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I'm sorry, me again. IVF 2.1 cancelled again

vanessagorcvanessagorc member
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So I got a call this am to start the pills...followed by the call to this afternoon, not to. Basically, the uro and RE disagree w the lab (and no one had thought to tell us that). The lab cleared us to go ahead, and the drs say the SA is still too poor. We are now on the mTESE schedule for june. JUNE aggggghhhhhhhhhh!
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  • DeputiesWifeDeputiesWife

    WTH - cant they get their sh*t together.

    I am SO sorry.

    ::hugs::

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

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  • madelyn07madelyn07 member

    Oh sweetie I'm so sorry.

    (((hugs)))

     

     

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

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  • thewormstheworms member

    oh cutie, i am sooooo sorry, that sucks.

    how many were in SA?  

    and 3 more months of EZ, are you fu*cking kidding me?

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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  • nola8446nola8446
    Oh no.  I am so sorry.  (((HUGS)))
    SAIF and PAIF Always Welcome
    07/14/97 - Stillborn twins at 22 weeks
    12/20/99 - Miscarriage #1 - 11 wks 4 days laproscopic surgery due to rupture of tube
    07/01/01 - Divorced
    05/30/09 - Re-married to a wonderful man!
    11/11/09 - Miscarriage #2 - 10 wks 3 days, D&C
    Dx: Unexplained
    07/30/10 - 10/19/10 - IUI #1 - IUI #4 clomid cd2-6 + premarin cd7-13 + HCG Trigger=BFFN's
    11/10/10 - IVF #1 Start stims ER#1 11/22, ER #2 11/24, ET 11/29=BFFN
    03/14/11 - IVF #2 start stims, ER-03/26/11, ET-03/31/11, beta 04/08/11 = BFFN
    05/16/11 - Hail Mary Cycle - Inj+TI =BFP!! 06/08/11 Beta #1 71.8, 06/10/11 Beta #2 201, U/S 6/20-1 sac. U/S 6/28 sac and hb of 118!!
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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member
    I'm so sorry they keep giving you the back and forth.  Argh, I'm pissed for you.  I hope you're able to find a way to make this delay go as fast as possible for you.  *hugs*
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  • Sunflower0908Sunflower0908
    Oh no, that's awful, I am so sorry.
    TTC #1 since 03/09 Dx Unexplained
    Jan to April 2010 - Clomid - All BFN
    June 2010 - IVF - BFN
    Oct 2010 - FET #1 - BFN
    Dec 2010 - endometrial biopsy
    Jan 2011 - Surprise BFP! - m/c at 6w5d
    March 2011 - FET #2. Thawed 11 Day 1 embryos; 5 'exploded' / possible lab error?
    ET 4/2/11 transferred 1 blast & 1 morula
    Beta#1 10dp5dt =81; Beta#2 12dp5dt =222 Beta#3 16dp5dt =1337
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  • njohnson1972njohnson1972 member
    I have been following your saga.  You just can't catch a break.  I am so sorry.
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member

    What???????!!!!!!! Why such a runaround, V? Are the Drs. not talking to each other before they give you instructions? I got Dr. D's email and started telling him in email about the things we needed to check with Uro about before we did anything with him. It's frustrating and I'm sorry you are dealing with all this!

    (((hugs)))

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  • babystinkbreathbabystinkbreath member

    seriously, WTF, why do they keep doing this to you.  I'm so pissed for you. 

    I'm so sorry that you are cancelled again, but I hope this means you have a nice relaxing vacation in April.  

    You and I can throw back a couple bottles of your liq of choice at the GTG to wallow, even if the rest of the ladies can't drink.

    I'm so sorry V, hang in there, but I know is hard to do when life keeps throwing up obstacles.

    maybe we will be cycle buddies though in june??

    ~Lauren~
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  • KDR1979KDR1979 member
    WTF? That is so frustrating!((hugs))

    Wedding Fall 2007 Off OCP's since 9/08-started with BBT charts Saw Ob/gyn May 2009 Blood work normal except single copy of MTHFR Clomid 50mg May 2009 Clomid 50mg + IUI June 2009 Femara 5mg + IUI July 2009 Normal HSG July 2009 Femara 5mg + ovidrel+IUI August 2009 Femara 5mg +ovidrel + IUI September 2009 November 2009-normal lap December 2009-met with RE December/January-Injectible med cycle with IUI-Abnormal sperm morpology found-only 0-1% normal All Head defects. Jan/Feb 2010 1st IVF with ICSI-5 week chemical pregnancy :( Feb 2010-male infertility doc says DH's anatomy and blood work are normal so nothing he can do. :( FET July 2010-BFP! Twin m/c @ 5.5 wks :( Dec/Jan 2011 IVF #2 Only 4 eggs retrieved-Ganirelix dose messed up BFFN Feb/March 2011 IVF #3 ER 3/9 9 eggs, 7 fertilized, ET 3/14, No frosties. BFN IVF #4 ER 8/22 9R,7F ET 8/25-3 embies, 1 frostie! Beta 9/2= 54, 9/6=274, 9/8=625, 9/12=2953, 9/16 greater than 10,000. B/G TWINS born April 2012 @ 36wks & 1 day! July 2014-going back for the frozen embryo! ET 7/28, heartbeat seen at 6wks1day with SCH. Miscarriage confirmed at 6wks4days





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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Huge hugs.  I was really hoping you'd get to move forward for IVF very soon.  Hang in there.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
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  • MrsRich0226MrsRich0226

    Nooo!!  WTF?  It sucks they can't get their sh!t together and that they are giving you the run around!

