Methinks the kiddos (grandkids) are going to be lacking in gifts at Christmas at their houses but at my house there are gifts a-plenty for the three of them (ages 5, 5 and 7...the 7 year old used to live with us.) Included in the gifts are the big gift of bikes for each of them. The typical clothing items, etc. will be from us.
Should "Santa" visit our house and drop off the bikes or is it better that everything be from us. (fwiw they live two hours away and I'm not driving them up there.)
Re: How should I work this out...
It would be odd if Santa brought more gifts to your house than to their house, no?
And, why wouldn't you drive the bikes up there to them? You're going to leave the bikes only for use at your house?
This.
I never thought Christmas wasn't magical, just because Santa visited my house, my grandparents' house and my other grandparent's house. Santa can go to however many dam* houses he pleases. People who think otherwise overthink the whole situation, IMO. For kids it's this simple. Period.
I guess the bikes should be from us rather than from Santa, eh? Bikes have always been from Santa in the past (if they came at Christmas instead of birthdays). I guess it's time to start a new tradition.
And yes, what I meant was that I wasn't driving the bikes up to the island (1.5-2 hours each way) only to drop them off as Santa gifts for under the tree at their house and then drive another 2 hours to get back home to have Christmas (and Christmas+1) back at my house. Waaay too much driving, believe me. I speak from experience. I'll bring the bikes up when I go up next if they can't take them back. Besides, I want to see their faces when they see the bikes. I bought them, darnit.
(Looooooong history here and some raw spots rubbing DH and apparently me re: the child/adults currently and getting worse with each passing holiday. It's time for a sit-down I think. He's been getting more and more pissed and disgusted with them as it's felt more and more like we're the bankroll and I'm not Mom since I get last call on all holidays, it seems--if I'm lucky lately, I'll get last call if I get any call at all. DH is super-close with his mom and doesn't get my kids and their lack of respect/appreciation at all. Think LittleJen's SD and DH to some extent and you got it. Him being pissed and disgusted makes me pissed and disgusted at them for making him pissed and disgusted rather than giving him and me reason to be proud, happy, satisfied, etc. and him reason not to be pissed enough to cut them out of his will - literally, not figuratively.)
Santa will come to my house too. But he'll bring the helmets instead of the bikes. He knew I bought them bikes and he wanted them to be safe too.
I think that works for me.