I am going to focus on something a lot of other people say about labor.
"wanting a vbac is SELFISH". you know what? Yes it is. Just like the first time mother who wants to deliver her child through her vagina!! That is what it is there for!!! Why is it is so hard for people to understand that I want my child to come out of my body the way nature/God intended instead of ripped out of me like a piece of meat. If it is seflish of me to want my child on my chest and to feel my touch immediately after being born then i am proud to say i am selfish. If it is selfish of me to want to meet the child that has been growing inside of my body for x amount of time immediately and not 4 hours of s/he is born, than yes i want to be selfish.
If a second + mother is selfish that wants to vbac than so is the first mother who wants to avoid a c-section.
Here's to SELFISHNESS!!!!!!