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Re: You have GOT to be kidding me!

  • melissa721melissa721 member
    imageMrs.Umm:
    imagejalara48:

     

    And I'm not telling you about your relationship - I'm offering you different points of view.

    And, how is the view with your head up your a$$?

     

    LOL I'm glad I reopened this post.



     

    bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks

    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

    bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks



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  • BetchySproutBetchySprout member

    I was not aware that pregnancy was such an "overwhelming time" that it meant abandoning all compassion for your friends. 

    I am really sorry Umm, and I know you are happy for your friends, just surprised. Nobody who actually has reading comprehension or has read a single one of your posts would ever think you felt anything but a sting at this, while still being happy for your friend. 

    Giant fails at flaming attempts make my heart sing, especially when the "flamer" can make such an idiotically P&R post as that linked one. 

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  • loveypantsloveypants
    imageKimML17:
    imagejalara48:

    Hmmm.... well - what do you tell people when they ask if you're trying? Just because you were comfortable telling them your issues doesn't mean they need to be comfortable telling you theirs - TTC is one of the most private things a couple can do. So - why do you have a right to know?

    And, maybe, just maybe, in their obviously overwhelming situation, they didn't have a chance to call you, or wanted to tell all their family - or maybe they were waiting to tell you face to face instead of over Crackbook, given your recent difficulties - maybe they were trying to do the right thing by you. 

    I'm sorry that someone else's HUGE AND WONDERFUL news isn't being all about you. How selfish of them. 

    Yup - I'm going to go get some chocolate now.

    How dare you come into  umm's post and make such absolutely rude comments. I think you need to take your arrogant, inconsiderate self and  move on. Umm is a valued member of TTGP, you however ARE NOT!

    ETA: I'll take out the name calling but seriously. 

    I love you.  That is all.  oh wait no, I also totally agree with you.  ok. now, that is all :)

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  • liz_tliz_t member
    imagejalara48:

    For everyone else: Yes - that was me that said that. And yeah, I do say positive things. 

    But I'm also entitled to think that a woman's pregnancy belongs to her, her partner and no one else, and that they can choose to approach it however they want. I have seen YOU act as a cheering team for Bumpies that have other people trying to butt into parts of their private life. So what's the difference here?

    And I really hope that when you get your BFP and people start to get upset over decision that you make, that there is someone there to remind you that it's your pregnancy and you can handle it how you please. Every woman deserves that. Whether they are a Bumpie or not.

    I don't call people names, swear at them, insult them, or tell them they are an epic failure. But yes - I call a spade a spade - and this was a spade.

    You seem to have a very hard time sticking to one viewpoint.

    While you chose to bash Mrs. Ummm for feeling hurt about how her friend announced her pregnancy and stated that it is the pregnant couple's perogative on how they announce, you seemed to find no issue with expressing sympathy to another poster who was upset at how her cousin's girlfriend announced her pregnancy. https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/2/45834174/ShowThread.aspx

    I think that you should change your screen name to Sybil, due to your multiple personality disorder.

    I don't have the energy right now to get into everything else that is wrong with your post, but there is a lot there.

     

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  • Mrs.UmmMrs.Umm member
    imagejalara48:

     Or whatever. In the hours since you posted this, have you talked to them?

    Yup. Called them up after I saw it on FB. They didn't say a word. I know that it's because they're ackward about it and don't want to hurt my feelings by being pregnant, but they don't get that their pregnancy isn't what hurts, it's the abandonment by friends.

    I don't call people names, swear at them, insult them, or tell them they are an epic failure. But yes - I call a spade a spade - and this was a spade.

    And, I call a b!tch a b!tch. Thanks for all the support.

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  • melissa721melissa721 member
    imagequietvoice:
    imagejalara48:

    But yes - I call a spade a spade - and this was a spade.

    I call a muddy cooter a muddy cooter.

     

    Muddy cooter. 

    LOVE LOVE LOVE!


     

    bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks

    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

    bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks



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