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Can't bring myself to cancel RE appointment

Gregsbride22Gregsbride22 member
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We had an appointment with the RE on November 3rd since we were having issues TTC.  Since this doctor is pretty hard to get into anyway, I can't bring myself to cancel the appointment b/c I keep thinking I may need the appointment if something happens with this pregnancy.  I hate fear!
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Re: Can't bring myself to cancel RE appointment

  • Daisy22Daisy22 member

    You are pregnant and will be having a baby. Be positive I know its hard to do right now but you need to be.

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  • rosebud78rosebud78
    My personal opinion is don't cancel! Use it as a consultation. Ask the RE all your questions about your previous loss(es), trouble TTC, and ask if he'd be willing to tak you on as a patient anyway (if you want more attentive care than a regular OB). Just explain exactly what happened with the new PG happening while you were waiting to see him/her, but that you wanted to keep your appointment with him anyway.
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  • PeggyFinklesteinPeggyFinklestein

    I have some of the same feelings.  But I've found it feels really good to have hope and to live like everything will be OK.  Don't live in fear.

     

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  • sharon2004sharon2004
    Call his office and let them know that you are newly pregnant and would like to keep the appointment.  They can provide you some guidance.
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  • rosebud78rosebud78
    You have every right to talk to a specialist whether or not you become their patient. Fear is just a reality after you have a loss. Talking to the RE will be taking good care of yourself and your fears. [[[hugs]]]
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  • gremaud07gremaud07 member
    Try to stay positive!... I know its hard but you will be ok.
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  • Gregsbride22Gregsbride22 member

    imagerosebud78:
    My personal opinion is don't cancel! Use it as a consultation. Ask the RE all your questions about your previous loss(es), trouble TTC, and ask if he'd be willing to tak you on as a patient anyway (if you want more attentive care than a regular OB). Just explain exactly what happened with the new PG happening while you were waiting to see him/her, but that you wanted to keep your appointment with him anyway.

    Good point!  I think I will keep the appointment.

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  • TheEnglishgirlTheEnglishgirl

    I like rosebud point of view. Or calling them and and asking what to do.

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