realistical if you're ignoring the possibility that it's a false positive. That's what I'm trying to get through with that link of tiny fine print. If it's too tiny for your old eyes, you could try changing your computer settings so that the text is bigger, grandma.

frecku · April 2011

MrsMichelleB:
Airbus:

You all are such negative nancies. Your DH isn't cheating on you, OP! I bet it's just a false positive!!
https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf05/gonorrhea/gonrs.htm
Actually, we're realistical. What exactly is it that you are trying to get through with that link of tiny fine print?

Im so glad one of us is being "Realistical"

Airbus · April 2011

siren0076:
I mispoke. You could get it if you used someone's dirty dildo.

hahahahaha, but eww.

simplejude · April 2011

MrsMichelleB:
Airbus:
MrsMichelleB:
Airbus:

You all are such negative nancies. Your DH isn't cheating on you, OP! I bet it's just a false positive!!
https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf05/gonorrhea/gonrs.htm
Actually, we're realistical. What exactly is it that you are trying to get through with that link of tiny fine print?
You're not being realistical if you're ignoring the possibility that it's a false positive. That's what I'm trying to get through with that link of tiny fine print. If it's too tiny for your old eyes, you could try changing your computer settings so that the text is bigger, grandma.
Oh yes dear wise grasshopper. A false positive is what you're trying to pawn into her feeble brain instead of educating her.

I dont need an education. I got my GED. I need a new doctor obviously. That swab was WRONG!

Airbus · April 2011

MrsMichelleB:
Airbus:
MrsMichelleB:
Airbus:

You all are such negative nancies. Your DH isn't cheating on you, OP! I bet it's just a false positive!!
https://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf05/gonorrhea/gonrs.htm
Actually, we're realistical. What exactly is it that you are trying to get through with that link of tiny fine print?
You're not being realistical if you're ignoring the possibility that it's a false positive. That's what I'm trying to get through with that link of tiny fine print. If it's too tiny for your old eyes, you could try changing your computer settings so that the text is bigger, grandma.
Oh yes dear wise grasshopper. A false positive is what you're trying to pawn into her feeble brain instead of educating her.

I am trying to undue all the falsities you are trying to shove down her throat. Her husband is not necessarily cheating on her. She very well could have gotten a false positive. Why don't you quit worrying about OP's marriage and start worrying about your own.

simplejude · April 2011

MrsMichelleB:
simplejude:

I dont need an education. I got my GED. I need a new doctor obviously. That swab was WRONG!

What? Now you think my husband is gay too? Any other conspiracy theories?

hanna mae · April 2011

This is one of those std's that can't get 'picked up' randomly. It's sexually transmitted. So unless there was a mix up at the dr's office (perhaps you should request another test) then one of you have been unfaithful.

I'm really sorry. This is truly a sucky situation no matter how you want to slice it.

Airbus · April 2011

simplejude:
MrsMichelleB:
simplejude:

I dont need an education. I got my GED. I need a new doctor obviously. That swab was WRONG!
What? Now you think my husband is gay too? Any other conspiracy theories?

I literally just lol'd. DH looked at me and said 'what?' hahaha

bridein08 · April 2011

As an RN, one might think that you'd be aware that GC can't be detected from a pap smear.

Sadly, many people don't know the many different testing modes in pregnancy. GC is tested for in many metropolitan areas (with many cases of GC) at the first prenatal visit, so I assumed a bacterial swab was used without the OP's knowledge. Thanks for pointing that out though.

simplejude · April 2011

I'm leaving now. I'm going to call my Dr. in the morning and request another test. Im sure that the test was wrong. You guys are just mean and bitter. Goodnight.

backinpgh · April 2011

Sweetheart, go to Planned Parenthood or something, get a repeat STD screening. When it comes back positive again, you just have to face the facts. You cannot get gonorrhea from a bathing suit, from a toilet seat, from clothing, from exercise machines, from showers, from hot tubs, from waxing, from the ocean, or anything else. Get your confirmation, then admit the reality of what's going on here.

Airbus · April 2011

backinpgh:
Sweetheart, go to Planned Parenthood or something, get a repeat STD screening. When it comes back positive again, you just have to face the facts. You cannot get gonorrhea from a bathing suit, from a toilet seat, from clothing, from exercise machines, from showers, from hot tubs, from waxing, from the ocean, or anything else. Get your confirmation, then admit the reality of what's going on here.

Aww, I like you. You delivered reality with a dose of kindness. Travel

EMT12resq · April 2011

:.Lurking.: Ok by her replys this is MOST DEF. MUD

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