Did Erino delete her post?

Echowysp

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

You rang?

Lucky428

With all of his issues that she talks about, I would not have let him walk off with my son. 

 

robbie3982

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

I won't judge you, but my memory sucks and DS is only 15 months old.  I'm curious about what you know though.  

smellycat15

I do know exactly what I'd do because I've been through a fight and someone storming off. So for me to say I'd make sure my LO stayed at home, its the truth.

Also, she shouldn't be posting so much personal info on here anyway. 

jillianfries

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

Pick me, pick me! I might know. 

katie_cj

smellycat15:

I do know exactly what I'd do because I've been through a fight and someone storming off. So for me to say I'd make sure my LO stayed at home, its the truth.

Also, she shouldn't be posting so much personal info on here anyway. 

This. I've been through it. And there's no way in hell Jake was leaving my sight.

smellycat15

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

NO PICK ME!  I'm very knowledgeable. 

MrsBatty

katie_cj@hotmail.com:

smellycat15:

I do know exactly what I'd do because I've been through a fight and someone storming off. So for me to say I'd make sure my LO stayed at home, its the truth.

Also, she shouldn't be posting so much personal info on here anyway. 

This. I've been through it. And there's no way in hell Jake was leaving my sight.

Ditto. 

kit443

smellycat15:

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

NO PICK ME!  I'm very knowledgeable. 

I would probably judge AND gossip so don't pick me.

katie_cj

smellycat15:

I do know exactly what I'd do because I've been through a fight and someone storming off. So for me to say I'd make sure my LO stayed at home, its the truth.

Also, she shouldn't be posting so much personal info on here anyway. 

This. I've been through it. And there's no way in hell Jake was leaving my sight.

katie_cj

smellycat15:

I do know exactly what I'd do because I've been through a fight and someone storming off. So for me to say I'd make sure my LO stayed at home, its the truth.

Also, she shouldn't be posting so much personal info on here anyway. 

This. I've been through it. And there's no way in hell Jake was leaving my sight.

katiekate1974

MrsBatty:

katie_cj@hotmail.com:

smellycat15:

I do know exactly what I'd do because I've been through a fight and someone storming off. So for me to say I'd make sure my LO stayed at home, its the truth.

Also, she shouldn't be posting so much personal info on here anyway. 

This. I've been through it. And there's no way in hell Jake was leaving my sight.

Ditto. 

Pretty much. And few of her stories track as you get into them.

katiekate1974

MrsBatty:

katie_cj@hotmail.com:

smellycat15:

I do know exactly what I'd do because I've been through a fight and someone storming off. So for me to say I'd make sure my LO stayed at home, its the truth.

Also, she shouldn't be posting so much personal info on here anyway. 

This. I've been through it. And there's no way in hell Jake was leaving my sight.

Ditto. 

Pretty much. And few of her stories track as you get into them.

mrs.k 07

diana82:

MrsBatty:

purple_posies:

jillianfries:

She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son. 

Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.

Yeah me too.  She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed. 

You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.

Don't forget she claimed this happened last night, so why she was posting on here for advice instead of calling a lawyer or the cops right away is beyond me. 

Not to mention she seemed more worried about her finances and him taking all of her money because she makes 3x more than him than she was about the safety of her child. 

mavilabride4evah

SFL (lolz)

katiekate1974

mrs.k 07:

diana82:

MrsBatty:

purple_posies:

jillianfries:

She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son. 

Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.

Yeah me too.  She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed. 

You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.

Don't forget she claimed this happened last night, so why she was posting on here for advice instead of calling a lawyer or the cops right away is beyond me. 

Not to mention she seemed more worried about her finances and him taking all of her money because she makes 3x more than him than she was about the safety of her child. 

Hasn't she posted in the past about how he makes more than her?.... Sorry, focus on the kid....focus on the kid....I hope, if her story is true, that she gets him back safely.

mfransdell

kit443:

smellycat15:

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

NO PICK ME!  I'm very knowledgeable. 

