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SoonToBeMrsDTS · February 2011

Yesterday I went in for my 12 week appointment and the NP was not able to find the baby's heartbeat with the doppler. She scanned me with the u/s and said she still wasn't able to find it. After 5 hours in the ER it was confirmed that we had lost the baby. We saw the heartbeat on the u/s 3 weeks ago and started telling our family and friends so I think the worst part is going to be un-telling everyone. We are devastated.

doggylovr · February 2011

I'm so sorry, I too had a late(ish) m/c around 11 and a half weeks and it is just devistating...there are no words to make it better but take strength in looking at your other two beautiful children!!!

HUGS to you and your DH!!!!

cmh06 · February 2011

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

preissless1 · February 2011

I'm sorry for your loss. Hugs.

carebear08 · February 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Un-telling is very hard and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

L'Etincelle · February 2011

Oh no! I am so sad for your loss

I cannot image that. I hope that your physical healing (procedure?) will be soon. For the untelling, try to do a phone tree of sorts... don't subject yourself to telling more than the minimum number of people and they can spread the news so that you don't have to keep talking about it to everyone. Please, keep talking here though and let us know how you're doing. Hugs!!!

AgrippaRidesAgain · February 2011

Oh, I am so sorry to hear that. How devastating. I agree with PP--tell the minimum number of people you need to and let them spread the word.

slukd79 · February 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss.

mommmyz · February 2011

So, so sorry for your loss. Lots of thoughts, prayers, and hugs.

Amy&Steve0421 · February 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

hsbbride · February 2011

I'm so sorry.

special382 · February 2011

I am so, so sorry. I had a loss at 11 weeks that they didn't find until 13 weeks. I know how you feel and I am sending huge hugs and prayers to you.

Artslvr · February 2011

Oh no. I'm so sorry. Hugs to you.

Jenn875 · February 2011

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard this must be.

JKM416 · February 2011

I'm so sorry

I hope you are (physically) feeling better soon. And that friends and family fully acknowledge your loss and don't, with good intentions at heart, tell you it was "early," or "you can have other kids," or "just be thankful for the two kids you already have."

Sofka · February 2011

I'm so so sorry for your loss! Let us know if you need anything, we are here for you!

jenndreier · February 2011

I am very sorry for your loss.

RomeRomance06 · February 2011

I'm so, so sorry. I know how hard this is. Our first pregnancy ended in m/c at 9 weeks and we found out the same way. It is devastating. Take some time to grieve, if you can, and I agree with letting other people spread the news for you. I'll be thinking of you.

Beijaflorju · February 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you are able to begin to heal physically and emotionally. Give yourself time to grieve and your body time to heal- it really is traumatic physically too. I'm so sorry that happened. Know that you are not alone, and that we're here for you however you need.