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BFN, for better or worse

MrsAtchMrsAtch member
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Well I'm finally at what I assume is almost done miscarrying. I'm still spotting brown blood, but I got a BFN today. We are waiting a cycle to start trying again anyway but I just needed to see one line to be able to come to terms with the last two weeks. It's a crappy feeling and a good feeling all at the same time. It means that all of this has been real, and that it's finally almost over. 

I hope you are all hanging in there tonight.  

After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
Not ready to give up yet.
Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
 
Please, please, please. 
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Re: BFN, for better or worse

  • ambs21ambs21 member
    I'm right there with you.  I too have had the brown spotting, just got my BFN Friday night.  Here's hoping AF shows up soon and we both get our BFP soon.  Sorry for your loss.  Hang in and hold on to hope.  That's all we can do.
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  • JNS023JNS023
    Ok so I'm wondering when to take a test to get a BFN?  I started spotting on the 7th, missed m/c discovered on the 10th, heavy bleeding started on the 13th.  Things are starting to slow down drastically, was thinking about doing it this week (merry Christmas?? haha  I'm so ready to get off this roller coaster!).  Is that too soon?
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