I would probably judge AND gossip so don't pick me.

I like the honesty.

mavilabride4evah

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

mavilabride4evah

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

The answer is cfoeverit. Lol

mavilabride4evah

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

The answer is cfoeverit. Lol

dmogmo

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

How's two out of three?

kit443

mfransdell:

I like the honesty.

 

kit443

mavilabride4evah:

mfransdell:

Who here has a toddler in the 18-24mo range, has an awesome memory and won't judge my questionable ways?  I have a question about another bumpie.

The answer is cfoeverit. Lol

HA!

mfransdell

I realized I dont know who to ask, I think ill go with judgey mcjudgerson actually.

katie_cj

mfransdell:

I realized I dont know who to ask, I think ill go with judgey mcjudgerson actually.

 

How did she win? Ask me!

Echowysp

katiekate1974:

mrs.k 07:

diana82:

MrsBatty:

purple_posies:

jillianfries:

She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son. 

Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.

Yeah me too.  She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed. 

You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.

Don't forget she claimed this happened last night, so why she was posting on here for advice instead of calling a lawyer or the cops right away is beyond me. 

Not to mention she seemed more worried about her finances and him taking all of her money because she makes 3x more than him than she was about the safety of her child. 

Hasn't she posted in the past about how he makes more than her?.... Sorry, focus on the kid....focus on the kid....I hope, if her story is true, that she gets him back safely.

I know that TB likes to create zooomg kind of post drama, but isn't it entirely possible that the reason she's talking about the details of a divorce and not the 'safety of her child' because her dh isn't some axe murder who is going to boil his son's bones?

Heck, I wonder if there'd be this much concern if a mom left with her kid after a fight.  Again, I get that the guy is a jerk, but as someone who was raised by a very loving (to me) alcoholic father, I understand that alcoholic doesn't always = danger to the child's safety.

mfransdell

Alrighty Kit you have a partial PM...direct me to who would have more info if you know anything.

kit443

mfransdell:

Alrighty Kit you have a partial PM...direct me to who would have more info if you know anything.

Replied - actually I just thought of something to add so give me one sec.

nolebride

Well this erupted into a wild post. I just wanted to know what happened. I think Erino has some serious drama in her life but I sure hope all 3 of them are ok. Sounds like some family therapy is needed stat.

katiekate1974

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

mrs.k 07

Echowysp:

katiekate1974:

mrs.k 07:

diana82:

MrsBatty:

purple_posies:

jillianfries:

She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son. 

Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.

Yeah me too.  She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed. 

You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.

Don't forget she claimed this happened last night, so why she was posting on here for advice instead of calling a lawyer or the cops right away is beyond me. 

Not to mention she seemed more worried about her finances and him taking all of her money because she makes 3x more than him than she was about the safety of her child. 

Hasn't she posted in the past about how he makes more than her?....Sorry, focus on the kid....focus on the kid....I hope, if her story is true, that she gets him back safely.

I know that TB likes to create zooomg kind of post drama, but isn't it entirely possible that the reason she's talking about the details of a divorce and not the 'safety of her child' because her dh isn't some axe murder who is going to boil his son's bones?

Heck, I wonder if there'd be this much concern if a mom left with her kid after a fight.  Again, I get that the guy is a jerk, but as someone who was raised by a very loving (to me) alcoholic father, I understand that alcoholic doesn't always = danger to the child's safety.

She stated many times that she was worried about her LO being in the care of her IL's & here MIL having many health issues. 

BUT, the fact that he was yelling/fighting with her while he was holding LO, then refused to leave him there - yes, I think she should be more worried about her child's safety than how she was going to keep him from getting alimony from her.  

 If this was the opposite situation and the mother was unstable like he is and the father was worried about the care his LO was getting - you bet I'd be concerned for that LO.

1SwtWld

katiekate1974:

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

 

yeah, but I'd never let DH storm off with G, much less he let me storm of with her.  It's not a mature thing to do at all.  If the child isn't at risk, then the adults can work it out.  Even if it means one of them leaving to cool down.  taking LO away is taking it to a whole other level. 

