I currently have a 5 month old little boy and an 8 year old stepson and my DH and I are undecided on whether to have another. I really do want one more but it has been such a change having DS. The time that DH and I shared before has almost been cut out. DS is such a great baby and my stepson is only with us half the time, so we have no complaints about the kids we have. They are both great. But I'm just so worried about when DH and I will find time for each other and if I will have enough time to devote to all 3. How did y'all decide whether one more was right for you and is it easier when they are close in age? If we had one more, we would probably wait til DS is a year old. Any advice about handling two about that far apart?

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Re: Handling 2?