I'm just logging on tonight and can't find it either. I read her post earlier tonight on my phone. I hope she got some good advice at her lawyer's appointment this afternoon and she and Noah are OK. I also selfishly hope she gives us an update because I've been thinking about them.
She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
If the situation is as volatile as it sounds, I'd be calling 911.
She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
I think one of the PPs mentioned she was in contact with a lawyer. She might have had some down-time waiting for a call back or something.
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She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
multitasking.
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She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
Agreed.
I would not have let him leave with my kid in the first place. I don't care what the situation was.
If he did somehow get away with my kid I would have called the cops and followed him in my car and never let my child out of my sight.
She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
Agreed.
I would not have let him leave with my kid in the first place. I don't care what the situation was.
If he did somehow get away with my kid I would have called the cops and followed him in my car and never let my child out of my sight.
I would have had NO TIME to bump.
Yeah, ITA. I would have totally tailed his a$$ and called the cops.
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She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
Agreed.
I would not have let him leave with my kid in the first place. I don't care what the situation was.
If he did somehow get away with my kid I would have called the cops and followed him in my car and never let my child out of my sight.
I would have had NO TIME to bump.
This! I can't imagine letting someone walk off with my son.
For real. I would not be sitting here, calmly asking about my finances and shiit when my alcoholic, verbally abusive husband has fun off with my child. I can bet that her story didn't actually go down the way she said. But its not like she's known for lying or anything.
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She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
Agreed.
I would not have let him leave with my kid in the first place. I don't care what the situation was.
If he did somehow get away with my kid I would have called the cops and followed him in my car and never let my child out of my sight.
I would have had NO TIME to bump.
Damn right. No one leaves with my kid without my OK. I don't give a shiit who it is.
Jillian is right. They can't do anything. Its his SON. He can take him unless there is a court ordered custody agreement in place. It sucks but it is what it is.
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I think it's really easy to say what you would or wouldn't do in a situation when you're on the outside looking in. No one really knows what they would do until they're there though.
Erino said she wasn't worried about her DH being abusive to Noah and whether that is a risk or not, she really seemed to believe that it wasn't. She also didn't seem to realize that not stopping him from taking Noah would create a major issue since, legally, her DH hasn't done anything wrong.
Assuming what Erino posted is true, she's been verbally/emotionally abused by her DH for a long time. If you haven't experienced this first hand it's really hard to say how you would or wouldn't react and whether or not you'd be in your right mind when everything happened.
She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
Agreed.
I would not have let him leave with my kid in the first place. I don't care what the situation was.
If he did somehow get away with my kid I would have called the cops and followed him in my car and never let my child out of my sight.
I would have had NO TIME to bump.
This! I can't imagine letting someone walk off with my son.
Well, to be fair, it wasn't someone; it was the child's father. I get that they had a fight and all, but it's not like someone from the Target parking lot snatched the kid.
And I wanted to add that she probably deleted her post because she's worried about her DH finding it and using it against her in some way. Someone advised her to stop posting about the situation.
And I wanted to add that she probably deleted her post because she's worried about her DH finding it and using it against her in some way. Someone advised her to stop posting about the situation.
And I guess this is why you shouldn't post about things like this because if it comes to divorce, I wouldn't want my posts b!tching about my DH brought into court.
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I think it's really easy to say what you would or wouldn't do in a situation when you're on the outside looking in. No one really knows what they would do until they're there though.
Erino said she wasn't worried about her DH being abusive to Noah and whether that is a risk or not, she really seemed to believe that it wasn't. She also didn't seem to realize that not stopping him from taking Noah would create a major issue since, legally, her DH hasn't done anything wrong.
Assuming what Erino posted is true, she's been verbally/emotionally abused by her DH for a long time. If you haven't experienced this first hand it's really hard to say how you would or wouldn't react and whether or not you'd be in your right mind when everything happened.
This. Having been involved in something similar as a child, I'm sure she's doing the best she can.
Re: Did Erino delete her post?
This.
I'm seriously worried about her LO ... especially if all of what she has been saying is true.
I'm hoping it's not all true.
Her stories never match up and always seem so sketchy ... so I'm hoping it's because some of it is MUD.
::sits and waits for an update::
Yep.
Linky please.
Let me guess, DH went off the wagon, ranted in the street and she fled.
She says he's still on the wagon. I'm sure she'll update us soon.
Then what happened? This makes me very concerned for her ...
He fled. With the kid. To his dad's house an hour away.
ETA: He's still on the wagon.
Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.
Yeah me too. She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed.
Wow. What the hell was the fight about? I can't imagine fleeing the family with the baby unless there was some abuse going on.
Wow. What the hell was the fight about? I can't imagine fleeing the family with the baby unless there was some abuse going on.
But don't mess with her finances. She would cuttabitch.
You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.
bahahahaha you kill me
If the situation is as volatile as it sounds, I'd be calling 911.
I think one of the PPs mentioned she was in contact with a lawyer. She might have had some down-time waiting for a call back or something.
multitasking.
Agreed.
I would not have let him leave with my kid in the first place. I don't care what the situation was.
If he did somehow get away with my kid I would have called the cops and followed him in my car and never let my child out of my sight.
I would have had NO TIME to bump.
Yeah, ITA. I would have totally tailed his a$$ and called the cops.
This! I can't imagine letting someone walk off with my son.
Damn right. No one leaves with my kid without my OK. I don't give a shiit who it is.
If there was an argument and he took off with the kid ... you bet they'll get involved.
kidnapping? I don't know the law on that in VA. But I can imagine that fleeing without the child being in danger is probably an issue.
I think it's really easy to say what you would or wouldn't do in a situation when you're on the outside looking in. No one really knows what they would do until they're there though.
Erino said she wasn't worried about her DH being abusive to Noah and whether that is a risk or not, she really seemed to believe that it wasn't. She also didn't seem to realize that not stopping him from taking Noah would create a major issue since, legally, her DH hasn't done anything wrong.
Assuming what Erino posted is true, she's been verbally/emotionally abused by her DH for a long time. If you haven't experienced this first hand it's really hard to say how you would or wouldn't react and whether or not you'd be in your right mind when everything happened.
Well, to be fair, it wasn't someone; it was the child's father. I get that they had a fight and all, but it's not like someone from the Target parking lot snatched the kid.
And I guess this is why you shouldn't post about things like this because if it comes to divorce, I wouldn't want my posts b!tching about my DH brought into court.
This. Having been involved in something similar as a child, I'm sure she's doing the best she can.