Just curious, what is your child's bedtime and what time do you get them up for school?
My 8YO daughter goes to bed at nine and I get her up around 6:30. This really works for her and I even occasionally let her stay up in 15 minute increments for privileges. On the other hand, I also take away 15 minute increments for bad behavior and choices!
I used to try to force her to go to bed at 8 and it was ALWAYS an awful struggle; crying, arguing, getting up, etc. Then something just clicked and I started letting her staying up til 9 to prove to me she could be a big girl and the struggle was over! Apparently that's just the time that worked for her and she wasn't tired at 8.
Re: Bedtime
My children are now going to bed at 9pm(ages 10 & 7). They get up on school days at 7am.
DS is in bed at 8:30, asleep at 9:30, and wakes up at 6:40. (bus gets here at 7:09)
I used to make him sleep earlier, but this schedule works perfect for him. No more fighting and fussing, and he usually puts himself to sleep. (and wakes himself up)
On weekends, we are a lot more lenient about bedtime.
My kids go to bed fairly early for their age.
We go upstairs around 7:30 to read. I'm usually out of their room by 7:45. They are allowed to stay up reading or coloring if they want but they have to be in their room. They generally go to sleep by 8/8:30. Weekends they sometimes stay up until 9. They are 7 and 5.
They are up between 7 and 7:30 am. They get up on their own. We don't leave for the bus until 8:30 so they could sleep later if they wanted. The 5 year old is a morning person and tends to wake the 7 year old up.
Newlyweds since 2007
DS, age 6, is in bed between 8 and 8:30, and can read 1 story before turning out his lamp.
DD, age 10, is in bed around 8:30, but can read for up to an hour.
My kids usually get up at 6, sometimes 7, depending on my schedule.