Hi to all! I used to be big into The Knot and did a little on The Nest but haven't been on any boards for a while.
Here's my dilemma...My baby girl is 10 months old and I am still unsure if I want to call her by her first or middle name. She is Annabelle Brynn (Brynn is a family name.) For you all to know the whole story I've got to go back a little. My DH and I could never come up with a name. Finally at about 8 mo pg, we both decided Annabelle would work. My mom basically went off on me-made me cry, "that's a terrible name," "your (dead) grandmother would have hated that name," that is the neighbor's dog's name", etc. At that point I just quit talking about it/thinking about it. I went into labor shortly after that. We called her Annabelle for the first 5months but it never felt right. (I'm sure b/c of my mom's comments.) So then we decided to call her Brynn. We finally got everyone calling her that, but now I'm not even sure about that. She will be a year next month so I feel like I need to be fair to her and finally settle on something. At times I call her by both names which I think is pretty (and so she'll recognize both) but I think it is all too long for long term.
Honestly I am tired of worrying about her name but I feel stressed about it on a regular basis. I would never actually/legally change her name so that is not the concern. I guess I just want opinions on the whole situation. Maybe somebody's reply will inspire me!
Re: Still w/ name drama at 10 months!
I go by my first and middle. It was never a problem. If thats what you like, go for it.
But just pick one already!