Hi, kids. I'm lurking from 1st tri and wondering if you really start to feel normal again after the 3 month mark. I feel like crap all day, every day, all night, every night. I'm exhausted all the time, but can't sleep, I'm starving and nauseous all the time. Complain, complain, etc...... Please tell me your experiences coming out of 1st tri.
May, 2010, DH DX: Low Testosterone
July, 2010, DH SA: 3% morph
July, 2010, DH Rx: 50 mg Clomid EOD


BFP: 9/3/10 ~ M/C: 9/7/10
BFP: 10/9/10 ~ My beautiful Grace Dorothy was born on 6/14/11
Beta #1 (12 DPO): 111/24 ~ Beta #2 (16 DPO): 722/23 ~ Beta #3 (20 DPO): 3,338/15.3
BFP: 11/14/11 ~ Spotting/Betas not doubling, but HB of 113 bpm @ 6 wks 1 day!
My Chart
DH's Low Testosterone/ED Blog
Re: Do you really magically feel better after 12 weeks?
No.
Sorry. I felt like ass and was puking up to 22 weeks. The puking has stopped but it feels like someone has kicked me in the box with a steel toed boot. But everyone is different, so who knows you may wake up one day and feel great.
With my first child, yes. I felt great as soon as I hit 12 weeks. With this pregnancy, I didn't start feeling better until 14 or 15 weeks. My m/s was MUCH worse this time around, and I had to go on anti-nausea meds. I threw up a lot, whereas the first time around, I mainly only got nauseated and rarely threw up.
Also, the first time around I had a boy, and now I'm having a girl. Could be the old wives tale coming true, lol.
Hang in there. It wasn't as easy as turning off the proverbial nausea and fatigue "light switch" as it feels like for many, but after week 12, it did gradually all subside. By week 14, most symptoms were gone.
All that to say that I'm still in bed at 10 pm on most nights, but I no longer have that extreme fatigue and nausea, food aversions and overall hangover feeling I had in first tri.
That's now been replaced with round ligament pain and back aches and pains.
It does get better for most women, though.
BFP 3/28/16 (EDD 12/9/16) * Chemical pregnancy
ME: 40 yrs.old
DH: 41 yrs.old
DD: 5 yrs.
i felt AWFUL from 4-9 weeks. and since then, i have felt, overall, not that bad. i definately do not have any more nausea and m/s. i am just ridiculously tired all.the.time.
Just like everything else, it's different for everyone. I think it was mid week 13 or 14 when I realized that my 1st tri symptoms were gone, but that's not the case for all people.
Hope you feel better soon.
Hahaha, Oh, thanks kids. JUST what I wanted to hear. lol. Le sigh. Seriously, it's so hard to keep pregnancy a secret in the beginning, methinks, with all this feeling hungover all day. My co-workers must suspect. I sit there with my eyes rolling in my head all day, eyes and mouth watering, miserable puss on my face, and I'm usually the spunky, happy, joking, annoying office chick.
Well, I certainly hope we're all feeling right as rain ASAP. Thanks for your responses.
July, 2010, DH SA: 3% morph
July, 2010, DH Rx: 50 mg Clomid EOD
BFP: 9/3/10 ~ M/C: 9/7/10
BFP: 10/9/10 ~ My beautiful Grace Dorothy was born on 6/14/11
Beta #1 (12 DPO): 111/24 ~ Beta #2 (16 DPO): 722/23 ~ Beta #3 (20 DPO): 3,338/15.3
BFP: 11/14/11 ~ Spotting/Betas not doubling, but HB of 113 bpm @ 6 wks 1 day!
My Chart
DH's Low Testosterone/ED Blog
It really depends. I'm 17 weeks and still getting sick pretty much every day. I've been on meds since I was 5.5 weeks pg.
With DS, I was sick the entire time. I was puking the day of my induction at 37 weeks. It was awful. But here I am again, doing it all over.
Baby #2 on the way!
With DS, I started feeling better around 13-14 weeks.
With this pregnancy, I felt better by 11-12 weeks.
With my first pregnancy, I started feeling better between 13-14 weeks.
With this one, it lasted until 16 weeks. Blah. But... haven't thrown up since!! It did go away, and now it feels like a distant memory even though it felt like it would never end. Hang in there...
I'll throw a slightly more positive story in, too. I didn't feel THAT bad, but I definitely started to feel better around week 12 or 13. Like the other posters said, though, it was gradual. It took a couple of weeks for my nausea to go away.
Good luck! I hope you feel better soon.
LOL. 14-17 weeks were the worst weeks for both of my pregnancies (all day sickness). Not including how uncomfortable my last few weeks were with swelling, zero room for food and no sleep plus just general discomfort 24/7.
Good Luck
It varies from person to person. I think I started feeling better around 13-14 weeks. I stopped feeling so tired all the time around the same timeframe.
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