Poll....So do you....

homediva

...tell your hubby when you you're ovulating, or do you just pounce? 

kerivp

He likes to know, so I tell him when I'm in my 'fertile period'. 

MayBug19

No I don't.  For MH, the less he knows, the better. 

MrsTran021310

So, far I haven't known for sure that I was ovulating.  But, I think I would tell him if he asked.  He has been pretty involved in the whole process so far, so I could trust that he wouldn't run and hide if I did tell him. Either way it's up to you.

amandaloren

We have been tta and won't be ttc for a couple more weeks. But when I do O, no I will not tell him. (unless he asks then of course I will, otherwise Ill just keep it on the DL) I don't want it to be weird, which I have a feeling it would be for us.

measrn

I don't usually volunteer the information, but he will ask sometimes.

CanuckFan03

I'm a pouncer.  MEOW.

akalutts

He knows. I may have to start keeping that information from him though...

nic5606

Pounce!!! But some times he checks out my opk's so he knows its gettin close.

SweetP Mare

Some months yes, some months no...depends on how he's feeling.  He hates it when sex becomes a "that time of the month" chore, but sometimes he does ask when we get to have baby sex.

megnwingate

I usually tell him, but if he is gone to work he knows why I'm coming to see him. It's kind of weird that he tells his boss (which is weird since it is my uncle) and he gets off of work when I go and see him

MegZRN

Like a PP said-I don't announce it, but he asked the other day and I said "I think so!" I'll stick with that approach! 

red1976

I don't make an announcement or anything but he usually knows. He asks sometimes.

ProcrastinatingBride

For the first couple of cycles, I just pounced.  But now he's getting more interested in the science of it, so I'm telling him more details. 

Everybody's different, though.  Some women have mentioned their Hs having performance anxiety, which MH seems not to have.

RachiCakes

He always asks

I feel bad when he asks "is this baby making sex or just the regular kind?"

lol

rickisue80

MH is a chart stalker like you wouldn't believe. No need to tell him anything. He checks my chart more than I do I think! hahaha Ahhh I love that man (good thing too, since I married him!) lol

btaylor19

I think I will tell my DH if I O at first, and if it seems like its too much pressure then I will lay off, but I think he really wants to be involved in the process

siba1119

I tell him when my fertile time is, but usually pounce immediately after.

SoonToBeJennT

I tell him, "I can have babies now"

Lkat17

He usually has a vague idea of what's going on, as I'll give him the heads up a little bit ahead of time. This month he actually asked, "So, when's your pregnancy time this month?" haha

homediva

"MEOW...." Love it! I think I'll go the pouncing route! But I think it's super cute that some of your hubbys are so involved, especially the chart stalker hubby! CUTE! 

brookelynpaisley

I try to just pounce, but it's usually pretty obvious when I pounce 3-4 days in a row

Temp878586125009588

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. He doesn't care either way.

itsallablur

Well he's always up for some lovin', but he likes to know when it "really counts".

cvl105

I just told him that this is the week to do it. haha

emmypants

He knows.  And we are aiming for EOD.  And we keep it funny, I refuse to make it all about a baby.  And he looks at my chart and sometimes gets confused.  Wait, he is sitting here and said "No I don't I just don't know what your abbreviations mean"  hahaha

emmypants

ProcrastinatingBride:

For the first couple of cycles, I just pounced.  But now he's getting more interested in the science of it, so I'm telling him more details. 

Everybody's different, though.  Some women have mentioned their Hs having performance anxiety, which MH seems not to have.

I've heard that too and I don't want him to feel like he has to or I'll be angry.  I've seen some posters [on other boards] get pissed and scream at their H.  Um yeah, that'd totally put me in the mood too.  NOT!  To each their own, but damn... 

steff13914

I tell him! He always asks how my temps are, so I assume he is interested in it all! If I ever to get to the point where I'm not spotting at 10dpo, I will keep him in the dark for the end of the 2ww, but for now he knows all, so he can comfort me!

MrsPBNJ0220

I keep him up to date on it all.  I believe he is going through this just as much as I am.  He is actually the one who wakes me up every morning for my temps.  He normally ask how they are doing, !  I try to involve him as much as possible!

punkymama

MayBug19:

No I don't.  For MH, the less he knows, the better. 

This.

mdiblasi10

He likes to know, so yes. He asks about it all too. He even asks what my temp is each morning

Noreen and Chris

This was my first time and I let him know because I was excited to actually O but I don't think he gets as excited as I do, he just wants to have sex. He said he will get excited when I get a BFP

kjgilhoo

He asks, so I tell him!  

branleigh84

 I usually just pounce. If he's tired, sometimes he will ask, if he "needs" to! LOL!

JenandMike71809

I give him a heads up!

audrey79

I tell him the "special week" when he's going to be getting some every night... that's about it. 

MCH77

CanuckFan03:

I'm a pouncer.  MEOW.

This is me.  DH does not stand a chance during FWP days. 

 

 

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heatherinokla

Eh....I think he's got it figured out, but I try not to let on that it's O time.

JandJ-A

I pounce.  He doesn't know, he doesn't care.  He calls it "practicing."

byrne15

he knows way more about O'ing, CM, HPTs, OPKs and various other things then he probably should....   ooops

LauraElizabeth85

I usually just tell him.