    BUT, you do get to go on a trip so that should be fun!  Where are you going?

    Hugs ((hugs)) and I'm so sorry they are doing this to you!!

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  • vanessagorcvanessagorc member
    Sorry for format, on phone. Worms, 20 in sample. Lab didn't give us that number, just told us "enough for icsi". Peggy told us 20 today :( so each one would have to be perfect, highly unlikely. And I can't believe more Fing EZ Diet. Ginger- nope, there was a total communication breakdown between the 3 drs. RE, URO, and the 7th floor. The only person talking, was ME. Thank god I did, but wtf!?! I want to go in and sit w Dr S and DH, and get the whole thing hashed out.
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  • Temp590840000005378Temp590840000005378
    Ugh, that sucks so bad to think you're gearing up and then to be cancelled again... I'm sorry!!! Crying
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member

    imagevanessagorc:
    Sorry for format, on phone. Worms, 20 in sample. Lab didn't give us that number, just told us "enough for icsi". Peggy told us 20 today :( so each one would have to be perfect, highly unlikely. And I can't believe more Fing EZ Diet. Ginger- nope, there was a total communication breakdown between the 3 drs. RE, URO, and the 7th floor. The only person talking, was ME. Thank god I did, but wtf!?! I want to go in and sit w Dr S and DH, and get the whole thing hashed out.

    I would, V. If you address it now I betcha they won't drop the ball on you again. It's usually after I go in and cracks skulls that stuff gets done Embarrassed

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  • softbalangelsoftbalangel
    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • thewormstheworms member
    imageGinger71:

    imagevanessagorc:
    Sorry for format, on phone. Worms, 20 in sample. Lab didn't give us that number, just told us "enough for icsi". Peggy told us 20 today :( so each one would have to be perfect, highly unlikely. And I can't believe more Fing EZ Diet. Ginger- nope, there was a total communication breakdown between the 3 drs. RE, URO, and the 7th floor. The only person talking, was ME. Thank god I did, but wtf!?! I want to go in and sit w Dr S and DH, and get the whole thing hashed out.

    I would, V. If you address it now I betcha they won't drop the ball on you again. It's usually after I go in and cracks skulls that stuff gets done Embarrassed

    ditto

    what crap

    :(

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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  • kthappy76kthappy76
    I am so sorry hon.  (((HUMONGOUS HUGS))))
    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

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  • hopefulmommyhopefulmommy
    I am so sorry:(. It seems like such a frustrating rollercoaster they've had you on! How incredibly annoying to get conflicting information. I'm sorry you have to wait until June. Delays are tough. (( big hugs))
    Natural BFP on 3/08
    C/P- at 6 weeks
    5 IUI's= BFN
    Dx: Endo stage 1 : evevated FSH (11.3)
    IVF#1: 3dt 2 8 cell, grade 1 embyos :bfn


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  • MSaksaMSaksa member
    That sucks!!im so angry for you!! Too many men on the court makig decisions!!
    Dx Anovulatory PCOS Clomid,Ovidrel,TI=BFN IUI#1-#3 Femara,Ovidrel=BFN IUI#4-Gonal F,Ovidrel=BFN IUI#5-Gonal F,Ovidrel= BFP!! Beta #1 11dpIUI=34, Beta #2=131,first u/s 3/14=1 perfect bug with a heartbeat! Anderson Phillip, Born 11/2/11 7lbs 10oz 21in. Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • mikeandangiemikeandangie
    OMG,I can't fvcking believe this! I am so sorry, Vanessa. I know normally 3 months is not a lot, but in the world of IVF they seem like an eternity. Big (((hugs)))
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) I'm sorry.  So sorry they all didn't talk before telling you to start the pill, then calling later and changing it up and telling you June.

