Poll....So do you....

homediva · August 2010

...tell your hubby when you you're ovulating, or do you just pounce?

kerivp · August 2010

He likes to know, so I tell him when I'm in my 'fertile period'.

MayBug19 · August 2010

No I don't. For MH, the less he knows, the better.

MrsTran021310 · August 2010

So, far I haven't known for sure that I was ovulating. But, I think I would tell him if he asked. He has been pretty involved in the whole process so far, so I could trust that he wouldn't run and hide if I did tell him. Either way it's up to you.

amandaloren · August 2010

We have been tta and won't be ttc for a couple more weeks. But when I do O, no I will not tell him. (unless he asks then of course I will, otherwise Ill just keep it on the DL) I don't want it to be weird, which I have a feeling it would be for us.

measrn · August 2010

I don't usually volunteer the information, but he will ask sometimes.

CanuckFan03 · August 2010

I'm a pouncer. MEOW.

akalutts · August 2010

He knows. I may have to start keeping that information from him though...

nic5606 · August 2010

Pounce!!! But some times he checks out my opk's so he knows its gettin close.

SweetP Mare · August 2010

Some months yes, some months no...depends on how he's feeling. He hates it when sex becomes a "that time of the month" chore, but sometimes he does ask when we get to have baby sex.

megnwingate · August 2010

I usually tell him, but if he is gone to work he knows why I'm coming to see him. It's kind of weird that he tells his boss (which is weird since it is my uncle) and he gets off of work when I go and see him Wink

MegZRN · August 2010

Like a PP said-I don't announce it, but he asked the other day and I said "I think so!" I'll stick with that approach!

red1976 · August 2010

I don't make an announcement or anything but he usually knows. He asks sometimes.

ProcrastinatingBride · August 2010

For the first couple of cycles, I just pounced. But now he's getting more interested in the science of it, so I'm telling him more details.

Everybody's different, though. Some women have mentioned their Hs having performance anxiety, which MH seems not to have.

RachiCakes · August 2010

He always asks

I feel bad when he asks "is this baby making sex or just the regular kind?"

lol

rickisue80 · August 2010

MH is a chart stalker like you wouldn't believe. No need to tell him anything. He checks my chart more than I do I think! hahaha Ahhh I love that man (good thing too, since I married him!) lol

btaylor19 · August 2010

I think I will tell my DH if I O at first, and if it seems like its too much pressure then I will lay off, but I think he really wants to be involved in the process

siba1119 · August 2010

I tell him when my fertile time is, but usually pounce immediately after. Stick out tongue

SoonToBeJennT · August 2010

I tell him, "I can have babies now" Smile

Lkat17 · August 2010

He usually has a vague idea of what's going on, as I'll give him the heads up a little bit ahead of time. This month he actually asked, "So, when's your pregnancy time this month?" haha

homediva · August 2010

"MEOW...." Love it! I think I'll go the pouncing route! But I think it's super cute that some of your hubbys are so involved, especially the chart stalker hubby! CUTE!

brookelynpaisley · August 2010

I try to just pounce, but it's usually pretty obvious when I pounce 3-4 days in a row Stick out tongue

Temp878586125009588 · August 2010

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. He doesn't care either way.

itsallablur · August 2010

Well he's always up for some lovin', but he likes to know when it "really counts".

cvl105 · August 2010

I just told him that this is the week to do it. haha

emmypants · August 2010

He knows. And we are aiming for EOD. And we keep it funny, I refuse to make it all about a baby. And he looks at my chart and sometimes gets confused. Wait, he is sitting here and said "No I don't I just don't know what your abbreviations mean" hahaha

emmypants · August 2010

ProcrastinatingBride:
For the first couple of cycles, I just pounced. But now he's getting more interested in the science of it, so I'm telling him more details.
Everybody's different, though. Some women have mentioned their Hs having performance anxiety, which MH seems not to have.

I've heard that too and I don't want him to feel like he has to or I'll be angry. I've seen some posters [on other boards] get pissed and scream at their H. Um yeah, that'd totally put me in the mood too. NOT! To each their own, but damn...

steff13914 · August 2010

I tell him! He always asks how my temps are, so I assume he is interested in it all! If I ever to get to the point where I'm not spotting at 10dpo, I will keep him in the dark for the end of the 2ww, but for now he knows all, so he can comfort me!

MrsPBNJ0220 · August 2010

I keep him up to date on it all. I believe he is going through this just as much as I am. He is actually the one who wakes me up every morning for my temps. He normally ask how they are doing,

! I try to involve him as much as possible!

punkymama · August 2010

MayBug19:
No I don't. For MH, the less he knows, the better.

This.

mdiblasi10 · August 2010

He likes to know, so yes. He asks about it all too. He even asks what my temp is each morning

Noreen and Chris · August 2010

This was my first time and I let him know because I was excited to actually O but I don't think he gets as excited as I do, he just wants to have sex. He said he will get excited when I get a BFP