And I didn't read the OP either. But still.  I have a hard time justifying taking off with LO like that.

mfransdell

katiekate1974:

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

I knew a DD would be coming, it's Erino! I copied it if you'd like.

katiekate1974

mfransdell:

katiekate1974:

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

I knew a DD would be coming, it's Erino! I copied it if you'd like.

Oh, my love, I would!

kit443

It could be totally possible that she is the nut and he is trying to do what he thinks is best for N. We can't make that call - all we have is her side. It is a shiity situation no matter how you spin it.

1SwtWld

katiekate1974:

mfransdell:

katiekate1974:

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

I knew a DD would be coming, it's Erino! I copied it if you'd like.

Oh, my love, I would!

Inquiring minds want to know!

1SwtWld

katiekate1974:

mfransdell:

katiekate1974:

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

I knew a DD would be coming, it's Erino! I copied it if you'd like.

Oh, my love, I would!

Inquiring minds want to know!

Echowysp

mrs.k 07:

Echowysp:

katiekate1974:

mrs.k 07:

diana82:

MrsBatty:

purple_posies:

jillianfries:

She deletes everything. They got into a fight and he left with the son. 

Oh sh!t. That would scare the p!ss outta' me.

Yeah me too.  She on the other hand, seemed pretty relaxed. 

You know, the more I think about that, the more I think I would have been hunting up a good lawyer instead of posting on the bump if my husband had split with my kid. But that's just me.

Don't forget she claimed this happened last night, so why she was posting on here for advice instead of calling a lawyer or the cops right away is beyond me. 

Not to mention she seemed more worried about her finances and him taking all of her money because she makes 3x more than him than she was about the safety of her child. 

Hasn't she posted in the past about how he makes more than her?....Sorry, focus on the kid....focus on the kid....I hope, if her story is true, that she gets him back safely.

I know that TB likes to create zooomg kind of post drama, but isn't it entirely possible that the reason she's talking about the details of a divorce and not the 'safety of her child' because her dh isn't some axe murder who is going to boil his son's bones?

Heck, I wonder if there'd be this much concern if a mom left with her kid after a fight.  Again, I get that the guy is a jerk, but as someone who was raised by a very loving (to me) alcoholic father, I understand that alcoholic doesn't always = danger to the child's safety.

She stated many times that she was worried about her LO being in the care of her IL's & here MIL having many health issues. 

BUT, the fact that he was yelling/fighting with her while he was holding LO, then refused to leave him there - yes, I think she should be more worried about her child's safety than how she was going to keep him from getting alimony from her.  

 If this was the opposite situation and the mother was unstable like he is and the father was worried about the care his LO was getting - you bet I'd be concerned for that LO.

I don't know about the ILs, but again, yelling while holding the child and then her letting him go with the child (that was the impression I got from the OP, maybe I was wrong), still doesn't mean freak out and call the cops like some people are suggesting.  Only she knows how her dh is and it's easy to sit back and say how you'd act in a similar situation.  I know I've had not-so-proud moments where I've yelled at dh while holding ds as a baby and stormed off in a huff.  Granted, I didn't end up going anyway, but if I had, even if i went to my mom's, my dh would be a nut to call the cops and accuse me of kidnapping like some had mentioned here.  

lkaylee721

Jen&Carl:

katiekate1974:

mfransdell:

katiekate1974:

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

I knew a DD would be coming, it's Erino! I copied it if you'd like.

Oh, my love, I would!

Inquiring minds want to know!

lkaylee721

Jen&Carl:

katiekate1974:

mfransdell:

katiekate1974:

I can't quote you echo... But I see your point. I didn't read the original post, just this one. I ASSumed, based in this, there was a question of his safety. However, Erino has a history of having stories that don't add up. I was reminding myself that that wasn't as important if the child was at risk. But if he's not.....

I knew a DD would be coming, it's Erino! I copied it if you'd like.

Oh, my love, I would!

Inquiring minds want to know!