something i hope no mom ever has to go through ever again.

valerina79 · December 2010

we lost maddie last week. Today should have been the start of our 28th week. We went in for a normal u/s and appointment and the tech couldn't find a heartbeat. My heart stopped. I am heartbroken.

I gave birth to Madalyn Janice Nov. 30, 2010 at 0310. She was 10.7 oz and 9.75 inches long.

no outward signs of problems...we will see what the autopsy shows--if anything.

my hubby is doing ok...i'm just numb. and i can't figure out how to get that counter thing off my page.

i don't ever wish this on my worst enemy.

erikaja6 · December 2010

I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. I am also new to this board. I just had a miscarriage yesterday. I have found that talking to my husband (and another friend who had a miscarriage last year) about my pain has been most helpful. I also think that reading the posts on this board will help. Hopefully you will find this to be true too.

As far as getting the "counter thing" off your page, I assume you're talking about the pregnancy ticker in your signature? I removed my ticker by first clicking on "my bump"; then clicking on "edit my profile" and removing my pregnancy ticker from my signature box. I hope that helps. If not, hopefully another poster will have some advice.

LaraGaudess · December 2010

I am so sorry for your loss! I empathize with you, I've actually been saying the same thing about not wishing this on anyone. Great minds, eh:)

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

alexa08 · December 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost our LO at 18 weeks two weeks ago. I understand how you're feeling, it just hurts. ((hugs))

fireflies0306 · December 2010

{{{{hugs}}}}}

tew213 · December 2010

I am so sorry for your loss of Madalyn. lots and lots of hugs sent your way!

mkwt · December 2010

I am so very sorry your loss. I think you remove you ticker by how someone else posted. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

MrsR25 · December 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss.

njmommaterp · December 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that there are many of us thinking about you and your family.

Carolee · December 2010

I'm so, so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. No one should ever have to go through what we all have.

butterflynola · December 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have found some comfort here as well as on faces of loss and from reading an exact figment of a replica of my imagination, but of course nothing makes it go away. I'll be thinking of you and your husband. ((hugs))

Temp774929562501329 · December 2010

i am so sorry for your loss. we had an autopsy performed on ella when she passed and unfortunately (or fortunately) it showed nothing wrong. we do not have any answers. i pray for strength for you, yh and your family to get through this tough time. ::hugs::