    Jenn

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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • orange1414orange1414 member
    I'm so sorry. What a mess!
    Trying to grow our family with both fertility treatments and adoption since March 2009 
    IUIs#1-4 = BFN, IVF#1 = c/p, IVF#2 = OHSS, FET#1=BFP
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  • EriksgalEriksgal
    That really sucks.  Sorry Vanessa :(
    Diagnosis: DOR and MFI-low everything IVF #1 = triplets! 2 girls and a boy! Born Sept 29, 2011 at 32w6d due to Pre-e and HELLP syndrome Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • love2b_mrstlove2b_mrst member

    That just sucks big time.  They need to get their act together...I agree that you may need to start freaking out on them so they get their sh!t together and communicate.  I'm sorry =(

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  • labbylover03labbylover03 member
    Ugh.  :(  I'm so sorry!  Delays suck so badly.  I'm glad you guys are going to take a trip and get out of town.  You so deserve it!
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  • may2806may2806 member
    I'm sorry for the delay! ((HUGS))
    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
    DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
    10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
    2 frosties but don't know what's next
    FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
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  • etoyamaetoyama member
    Oh. My. God. V, I'm so sorry. Huge (((HUGS)))
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  • Delta04Delta04 member
    I am so very sorry that you have to deal with this. 
    TTC since 3/07. IVF#1 = canceled. IVF#2 = 0% fertilization. IVF#3 = BFN. IVF#4 = c/p.  
    Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
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  • 07may0707may07

    That really sucks.  They need to get their act together.

    I am so so sorry you are dealing with this crap.  I hope that June gets here soon but in the meantime, I hope you plan a great vacation.  You deserve it!

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  • Jlynn3Jlynn3

    Ugh!  I'm so sorry V!  I can't imagine how frustrating that is!

    (((hugs)))

    SAIFW
    TTC since 2008 dx PCOS & MFI
    Clomid/Femara no "O"
    IVF #1 BFN
    FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
    FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
    IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
    IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
    FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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  • Mandy_Lou83Mandy_Lou83 member
    Aww, man! I really hate this for you.
    After 3 years of infertility we were blessed with twin girls through private infant adoption.
    Forever our's October 17th 2012
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  • MelicakesMelicakes member

    I'm sorry you're stuck in the middle of such a gross miscommunication :(

    Hoping June gets here quick for you and DH.

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  • Nature LoverNature Lover
    that sucks. Just really really sucks. I am sorry.  Did you at least get to yell at someone?
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  • meg_koolemeg_koole

    V!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sooooooo sorry sweetie.  It stinks that they have been jerking you around :(  Hang in there hunny.

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    Dx PCOS 2003/high fasting insulin/clotting issues DH Dx with low sperm count, motility and morphology. Varicocele repair (11/1/2010)
    2/2011 - Confirmed no improvement - On to Donor Sperm
    4 failed IUIs in 2010
    IUI#5 and 6- with DS, BFN
    Final IUI - Lucky #7! IUI with DS - 20.Jun.2011 - 21.5 mil motile! Not so lucky - BFFN and the end of our IF journey....
    Waiting for our family to be complete through Adoption - May 2012 - Hoping our baby finds us soon!
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  • Mrs.VozMrs.Voz
    Uggghhhh... I'm so sorry, hun... {{Hugs}}
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  • jlcrane78jlcrane78 member
    I'm so sorry.  Grrr@their miscommunication.  That really sucks.
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  • OCW2010OCW2010
    Oh man, I'm sorry to read this.  Hon I feel like you've been waiting so long to start your new cycle.  Huge hugs.
    11/10: IUI #1 =100mg Clomid CD4-8 + pregnyl trigger + IUI = chemical pregnancy
    1/11: IUI #2 = 5mg Femara + trigger + IUI = BFN
    2/11: IUI #3 = injectibles + trigger + IUI = BFN
    IVF #1 April 2011 ER 4/23 w/16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fert., 4 blasts to freeze, 5dt of 2 blasts on 4/28, beta #1 5/7 = 243... beta #2 5/9 = 491....beta #3 5/11 = 1113!!
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  • abbe19abbe19
    O vanessa, I am so sorry. I was so excited for you to get started again. May this spring just absolutely fly by. (((hugs)))

    SAIF/PAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC #1 May 2008
    6 Rounds Clomid, 1 Round Femera-BFN
    4 IUIs (1 Clomid, 1 Femara, 2 injectables)-BFN
    February 2010-Laparoscopy
    4 months of Lupron
    August 2010-IUI #5-BFN
    October 2010-IUI #6-BFN
    IVF #1 November 2010-BFN
    IVF #2 March 2011-BFN
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  • Tanya+DaTanya+Da

    That sucks. IF sucks...I am sorry ((HUGS))

    Mommies to 5 fur babies!
    TTC#1 since 2004
    LGBT
    4 cycles @ home with known donor - BFN
    RE un-medicated IUI cycles # 1-7= BFN
    NEW RE Clomid 50mg/ Ovidrel/ IUI #8 BFN
    Took long break
    Nov 2009 - Clomid 50mg/ Ovidrel/IUI #9 = BFP
    Beta 12/4 - 10...Beta #2 12/7- 28 Beta #3 12/9 - 80!
    1st sonogram 12/28 - slow hb and growth
    m/c 1/1/2010 Courtland 8w0d
    Nov 2010 cycle cancelled - polyp removal/hysteroscopy
    April 4 2011 - IUI #10 BFFN
    July 5, 2011 - #11 BFFN AMH .62 Boo
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