Hi ladies....came across this board while prepping for #2. I had a C the first time, and unlike a lot of people (so it seems), was overjoyed. I never felt deprived, or felt like I didn't bond with my LO, or missed out on a life experience. The first time I heard LO cry and saw him for the first time was just awesome. My number one priority was a healthy baby, and that is all that was on my mind. How he was born wasn't all that important, as long as he and I were ok.
As I get ready for #2, there is so much emphasis on a VBAC and having that "experience." I just don't get it....what am I missing?