Update on Bleeding/Clotting Episode yesterday

[Deleted User] · January 2011

Amazingly, my baby survived all the other stuff coming out. My cervix is closed, although I am still bleeding, it is getting darker. (Good Sign) My Dr. has now put me on full bed rest with no sitting up unless going to the bathroom or eating. I have already been taking it easy for like 6 weeks! I will go back in to see her next Monday to see how things are doing again.

I know alot of you suggested going to the ER but I have a few reasons why I didnt. #1)I live in the inner city and the ER's are creepy. #2) I didnt want to spend 8 hours there waiting for someone to see me and also #3) this is my third time having heavy bleeding. I just mainly wanted to see my Dr at this early point in my pregnancy. If I had gone into contractions or had pain- I would have gone to the ER. #4)Also, Mom is a nurse and she was there with me. Way prior to pregnancy, I have been to the ER about 4/5 times for random other issues and had an average wait of probably 6 hours. This is going to different hospitals. I didnt have a good experience needless to say.

I appreciate everyones well wishes and prayers. It really does help. Because I havent made my pregnancy widely known, and only a few people know I am having a high risk pregnancy at this point. There arent many people who I can share my concerns with. Words cant really express my gratitude to everyone here.

-Cara

kristenn441 · January 2011

That's great!! I'm so glad that the baby is o.k. Take it easy!

kjgilhoo · January 2011

I'm so glad the baby is still there. Good luck with the bed rest and hopefully things will take a turn for the better soon

cozylittlecave · January 2011

Oh Cara, I'm SO glad to hear this!!!! What a miracle!

MiaNovember · January 2011

I am really glad to hear you got good news (I have been traveling for a week, so just caught up on posts and was so sad to hear all the scary stories and bad news). I know that bed rest will be tough, but I hope you find fun and restful ways to pass the time.

Galaxy8227 · January 2011

So glad to hear that LO is doing ok! Get plenty of rest and keep us updated!

CBC08 · January 2011

Cara,

I know I'm just a stranger on a message board, but I am SO glad to hear your update. Yesterday must have been incredibly scary. I'm sending you my thoughts and prayers for a continued healthy pregnancy and renewed optimism!

measrn · January 2011

So happy to hear everything is o.k. with you and baby!!!

MrsGo4Hockeychick · January 2011

I just posted asking about you

I'm glad things look good, your silence had me worried.

b15chik · January 2011

Party!!! wooooooooo!!!

so glad to hear everything's alright

red1976 · January 2011

I've been checking for your update all day and am so happy that things are okay!!! Hoping this is the last of your scares and you can start to relax and enjoy your pregnancy!

K-hart · January 2011

Cara-Thank God! I've been thinking about you all day and hoping for the best. I'm so happy your LO is doing well.

alioopsiedaisy · January 2011

Great to hear baby is healthy!

missdelica · January 2011

Cara1979:

Amazingly, my baby survived all the other stuff coming out. My cervix is closed, although I am still bleeding, it is getting darker. (Good Sign) My Dr. has now put me on full bed rest with no sitting up unless going to the bathroom or eating. I have already been taking it easy for like 6 weeks! I will go back in to see her next Monday to see how things are doing again.

Sounds like you have a fighter growing in there. I am VERY happy to hear that baby is ok. T&Ps are still with you.

TanyaKM · January 2011

I've been thinking about you since last night and I'm SO glad everything is okay with your LO. Although I can imagine that strict bed rest is hard, hopefully it will go by quickly and you can get back on your feet soon. Take it easy and have your DH wait on you!

AmberZ2be · January 2011

So glad to hear everything is ok. Rest up!!

sunnydaisy · January 2011

What a scare! I'm so glad you got some reassurance today. Take care, and GL on Monday!

atack · January 2011

What a miracle and such good news (besides the bed rest part, but that will pass). Thoughts and prayers are being sent your way!!!

littlepoppyseed · January 2011

I've been thinking about you all day. SO happy to hear that your little one is still safe and snug in there! What a little fighter!

Take care of yourself, and try not to go crazy on bedrest! Now would be a good time for a Netflix subscription...

JenJar · January 2011

So glad it's looking up! Stay rested.

zoe_cat · January 2011

Oh my gosh, I'm so glad to hear your baby is in there and doing okay. I'll keep my fingers crossed that the bleeding stops and that the rest of your pregnancy is healthy and uneventful.

christyjane17 · January 2011

You have been in my thoughts today. That is a miracle!! I'm so happy you got good news. Now, REST!!

xoxpipahxox · January 2011

So glad to read the good news. I will continue to keep you in my thougts--rest up and think positive thoughts!

Jelliebean1982 · January 2011

Cara, I have been thinking of you all day. I was hoping that you just passed a clot and it was nothing else. This is such great news!!! Does your doctor think it was a subchorionic hematoma or do they know what caused the bleeding?

deanbean · January 2011

I have been waiting for your update and I am so glad it is a good one. I do understand why you did not go to the ER, and I probably would have done the same thing in your situation. I too have had an episode of heavy bleeding with this pg and it gives me a lot of hope to see your status. Good luck and take it easy.

How long do you have to be on bed rest? Do they have any idea what is causing the bleeding?

etoyama · January 2011

Glad u are doing ok now! Bleeding is so scary

rest up, hon!

MrsCase1 · January 2011

yay! le bebe is already a fighter! excellent! i love happy updates such as this-please keep us posted!

gone_awry · January 2011

That is fantastic news!!

Meehanbride · January 2011

Good to hear! Glad all is well! Will continue to keep you in my prayers!

olivia_eve · January 2011

Wonderful news! I hope this is just a little bump in the road, and the rest of your pregnancy is uneventful!

angiek1 · January 2011

I am glad to hear everything is okay. Bed rest isn't ideal, but I'm sure those around you (and this awesome board) will try to help make it better.

rvandiver0705 · January 2011

I'm so glad that everything is ok!

Megnucrzy16 · January 2011

What a blessing. T&P's are with you!

BetsyDavis · January 2011

So glad to hear baby is still sticking. I've been waiting all day for your update. My T&P's are still with you and your LO.

kelkel2933 · January 2011

I'm so glad your LO is well. I hope you are able to take it easy. I will keep you in my T&Ps.

mcatmay · January 2011

Holy cow, both you and your LO are fighters! That's awesome - i know that we don't know each other in real life but i have been thinking of you and hoping both you and your bean were hanging in there. Will keep sending all the positive vibes i can for healthier, happier times to come. Take good care of yourself!!!!

ej708 · January 2011

I'm so glad to see this post. Huge ((Hugs)) for you and your LO! Hang in there!

[Deleted User] · January 2011

Thank you everybody!

Yes it is a subchorionic hematoma. Dr had told me I had it early on but then she thought everything had healed up at my appt last Thursday. She had still cautioned me to avoid standing, walking alot etc. Obviously, it hadnt healed and came out. I dont know how long the bed rest thing will be but I dont expect it to be very long. Maybe a week or 2? I really dont have a clue.

I am very happy with bedrest, the alternative would have been a miscarriage. Although I'm mentally drained, I am elated my pregnancy is progressing forward. Also, my 2 cats will be super happy that I will be laying down all the time. One is already taking advantage by laying with me on the couch now!