SBieste
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I made it to 30 weeks before getting this question, but I knew it was coming none the less. I'm only measuring a week ahead ..I dont look that huge in my opinion. Seriously though, why would you ever even ask that? People just amaze me at times.
We were at Subway at the time. The "sandwich maker" was the one with the lovely question. DH's comment was "If it's any cancellation to you hunny, she looks like a meth addict" LOL
Re: How many of you have received the "Are you having twins?" line?
I got this at 23 weeks from our security guard at work....funny thing was, most people said they couldn't even tell I was pregnant at that point! I think sometimes people just like to say that because they don't know what else to say or how big people should be at a certain time...I know before I got pregnant I had no clue!
Where in Arkansas are you from? My dad's family is from there, so I spent a lot of time down in the Hot Springs area growing up, and now my aunt lives in Springdale/Fayetteville are....It's so beautiful there!
I haven't been asked about twins. But someone did ask me my due date. Then proceeded to say this winner
"Ummm, are you sure you're going to make it until January? You look like you're going to pop."
WTH. Women don't pop.
I got this too one time and I've been asked a few other times. My doctor says I'm measuring on track though!
Katie: 1/16/08 2lbs. 15oz.
Abby & Emily: 12/31/10 6lbs. 2oz. & 5lbs. 7oz.
I got this question last Saturday night at DH's family Christmas party. DH's Uncle was the one that asked me, and I said "I only have one in here, how many do you have in yours?"
Got a chuckle out of him but I did feel bad giving him a hard time.
IVF #1: ER 03/29/10; ET 04/01/10: transferred 2 embies; Beta #1 (9dp3dt)- 45; Beta #2 (11dp3dt)- 91= BFP
FET#1: ET 04/18/12: transferred 4 embies; Beta #1: >2 = BFN
IVF #2: ER 06/20/12; ET 6/25/12: transferred 2 embies; Beta #1 on 7/5/12= BFN
8/16: hysteroscopy for polyp removal
11/11: hysteroscopy #2 for yet another polyp removal
FET#2: ET 12/15/12: transferred 3 embies; Beta #1 (9dp5dt): 12/24/12: 426; Beta #2 (11dp5dt): 845= BFP
u/s 1/9= triplets!; miscarried all three on 1/10/13...
Interestingly enough... I have NOT gotten this question yet, and I AM having twins?!
But I am totally over the, "Are your boy/girl twins identical?"
I even got this one today from a lady who said she is a twin? Don't you think she would understand the terminology?
Yeah, along with the "Are you SURE you're not due until February?!"
People don't think. I started this pregnancy with twins, and lost one at 9 weeks. Not many people knew. Next time I hear the twins line I should respond "Well, I did, but Baby B died at 9 weeks. Thanks for asking!"
Hopefully it would make them uncomfortable enough that they'd learn not to ask such a thing again. It's kind of a stinging reminder every time I hear the twins question, and I could do without hearing it again.